It is beta to the beta. According to the article, it was developed by a woman as a means of strengthening marriages. The primary focus was on men. She suggested women also do it for the sake of "equality."
This is prima facie evidence that the practice is for betas.
Let's try withholding alimony and child support payments from women as a way to strengthen marriage. Women should also participate for equality.
The purpose of sex is to orgasm. You can "carezza" with your woman after you bust a nut.
Just the name makes me want to throw up. It's not beta, it's omega. Think 70s style vegan hippy.
In the article it states "A Dutch scientist described it this way," she says, "He said, 'I've looked at brain scans of people climaxing and they remind me of people shooting heroin.' "So what goes up must come down." using that logic, we should never be happy since we have to be sad, we should never eat, since we`ll be hungry...Treating your entire life as foreplay and never achieving climax, is to mediate but never wanting to reach nirvana...So "is this beta"...it's not even man, you have to be a man before you can be beta or alpha...
Honestly, I LOVE slow, gentle sex with minimal pounding and lots of cuddling. But purposefully avoiding the orgasm (which comes naturally, just after a longer amount of time) is idiocy.
It's also one of my sticking points with yourbrainonporn.com (which recommends it) - it's such a great site that's right on many issues, but that one is just pretentious.
""They wake up every single morning and they are not even thinking about genital stimulation. They are snuggling, holding and breathing with eye contact and flow. It's very conscious - from the genitals to the heart"
Well that sounds beta as fuck.
"Robinson says abstaining from orgasms helps people avoid a biochemical "hangover," in which dopamine levels in the brain rise at climax, then crash down.
"A Dutch scientist described it this way," she says, "He said, 'I've looked at brain scans of people climaxing and they remind me of people shooting heroin.'"
This part is actually kind of interesting though. I often do feel a little strung out and depressed after an orgasm, especially if it's a good one.
I once told a girl I wanted to try it having read about it.
She said it was weird and thought I wasn't as attracted to her anymore.
Since then, I've always made having an orgasm a priority - wouldn't want those girls to be insecure.
(07-24-2012 10:31 AM)Kitsune Wrote: [ -> ]I once told a girl I wanted to try it having read about it.
She said it was weird and thought I wasn't as attracted to her anymore.
Since then, I've always made having an orgasm a priority - wouldn't want those girls to be insecure.
Girls love you to give you an orgasm and feel like they are turning you on so much that you're pounding them like a beast. Maybe with a long-term monogamous partner I'd experiment with lengthy, gentle love-making, but so far...I'm good.