http://www.rooshvforum.com/ Wed, 07 Jan 2009 06:58:11 -0600 MyBB http://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-473.html Tue, 06 Jan 2009 21:03:31 -0600 I_Affe http://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-473.html
I purchased your book and enjoyed it immensely. While a lot of what you said is common sense, e.g. don't invest in the girl too much when you're just starting to get to know her, make your physical intentions known in the beginning, etc. it pays to hear it, especially when one's mind is not in its most rational state. Regardless, I have a question about a date I was on recently.

I went out for coffee with a girl last night, a girl I met at a bar last week. We were both a little drunk when we met, but we, as well as my friend and a friend of hers ended up going back to her place the bar closed. The girl and I flirted quite a bit there, but nothing besides that happened. My friend and I left after about an hour. I called her later and scheduled a date at a coffee shop. I followed your advice from Bang and had just light-hearted informational conversations. I tried to venue-change to a bar down the street after an hour, she thought about it for a minute, but declined. We continued talking and she ended the date about 15 minutes later.

Outside the coffee shop we hugged, I initiated, but she gave me the "friendship hug". You know the kind where the torsos touch, but the waist and below stick out away from the person you're hugging. She said that we should do it again sometime. I said I'd call her and wished her a good night.

My question is, do I write this girl off or do I pursue a second date? One where I can kino a bit more. We sat across from one another at the coffee shop, as only tables were open when we sat down.]]>
I purchased your book and enjoyed it immensely. While a lot of what you said is common sense, e.g. don't invest in the girl too much when you're just starting to get to know her, make your physical intentions known in the beginning, etc. it pays to hear it, especially when one's mind is not in its most rational state. Regardless, I have a question about a date I was on recently.

I went out for coffee with a girl last night, a girl I met at a bar last week. We were both a little drunk when we met, but we, as well as my friend and a friend of hers ended up going back to her place the bar closed. The girl and I flirted quite a bit there, but nothing besides that happened. My friend and I left after about an hour. I called her later and scheduled a date at a coffee shop. I followed your advice from Bang and had just light-hearted informational conversations. I tried to venue-change to a bar down the street after an hour, she thought about it for a minute, but declined. We continued talking and she ended the date about 15 minutes later.

Outside the coffee shop we hugged, I initiated, but she gave me the "friendship hug". You know the kind where the torsos touch, but the waist and below stick out away from the person you're hugging. She said that we should do it again sometime. I said I'd call her and wished her a good night.

My question is, do I write this girl off or do I pursue a second date? One where I can kino a bit more. We sat across from one another at the coffee shop, as only tables were open when we sat down.]]> http://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-471.html Mon, 05 Jan 2009 05:33:54 -0600 julio26 http://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-471.html So I spent New Years Eve in Budapest and stayed there 3 days.
First of all, I have to say that it was maybe a bad choice to go there in winter. It was quite cold as a wave from Russia arrived 2 days before. I didn't except that and I hadn't the appropriate equipment.
I visited a few things but the 31st everything or almost was closed.

The city is pretty, especially the part close to the Danube. You can visit beautiful places like the Parliament or the Basilica.
The bridges are also cool.
Maybe one of the coolest thing are the thermal spa all accross the city. You can find a lot of them with different temperatures baths (from 16 degrees to 70 degrees).


Now regarding the partys. I went to 2 clubs and 1 bar. The first club (Moulin Rouge) was quite bad. Hot chicks were in the VIP part with some hungarian rich boys and you couldn't get closed to them. They were maybe 70% of men and 30% of women. I met an hungarian hot chick. She was smiling to me and invited me to dance. When I told her I wasn't hungarian she totally lost her interest in me and looked disappointed. I thought foreigners would have a better reputation but that wasn't the case with her. She then told me goodnight and left with her friends.

The second club (Studio) was amazing. Maybe the best club I ever been to. It was huge, with 3000 persons. It was for the 31st so the club was full. There were a huge number of hot chicks. You couldn't make 3 meters without seeing a hot girl. I saw a lot of perfect 10s.
Problem is, as it was the 31st, most of the girls were accompanied by their hungarian boyfriends. The others single ladys were not so easy since they don't speak a good english. With the music it's almost impossible to start a conversion in this place and the only game that works there is to start dancing with the chick hopping she will like it.
We were approached by some chicks but they were quite ugly (like 5-6).
Another thing I noticed, hungarian guys take a lot of drugs. There was an amasing line in the bathroom and the boys entered at 3 or 4 to sniff things.
This club is located on an island on the Danube. Actually on this island you can find 4 or 5 clubs so you can change. For example at 6am you have the official after party/breakfast in another club.

Cost of life: It's obviously cheaper. You can eat in a good restaurant for 10€. Menu burger King: 3-4€
Cost of beer in a bar: 1€
Vodka in a club: 4€
Only bad point: the taxis. Maybe because we were strangers but a 10min taxi trip = 40€ !

I would recommend Budapest but definitely not during this period. If you have to go there, go from April to October when the weather is nice and you can walk in the city without feeling like a Mister Freeze.
It must be really hot in those clubs during the summer...]]> So I spent New Years Eve in Budapest and stayed there 3 days.
First of all, I have to say that it was maybe a bad choice to go there in winter. It was quite cold as a wave from Russia arrived 2 days before. I didn't except that and I hadn't the appropriate equipment.
I visited a few things but the 31st everything or almost was closed.

The city is pretty, especially the part close to the Danube. You can visit beautiful places like the Parliament or the Basilica.
The bridges are also cool.
Maybe one of the coolest thing are the thermal spa all accross the city. You can find a lot of them with different temperatures baths (from 16 degrees to 70 degrees).


Now regarding the partys. I went to 2 clubs and 1 bar. The first club (Moulin Rouge) was quite bad. Hot chicks were in the VIP part with some hungarian rich boys and you couldn't get closed to them. They were maybe 70% of men and 30% of women. I met an hungarian hot chick. She was smiling to me and invited me to dance. When I told her I wasn't hungarian she totally lost her interest in me and looked disappointed. I thought foreigners would have a better reputation but that wasn't the case with her. She then told me goodnight and left with her friends.

The second club (Studio) was amazing. Maybe the best club I ever been to. It was huge, with 3000 persons. It was for the 31st so the club was full. There were a huge number of hot chicks. You couldn't make 3 meters without seeing a hot girl. I saw a lot of perfect 10s.
Problem is, as it was the 31st, most of the girls were accompanied by their hungarian boyfriends. The others single ladys were not so easy since they don't speak a good english. With the music it's almost impossible to start a conversion in this place and the only game that works there is to start dancing with the chick hopping she will like it.
We were approached by some chicks but they were quite ugly (like 5-6).
Another thing I noticed, hungarian guys take a lot of drugs. There was an amasing line in the bathroom and the boys entered at 3 or 4 to sniff things.
This club is located on an island on the Danube. Actually on this island you can find 4 or 5 clubs so you can change. For example at 6am you have the official after party/breakfast in another club.

Cost of life: It's obviously cheaper. You can eat in a good restaurant for 10€. Menu burger King: 3-4€
Cost of beer in a bar: 1€
Vodka in a club: 4€
Only bad point: the taxis. Maybe because we were strangers but a 10min taxi trip = 40€ !

I would recommend Budapest but definitely not during this period. If you have to go there, go from April to October when the weather is nice and you can walk in the city without feeling like a Mister Freeze.
It must be really hot in those clubs during the summer...]]> http://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-470.html Sun, 04 Jan 2009 17:38:15 -0600 studmuffin http://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-470.html ]]> ]]> http://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-469.html Sun, 04 Jan 2009 17:36:07 -0600 studmuffin http://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-469.html ]]> ]]> http://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-468.html Sun, 04 Jan 2009 00:16:44 -0600 Demitrios http://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-468.html http://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-467.html Sat, 03 Jan 2009 02:58:25 -0600 zorgon http://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-467.html
Thoughts:
1. Get up and simply lead her there.
2. Escalate where you are.
3. Avoid the situation in the first place. Pull the girl straight to the bedroom, assuming that if she's OK with hanging out at your place with no one else around, she has already accepted that sex is a likely outcome.
4. Have a flimsy excuse to bring her to the bedroom. Something like "Let's watch [movie]." or "You have to see my [whatever]."

(1) is what I did, and it worked, but I could imagine it not working if the girl had some doubts. I could imagine a girl resisting (3) also.

As for (2), I don't know about you guys but a regular size couch, that's a little small. I'm tall.

As for (4), I currently don't have much of anything in my bedroom other than my bed. Both my TV and speakers are out in my living room. From the bedroom, you can hear music playing in the living room from the speakers, but it's not very loud.]]>
Thoughts:
1. Get up and simply lead her there.
2. Escalate where you are.
3. Avoid the situation in the first place. Pull the girl straight to the bedroom, assuming that if she's OK with hanging out at your place with no one else around, she has already accepted that sex is a likely outcome.
4. Have a flimsy excuse to bring her to the bedroom. Something like "Let's watch [movie]." or "You have to see my [whatever]."

(1) is what I did, and it worked, but I could imagine it not working if the girl had some doubts. I could imagine a girl resisting (3) also.

As for (2), I don't know about you guys but a regular size couch, that's a little small. I'm tall.

As for (4), I currently don't have much of anything in my bedroom other than my bed. Both my TV and speakers are out in my living room. From the bedroom, you can hear music playing in the living room from the speakers, but it's not very loud.]]> http://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-466.html Fri, 02 Jan 2009 19:52:34 -0600 elguapo http://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-466.html
Any ideas on getting an apt there? Craigslist?

Also what are the Visa issues for US citizens: ie how long can an American stay in Brazil after getting the Visa?

I would like to stay there like 3-6 months maybe more.]]>
Any ideas on getting an apt there? Craigslist?

Also what are the Visa issues for US citizens: ie how long can an American stay in Brazil after getting the Visa?

I would like to stay there like 3-6 months maybe more.]]> http://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-465.html Fri, 02 Jan 2009 18:07:56 -0600 broken http://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-465.html Venice for 2 days
Florence for a day and a half

Went right after X-mas
- tourists weren't everywhere
- if you're in a tourist spot, most everyone else is as well
- Italian chicks aren't particularly hot in the winter time
- only go to Venice with a girl that you're seeing (that's who i went with) It's seriously a place to 'seal the deal"
- Venice generally is cool as hell
- Milan was aight, very industrial
- Florence seemed a little small to me, but the food there was the best (steak 2 nights in a row!!)

I saw a bunch of cool old school architecture, but the trip really ended up about me and her (which is cool, just in a different way)

Eastern European chicks can be quite hot.]]> Venice for 2 days
Florence for a day and a half

Went right after X-mas
- tourists weren't everywhere
- if you're in a tourist spot, most everyone else is as well
- Italian chicks aren't particularly hot in the winter time
- only go to Venice with a girl that you're seeing (that's who i went with) It's seriously a place to 'seal the deal"
- Venice generally is cool as hell
- Milan was aight, very industrial
- Florence seemed a little small to me, but the food there was the best (steak 2 nights in a row!!)

I saw a bunch of cool old school architecture, but the trip really ended up about me and her (which is cool, just in a different way)

Eastern European chicks can be quite hot.]]> http://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-464.html Thu, 01 Jan 2009 23:27:57 -0600 mogaka http://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-464.html this girl I like at school. Well she is one of those 'popular' girls and my
crush on her started last year and I never got the courage to tell her how I
felt. Sadly, my friends decided to make the move for me and I'm guessing this
wasn't the best look for me. After a while, I gathered up some courage and
decided to talk to her and tell her what the whole deal was about. I told her
that she was cute and I was kinda scared to talk to her. Her reaction was very
pleasing as she smiled and told me that she is a very easy person to talk to and
I shouldn't be scared. She also knew that I rapped and requested that I rap a
love song for her-I did so and she said it was amazing. After chatting a little,
class ended and once in a while said hi to her in the hallways. Later on I
decided that it was time to get her phone number and she willingly gave it to me
with a smile and all that good stuff. Later that night I decided to text a
'hey' and I got one back but she did not reply right after I said
'what's up'. After the non reply, I decided to give up and not try to talk
to her. Now Rarely when we talk she usually has this smile on her face and
gives me complements like "you're amazing" etc. I still really like her
but I don't know how to make a second move after the first one failed. Can you
give me some advice on what to do?]]> this girl I like at school. Well she is one of those 'popular' girls and my
crush on her started last year and I never got the courage to tell her how I
felt. Sadly, my friends decided to make the move for me and I'm guessing this
wasn't the best look for me. After a while, I gathered up some courage and
decided to talk to her and tell her what the whole deal was about. I told her
that she was cute and I was kinda scared to talk to her. Her reaction was very
pleasing as she smiled and told me that she is a very easy person to talk to and
I shouldn't be scared. She also knew that I rapped and requested that I rap a
love song for her-I did so and she said it was amazing. After chatting a little,
class ended and once in a while said hi to her in the hallways. Later on I
decided that it was time to get her phone number and she willingly gave it to me
with a smile and all that good stuff. Later that night I decided to text a
'hey' and I got one back but she did not reply right after I said
'what's up'. After the non reply, I decided to give up and not try to talk
to her. Now Rarely when we talk she usually has this smile on her face and
gives me complements like "you're amazing" etc. I still really like her
but I don't know how to make a second move after the first one failed. Can you
give me some advice on what to do?]]> http://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-462.html Thu, 01 Jan 2009 18:30:52 -0600 Demitrios http://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-462.html ]]> ]]> http://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-461.html Thu, 01 Jan 2009 07:52:09 -0600 khang http://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-461.html
she shows very good interest.

but guess what.

through her talk....she sounds a gold digger.

she knows that i have a business of cars,and now she is asking for a favour that she needs a car.

its almost 90 percent proved to me (through her talk) that she is a money grabing and she might not have interest in my personality.

but iam not quiting talking to her...because all i want a close fuck deal with her....she sounds agree...but on the other hand..she is demanding.

what should i do?....should i straight away tell her that iam not that kind of guy who support girls financially and roll over all my cards?

or should i stop responding?
or should i continue?
the reason iam still stick with her because i think 'what if she is not gold digger?'

any help would be appreciated.

also,please tell me how to recognize that girl is actually interested in YOU and not a gold digger or she is a gold digger.]]>
she shows very good interest.

but guess what.

through her talk....she sounds a gold digger.

she knows that i have a business of cars,and now she is asking for a favour that she needs a car.

its almost 90 percent proved to me (through her talk) that she is a money grabing and she might not have interest in my personality.

but iam not quiting talking to her...because all i want a close fuck deal with her....she sounds agree...but on the other hand..she is demanding.

what should i do?....should i straight away tell her that iam not that kind of guy who support girls financially and roll over all my cards?

or should i stop responding?
or should i continue?
the reason iam still stick with her because i think 'what if she is not gold digger?'

any help would be appreciated.

also,please tell me how to recognize that girl is actually interested in YOU and not a gold digger or she is a gold digger.]]> http://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-459.html Wed, 31 Dec 2008 08:42:12 -0600 Swagger http://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-459.html
PS: Roosh , are you doing a workshop in the NYC area anytime?]]>
PS: Roosh , are you doing a workshop in the NYC area anytime?]]> http://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-458.html Tue, 30 Dec 2008 22:43:05 -0600 NerdBoy http://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-458.html
I'm terrible at meeting women. That little voice in the back of my head saying "naw, not her, she's too pretty. Not her either, she's walking her dog. Don't even think about that one, she's obviously engrossed in that mocha latte" is the bane of my ever lovin' existence. But if I can manage to get past that and have an actual conversation with a girl I can (depending on my mood and amount of liquid courage imbibed) ACTUALLY HOLD HER INTEREST.

Which brings me to the crux of my issue; I'm remarkably selective about the kind of woman I'm attracted to. If, during said CONVERSATION, she's less than engrossing I suddenly find myself uninterested. If she's as bright as a lightbulb dipped in tar my interest dwindles until I wander off to find something more fun. I live in College Station, TX, an area filled to bursting with hot sorority girls decked out in hot pink tank tops that rise just enough to show their tramp stamp and not a single one of them has a thought in their peroxide soaked head. I have witnessed men stumble out of a bar and literally trip in to a 5'5" buxom slice of hotness and not a single one of them do anything for me. If a girl aspires to own a dog small enough to carry in a purse I just don't give a damn.

So is this something I need to work on? Do I need to press past whatever conceited part of my mind that says "ugh, she doesn't know who Bacchus is?" to get more comfortable meeting women? Should I try to run game on only women I'm interested in, even though they're the minority?

Looking back I think I come off a little pompous. I don't mean to imply that I'm more intelligent than most women. Mostly it's an issue of the density of the "omiGAWD" valley girls in my area.]]>
I'm terrible at meeting women. That little voice in the back of my head saying "naw, not her, she's too pretty. Not her either, she's walking her dog. Don't even think about that one, she's obviously engrossed in that mocha latte" is the bane of my ever lovin' existence. But if I can manage to get past that and have an actual conversation with a girl I can (depending on my mood and amount of liquid courage imbibed) ACTUALLY HOLD HER INTEREST.

Which brings me to the crux of my issue; I'm remarkably selective about the kind of woman I'm attracted to. If, during said CONVERSATION, she's less than engrossing I suddenly find myself uninterested. If she's as bright as a lightbulb dipped in tar my interest dwindles until I wander off to find something more fun. I live in College Station, TX, an area filled to bursting with hot sorority girls decked out in hot pink tank tops that rise just enough to show their tramp stamp and not a single one of them has a thought in their peroxide soaked head. I have witnessed men stumble out of a bar and literally trip in to a 5'5" buxom slice of hotness and not a single one of them do anything for me. If a girl aspires to own a dog small enough to carry in a purse I just don't give a damn.

So is this something I need to work on? Do I need to press past whatever conceited part of my mind that says "ugh, she doesn't know who Bacchus is?" to get more comfortable meeting women? Should I try to run game on only women I'm interested in, even though they're the minority?

Looking back I think I come off a little pompous. I don't mean to imply that I'm more intelligent than most women. Mostly it's an issue of the density of the "omiGAWD" valley girls in my area.]]> http://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-457.html Tue, 30 Dec 2008 09:09:43 -0600 Gundam31 http://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-457.html http://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-455.html Tue, 30 Dec 2008 01:08:28 -0600 b-ball23 http://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-455.html
I am a college student who will be studying abroad in London, England next semester (January-May). I'll be leaving in 3 weeks and I will be in Europe for nearly 5 months taking 4 classes 2 days a week. So, I will have a lot of free time. I have two goals in mind: 1) get laid as much as possible, 2) see as much of Europe as I can. While I want to visit every major country, I will be spending most of my time in London. I want to go all out this semester so for those who have been there and can give me advice I would love to hear what you guys think. From what I've read on here, it's hard to hook up with British women but London is such a big city and fuck it's Europe so I will not allow myself to make excuses for not hooking up with a woman.

One advantage I do have is that I have a friend who is European and I will be traveling with him throughout Europe on numerous trips. He knows multiple languages and will be a great wing man...our first trip looks like St. Patty's Day in Dublin, Ireland so I am hoping it will be filled with crazyness. I have facebook - don't use it as much as I used to, but I have joined a couple of London clubbing groups b/c I know clubbing is big and how hard it is to get into the top clubs.

Anything guys...comments, suggestions, cities I should hit up for most action, or advice. Pumped for the trip!]]>
I am a college student who will be studying abroad in London, England next semester (January-May). I'll be leaving in 3 weeks and I will be in Europe for nearly 5 months taking 4 classes 2 days a week. So, I will have a lot of free time. I have two goals in mind: 1) get laid as much as possible, 2) see as much of Europe as I can. While I want to visit every major country, I will be spending most of my time in London. I want to go all out this semester so for those who have been there and can give me advice I would love to hear what you guys think. From what I've read on here, it's hard to hook up with British women but London is such a big city and fuck it's Europe so I will not allow myself to make excuses for not hooking up with a woman.

One advantage I do have is that I have a friend who is European and I will be traveling with him throughout Europe on numerous trips. He knows multiple languages and will be a great wing man...our first trip looks like St. Patty's Day in Dublin, Ireland so I am hoping it will be filled with crazyness. I have facebook - don't use it as much as I used to, but I have joined a couple of London clubbing groups b/c I know clubbing is big and how hard it is to get into the top clubs.

Anything guys...comments, suggestions, cities I should hit up for most action, or advice. Pumped for the trip!]]> http://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-454.html Mon, 29 Dec 2008 18:04:20 -0600 mlucasone http://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-454.html