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Girls Cheating on Their Boyfriends
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Girls Cheating on Their Boyfriends
I'm in this odd deal. I met this chick, I totally need to walk away, but I'm just thrown for a loop here. I've been banging this girl for about four weeks. She gives all the IOI's i could ask for, but shit has started to fade over the last two or three days and thats mostly has to do with me kind bitching.

But anways, I can't get over how this chick is just straight up cheating on her boyfriend with me. I guess what just kinda shocks me is that she is SO concerned he is going to find out, but continues to bang me. Its almost sociopath behavior. The guy came to town a few weeks back and I banged her the day he arrived and when he left, she came over that night. Just crazy.

I guess what wigs me out is that she talks to him everyday and makes it totally known to me that she is not leaving him. The guy doesn't live in town and she is from out of town and is moving back there in a month or so, I guess, what I"m looking for is some perspective. Why? I'd like to think I'm a decent looking guy, but I'm no fool, i'm not some chiseled six pack guy. I do alright with women, but it just blows my mind how this chick bangs me, but is very worried about her boyfriend.

I guess I shouldn't care, but over the last week its bothered me. I'm starting to feel like a pseudo boyfriend, so I told her that its cool to hang out, but we need to tone this down. I like banging her, but part of me feels really fucking stupid acting like we are boyfriend girlfriend.

What do you think is up with her? how do you explain her actions? If she is unhappy in a relationship, wouldn't she just dump him? just crazy i guess.
10-26-2009 09:03 PM
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RE: Girls Cheating on Their Boyfriends
Come on.

Are you really complaining?

Dating girls with boyfriend is almost a perfect situation: http://www.thegmanifesto.com/2007/09/dat...iends.html

"What do you think is up with her? how do you explain her actions? If she is unhappy in a relationship, wouldn't she just dump him?"

I learned a long time ago that it is futile to try and understand girls.

Just roll with it.

And get out there and swoop other girls.

I also learned a long time ago that the only way to solve girl "problems" is to swoop more girls.

(If what you are having could ever be considered a "problem")

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10-26-2009 09:15 PM
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RE: Girls Cheating on Their Boyfriends
When I broke up with my girlfriend, she still slept with me afterwards on demand. She even found a new boyfriend, and kept sleeping with me when I was in town.

When you think about it, I mean outside of your own emotional/moral radius (if you can distance yourself from it for a few minutes), it's really not all that unusual.

You can like many things passionately, no? I know I personally can feel passion for a few girls at the same time. Same thing for a girl.

In fact, my ideal situation would be to a stable girlfriend, and a few mistresses on the side. This girl seems to have you as her "master" which is male form of "mistress." In other words, she is doing what any other guy would do in her situation if he could.
10-26-2009 09:29 PM
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(10-26-2009 09:03 PM)yoyo Wrote:  I'm starting to feel like a pseudo boyfriend, so I told her that its cool to hang out, but we need to tone this down.

That's not good.

It's not cool to "hang out" either. Sex and that's it. Maybe let her sleep over. No breakfast.

She has the boyfriend to get all of the boyfriend related handholding and talking about problems nonsense crap she needs. Make it clear it's sex and nothing else.

As always, take the G's advice. Don't try to get into their heads.

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10-26-2009 09:29 PM
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charmer Offline
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i am not sure what you are asking here.

the reason she is banging you is because she is not meeting her psyhical needs by her bf,or she is indulged into cheating,or she needs a change..but any reason...who cares????

you are a volunteer for her,if shes not leaving her bf for you,then she will leave YOU one day.

its impossible to understand all aspects of women psychology,do not give a shit...just bang her more or leave..choice is yours,

whatever you do...just DON'T GET EMOTIONALY INVOLVED !
10-27-2009 02:14 AM
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Warning. If you start to act more aloof, she may lean more towards you than her boyfriend. Do not take the bait.
10-27-2009 10:54 AM
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yoyo Offline
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Thanks for the advice and heads up. I'm def going to keep hitting it, but I need to take a step back from the neediness. I think its starting to leak into my game. What I need more than anything right now is a few more chicks in the pipeline. Nohthing keeps you more aloof than a couple of kittys on the side. When I first started tagging it, I had two other chicks on the hook. I kinda bailed on them because they were both kinda busted. I need to just create more options and just keep it chill.

Still kinda wigs me out sometimes that she is just blantly cheating on her boyfriend. Whatever I guess.
10-27-2009 11:40 AM
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Women generally don't just dump a guy before they have a nice landing spot to go. If it makes you feel any better, she is probably with another guy or two besides you. She is just getting her safety net all set up before she cuts the cord. Its just evolution at work if you think about it. Women left alone in the jungles generally didn't fare well.
10-27-2009 02:19 PM
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The best way to keep away a low-self esteem women is to smother her with love and attention. You want to get rid of her? call her every day just to say "hi I miss you".
12-16-2009 12:12 PM
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yoyo, you need to learn that monogamy is a sexual perversion.
12-16-2009 12:15 PM
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RE: Girls Cheating on Their Boyfriends
(10-27-2009 02:19 PM)mulhollanddriven Wrote:  Women generally don't just dump a guy before they have a nice landing spot to go. If it makes you feel any better, she is probably with another guy or two besides you. She is just getting her safety net all set up before she cuts the cord. Its just evolution at work if you think about it. Women left alone in the jungles generally didn't fare well.


(10-26-2009 09:15 PM)thegmanifesto Wrote:  I learned a long time ago that it is futile to try and understand girls.
Just roll with it.

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12-16-2009 03:05 PM
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RE: Girls Cheating on Their Boyfriends
Needieness is the problem! Yes!
Im in the exact same boat, her BF has no clue Im banging the fuck outta her and yet she tells me that she cares about me but will never leave her BF. No Im her plaything she just doesnt want t feel guilty so she tells me things to make her feel justified like she really likes me and why cant she like two people the same.

It is a game and if guys like u and me are going to mess with a woman who has the ability to lie to her loved one then we better be able to handle it. But it is so fun and hard, to want to buy into the idea she might leave her BF for you. Damn it...yeah yer right, find some other action on the side to keep yerself grounded or else you will get eaten up alive with faulse promisses. Even if she left him would u really trust her? my girl says that she doesnt just cheet on her bf with anyone. I believe her but still i know when she is tired of me that will be the end. damn women!

Im two months into this damn drama and Im loosing it too. Just need to build that skin of leather. grrrr with mine I cant just make it about sex only...kinda have to play the BF game with her without expectations or entitlements...fucking like begging for scrap but the shit is so damn good grrrrr so good.

some one tell me when does it end? when she ripps out my heart or I get tired of her. damn it

Want to keep her, want to leave her....damn damn damn
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07-30-2010 02:21 AM
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One thing I really would like to know is :
What is the percentage of girls who once cheated on their BF/husband while she says she loves him in a country like the US or any other developed country.
Would be interesting to know since the more I meet girls, the more I date married girls, girls engaged in LT relationships...

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07-30-2010 03:05 AM
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women cannot be trusted
07-30-2010 06:37 AM
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(07-30-2010 06:37 AM)Badstuber Wrote:  women cannot be trusted

that sums it all!

Yesterday i was talking my best friend, a hot female who i have banged intermittently for 10 years. She has the best ass on Earth.

She married a great, great guy with low sex drive in january this year, they are happy, but i was chattin her that i would like to bang her anytime in the future. She said that while she is married and happy with the husband, she won't, but maybe in the future we will bang again...

So, i don't believe with her sex drive, she will remain faithful for much more than a year, i told her, and she says she right now just feeds herself from men desiring her, that is enough.


All in all, we both know each other pretty well and i know for sure when she gets mad or upset with the hubby, one her first punishments will be to go on a cheating rampage, she is weak and women are.

So no matter what, just keep banging her and as many other as you can.

Hell, i have my finnish gf and probably future wife, but i am banging many other women on the side, it keeps things interesting, she won't accept that i need more women than my loved one, so i just cheat, i asked politely to allow me to sex more women, she got mad, I don't want to loose her but i need constant renewal of pussy experience..

and i feel just fine!
07-30-2010 09:36 PM
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Exactly!
07-31-2010 06:08 AM
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(07-30-2010 09:36 PM)lilactag Wrote:  i need constant renewal of pussy experience..

Ummmm....like yeah, don't we all? Dodgy
07-31-2010 08:29 AM
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smarika Offline
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Its really awful to hear about your friend lilactag.
But you cant blame girlfriend only. in some case boyfriend do have faults.
I really done meant to say girls don't have mistakes, girls do have but its really mean to say that only girls are untrustworthy.
Both girls and boys are equal.
Whatever they do is for their benefits.
08-01-2010 08:21 AM
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