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I can't orgasm.
The title pretty much says it all. Lately I have not been able to cum while having sex. It's nice being able to last but I mean eventually I just want to bust in/on the girl. I have been wearing "Fire and Ice" condoms as of late, perhaps this could be the reason why? Perhaps related is that I haven't been ableto achieve a full strength boner as of late. I get about 85% of the way there, but I'm missing those last few percentages that give you a dick that is rock hard. Any one know why/care to help? I'm 18 years old so I know its not low t. Please help I just wanna jizz already.
07-08-2012 06:06 PM
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RE: I can't orgasm.
Raw God Commandment #1:
Thou shalt not spit the Lord's game in vain: Go raw.
07-08-2012 06:30 PM
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RE: I can't orgasm.
Are you on any meds? Could be a side effect.
07-08-2012 06:36 PM
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RE: I can't orgasm.
Second this if you want to get it out already, I don't condone raw dog sex because catching a kid would be worse than getting an STD.

Since you are 18 I am going to assume it is a fitness issue. The lower your body fat the faster you'll go, once you get to sub 5% body fat should be easy. If it still doesn't work go see a dr.


(07-08-2012 06:30 PM)basilransom Wrote:  Raw God Commandment #1:
Thou shalt not spit the Lord's game in vain: Go raw.
07-08-2012 06:56 PM
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(07-08-2012 06:56 PM)WestCoast Wrote:  The lower your body fat the faster you'll go, once you get to sub 5% body fat should be easy.

5% BF is insanely low, and may not even be attainable without drugs. I'm not a doctor, but I'd guess with sub-15% body fat, your body fat is not a contributor.
07-08-2012 07:08 PM
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RE: I can't orgasm.
could be a number of things. I agree with basilransom on this one (although it's extremely irresponsible advice to have unprotected sex). I usually just take off the condom and go raw if I'm having trouble finishing. Raw-dogging never fails... Fire & Ice condoms are awful. The tingling sensation was unpleasant for me.

If I'm banging a chick and it's taking me a while to finish, what helps me is to focus really hard on something that turns me on about the girl (focus on her tits if they are nice). That, and contract every muscle in your lower body and squeeze your PC muscles. This might sound bizarre, but it works.. especially if you're getting a mediocre blow job.

It's also possible that you're just not that turned on by these girls you're banging. Bang a girl that you're REALLY into, then come back with the question..
07-08-2012 07:11 PM
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RE: I can't orgasm.
Do you watch a lot of porn and did you start watching it at a young age? That could be it, check out http://www.yourbrainonporn.com for more info.
07-08-2012 07:17 PM
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RE: I can't orgasm.
Sure sub 5 is low, mine is at 6.5%.

Point is if you're fat though you'll unlikely be able to jizz quickly because your flow of blood to your dick is much weaker. This is the reason why alcohol causes "whiskey dick". If you're in shape you can go much longer when you're drunk versus sober.

Based on his post I am taking a stab and saying he's not in great cardio shape, impacting blood flow, impacting sex.

(07-08-2012 07:08 PM)basilransom Wrote:  
(07-08-2012 06:56 PM)WestCoast Wrote:  The lower your body fat the faster you'll go, once you get to sub 5% body fat should be easy.

5% BF is insanely low, and may not even be attainable without drugs. I'm not a doctor, but I'd guess with sub-15% body fat, your body fat is not a contributor.
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(07-08-2012 07:37 PM)WestCoast Wrote:  Sure sub 5 is low, mine is at 6.5%.

Point is if you're fat though you'll unlikely be able to jizz quickly because your flow of blood to your dick is much weaker. This is the reason why alcohol causes "whiskey dick". If you're in shape you can go much longer when you're drunk versus sober.

Based on his post I am taking a stab and saying he's not in great cardio shape, impacting blood flow, impacting sex.

(07-08-2012 07:08 PM)basilransom Wrote:  
(07-08-2012 06:56 PM)WestCoast Wrote:  The lower your body fat the faster you'll go, once you get to sub 5% body fat should be easy.

5% BF is insanely low, and may not even be attainable without drugs. I'm not a doctor, but I'd guess with sub-15% body fat, your body fat is not a contributor.

Yeah, I have heard that erectile dysfunction can be a symptom of poor health/fitness.

Personally, I probably have the same issue. Maybe too much porn and wanking over the years is the cause. I just go raw. I tend not to fuck low class chicks who dont care about getting preggo, or if I do I pull out. That doesn't address STDs of course.
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RE: I can't orgasm.
Do you guys that have this issue have the same problem when masturbating?
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RE: I can't orgasm.
It's the condoms. I last forever on condoms. Try using larger condoms and condoms with a pouch at the end (like trojan ecstasy), they've worked better for me. If a condom is too small, it can restrict blood flow and making coming harder. The fact you have a hard time with condoms probably discourages you and reduces your boner also.
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RE: I can't orgasm.
1) Cut the porn.
2) Cut the porn.
3) Hit the weights 2-3 times a week, do high-intensity sprints once weekly.
4) Cut out all processed carbs, grains, simple sugars.
5) Do kegel exercises for men.

Follow that for 3 months and get back to us.
07-08-2012 08:56 PM
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RE: I can't orgasm.
hes 18 years old. it has to be the condoms, unless he's ridiculously out of shape. switch up the condoms. use spermicidal lube inside and outside the condom. or smoke weed before you fuck.

Never heard of ED in someone so young. Maybe you should go see a doctor.
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07-08-2012 09:47 PM
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RE: I can't orgasm.
Check your hydration level also. Pick up a bottle of horney goat weed with maca. It works and is cheap. And stop banging fugly girls with busted pussies.

Checkout the masculine gear thread. Always be prepared.
07-08-2012 09:49 PM
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RE: I can't orgasm.
I'm not out of shape at all, I just graduated high school where I plated varaity football and lacrosse and I'm doing ROTC at college next year. I'm in outstanding shape body fat is around 7% (I have a six pack and its visible). Not a problem with the girl at all, she is really fucking hot. Do you think exhaustion could be an issue? My summer job is basically ditch digging outside for 8-10 hours a day and I run 30 miles a week in addition to weights Mon/Wed/Fri. Porn is not an issue, I rarely watch porn. I'm not gonna go rawdog this girl isn't on birth control and I'm not looking to deal with a kid or abortion right before I go to college.

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RE: I can't orgasm.
"Delayed Orgasm"

Is it a physical thing? Did you go to get a dick exam?

If not, it's probably anxiety related. Almost all "sexual dysfunctions" are a result of anxiety.

Cumming "too" fast? It's probably because your body doesn't want to be in the presence of the girl.

Not cumming at all? It's probably because you don't trust her or the situation on a subconscious level.

Or maybe you have so over-arching anxiety about the world that's preventing you from cumming.

Resurrecting Sex
is a good book about sexual in-congruities.

When a woman asks for your opinion, she doesn't really want your opinion.
She wants to hear her opinion, in a deeper voice.
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RE: I can't orgasm.
Yes you are exercising too much, when you start going to high end athletic training such as running 70-80 miles a week your sex drive falls off. If you are doing that much working out it impacts you. Pretty much your call, try no porn at all no jerking off and no running. If you can't get it going after that go see a doctor.

(07-08-2012 11:03 PM)MHaes Wrote:  I'm not out of shape at all, I just graduated high school where I plated varaity football and lacrosse and I'm doing ROTC at college next year. I'm in outstanding shape body fat is around 7% (I have a six pack and its visible). Not a problem with the girl at all, she is really fucking hot. Do you think exhaustion could be an issue? My summer job is basically ditch digging outside for 8-10 hours a day and I run 30 miles a week in addition to weights Mon/Wed/Fri. Porn is not an issue, I rarely watch porn. I'm not gonna go rawdog this girl isn't on birth control and I'm not looking to deal with a kid or abortion right before I go to college.
07-09-2012 12:01 AM
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RE: I can't orgasm.
First of all: Were you having good sex with this girl before the problems started? Or were the problems present from the first day you banged her?


Could be just bad sexual chemistry. It's happened to me before.



Next guess: Try going raw. See if you can cum faster. Just remember to pull out.

If going raw doesn't fix your problems, then you might need a doctor.
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That's too bad fag lips. You better cum more.

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You might be over working your body. Try to get more sleep as you can allow yourself to get. Maybe take some meletonin to give your self a better more rested sleeps, also take in more healthy fats like coconut oil, EVOO you might be low on them. If you have been fuking this bitch for a while raw dog with her and just pull out, that should hopefully solve the issue since your saying your healthy.
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RE: I can't orgasm.
I had a similar problem like this last year, I deduced it was the result of a diet change and a lack of sleep. I doubled my protein intake, hit the gym, and got at least 6 hours sleep, within 2 days I was back to normal

given what you said, it could be anything from the body's natural rhythm to the girl just not being that great looking. You're only 18, the odds that you have a serious problem are slim to nill
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(07-09-2012 12:01 AM)WestCoast Wrote:  Yes you are exercising too much, when you start going to high end athletic training such as running 70-80 miles a week your sex drive falls off. If you are doing that much working out it impacts you.

Co-sign. Pushing your body to the limit will kill your sex drive. I've gone just over a month with zero sex drive (no fap challenge without even trying!) because of the exertion I was putting my body through. Cut out the running but stick to your weight training because of the testosterone boost.

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Girls can be bitchy, illogical and emotional, sure, but only if you're holding them to male standards. They can still compliment your life and be a lot of fun to spend time with.
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(07-08-2012 06:56 PM)WestCoast Wrote:  Since you are 18 I am going to assume it is a fitness issue. The lower your body fat the faster you'll go, once you get to sub 5% body fat should be easy. If it still doesn't work go see a dr.

This is terrible advice. Competitive bodybuilders are sub 5% while they are ON STAGE. Your average person at 10-12% body fat will be ripped and have a six pack.

How did you determine you were 6.5% body fat? Did you use calipers? How many places did you measure? Did you use a Bodpod, or other underwater weighing option?

You are throwing out a ridiculous amount of bro-science in your workout posts, and it is largely wrong.


http://www.bodybuilding.com/fun/body_fat_categories.htm

Quote:Finally there is the risky stage; less than 5% body fat for males and less than 15% body fat for females. At this point the individual is setting themselves up for a number of negative health consequences and could even risk death by staying at these extremely low levels for an extended period of time. In females, reproduction often ceases when body fat is at this level, setting you up for problems down the road.
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RE: I can't orgasm.
I should be more careful about my wording too bad amost my posts are majority mobile.. I am not suggesting he goes to 5%. I am at 6.5% because I got tested in water, I have high connections because I used to be close o a professional endurance athlete.

Anyway my point for young guys is:

1. Super high end endurance and working out causes lower sex drive
2. Extremely overweight people have sex issues as well

So I was trying to find what kind of body/lifestyle he had. Running 30 miles and working out physically 10 hours a day is likely taking him into category 1.

Make sense?

When I was biling 4 hours a day and doing yoga and basically getting into crazy endurance shape, my sex drive dropped off a cliff. This is where it looks like he is going

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(07-08-2012 06:56 PM)WestCoast Wrote:  Since you are 18 I am going to assume it is a fitness issue. The lower your body fat the faster you'll go, once you get to sub 5% body fat should be easy. If it still doesn't work go see a dr.

This is terrible advice. Competitive bodybuilders are sub 5% while they are ON STAGE. Your average person at 10-12% body fat will be ripped and have a six pack.

How did you determine you were 6.5% body fat? Did you use calipers? How many places did you measure? Did you use a Bodpod, or other underwater weighing option?

You are throwing out a ridiculous amount of bro-science in your workout posts, and it is largely wrong.


http://www.bodybuilding.com/fun/body_fat_categories.htm

Quote:Finally there is the risky stage; less than 5% body fat for males and less than 15% body fat for females. At this point the individual is setting themselves up for a number of negative health consequences and could even risk death by staying at these extremely low levels for an extended period of time. In females, reproduction often ceases when body fat is at this level, setting you up for problems down the road.
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RE: I can't orgasm.
I had this problem for a long while with drunk one night stands. Probably 50% of the time.

Two things:

1) Don't drink so much alcohol.
2) Screw hotter girls.

That's my take.

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