Hi Roosh,

I had a bit of an odd experience a little while back where I had gamed this girl the first night I met her and subsequently hooked up with her that same night. She seemed really interested in me and I met up with her the following week and one thing led to another and we ended up sleeping with each other. Now to the fucked up part after that she decided not to call or talk to me because she somehow felt that things had progressed to far and I had taken advantage of the fact that she had really liked me and didn't want things to progress to quickly. I don't understand what the fuck caused her to be so childish and not speak to me about it.

I'm thinking it was because she truly liked me and wanted more of a relationship and not just the physical aspect so quickly. But in my opinion if 2 people are interested in each other than having sex can become a result of that attraction and treating it as a bad thing if it happens early on seems so ridiculous to me.

Do you think she overreacted and if so is it something I should take into consideration when I am with other girls? Thanks.

Clearcut, This has happened to all of us a few times. My opinion is that sometimes girls regret sleeping with you, they just feel slutty about the whole experience, or they simply changed their mind about you. Or like Roosh says sometimes they just want random sex and they literally don't want to see you again. You really never know what these broads are thinking. I was having awesome sex with a girl for a few months and then one day she calls me and says "we gotta stop cause i'm living for Jesus now". If she doesn't want to hangout with you anymore, find another one. I bet she texts you in 2 months and says "how are you?" ....then you can "re-swoop" (like G says)

That is why you should never expect more than the sex you are currently having. Women are hormonal and changy, just keep many of them at hand's reach and you will be fine.

What Giovonny says is true all the way, best thing to do with girls that are flakey at any point is to show them you can careless because you have more.

I would tell you about a current soon to be banged girl and how she has been playing/unplaying with me, to the point that i just ignore her now that she reacts and calls me at any random time. I will bang her one day that I am around her neighbourhood, just call her, tell her to get ready and not much.

PLay, play, ignore, play, ignore, ignore and suddenly make a fast attack..

that is the tactic with some of these girls..

the only one thing which dominates a woman over a man in our world is 'pussy'..and when she loses it to a man,she has no power at all now because the man took the only one dominance factor which she had once.

how would you behave if you feel powerless?

that is what most of the girls do when they end fucking.

these are just 'consequences' or you can call 'side effects' of a sweet pill. and should be vanished after some time

no worries,chill pill.

Chill, take it cool, don't have emotional conversations about this stuff.

Girls want to be valued and want to feel exclusive and they also get asked by their family and friends about their love life-- and family and friends usually want their girls to be in a relationship, the older they are, the more this happens.

So occasionally the girl will go through a particularly rough family interrogation, or a friend of hers will make her feel insecure, and you get the "no more sex" bomb. Which, like real bombs, is best for you to disarm.

Figure out how to disarm it or avoid it until she regains confidence.

Or find another girl. If these girls want a relationship and you're not giving it to them, don't mislead them into sticking around forever in the hopes that you will reform. You can always get more girls who aren't at that point.

Oh yeah, and the sex thing, it is a turning point in a relationship, especially if you're slow about getting laid so there's buildup before hand. The point where you have had sex with a girl is the point where they lose power that they can't get back. This stems from some sort of ridiculous, but advantageous belief that novelty is everything and that after sex they have nothing new to offer. Play it well.

And remember, its opposite, after a woman has had your child, that is a very dangerous time that you have to navigate carefully. So there's some recompense.

I think you read more into the sex than she did. If a girl cuts off contact with you like that there is no game move... it's simply over.

(02-09-2010 12:52 AM)Roosh Wrote:  I think you read more into the sex than she did. If a girl cuts off contact with you like that there is no game move. it's simply over.

true that !

but i am a witness that girls took 'u-turn' after breaking up with me like that only if i have already banged them.

(02-09-2010 12:52 AM)Roosh Wrote:  I think you read more into the sex than she did. If a girl cuts off contact with you like that there is no game move... it's simply over.

Thank you to Roosh and everyone else who responded, I personally thought that it too was over when she decided to cut contact with me but wasn't sure if it was a mistake on my part or if girl are generally fucked up like that.

ide say you got gamed my friend