RE: Bang Colombia is now out
Night game and opening groups: You can open groups by dancing one song with a girl in the group. It's a pretty standard way to get to know new people. Latin music is usually designed for dancing as a couple. Many girls will welcome the invitation. They'd prefer dancing instead of sitting around and watching the action.
When you've been dancing with only one target, a reggaeton song is a chance to get the rest of her group dancing all together in a circle. Her uglier friends getting less attention will appreciate the chance to dance a bit. They'll be happy you thought to include them. This gels you better in the group, raises your value and reduces cockblock issues later in the night.
Asking them to pose for photos will raise the energy level as you're engaging a new group. Colombianas love photos!
Observe what a Colombian guy does when he reaches out to meet a guy at another table. More often than not, he just offers up a shot of liquor from the bottle to the other guy in a friendly way.
Getting her to your place: Roosh suggests a line "Would you like to come back to my place for a drink?" I would make this more specific. Earlier in the night, ask her what she most enjoys drinking. When the time comes to invite her to your place, you now know exactly how to frame it.
Your invite her to drink a cocktail you make with her favorite booze, drink tequila shots, a bottle of champagne... Whatever you established ahead of time that she likes.
Listening to music or watching a film is another good pretext. Remember that Colombian homes always have the TV in the bedroom. Now when you begin watching the movie, you're already lying down beside her in bed.
If it turns out your apartment has an extra TV in the living room, rearrange things ahead of time. You want it to be so that the only available DVD or home theatre is set up in the bedroom.
Music: Listen to music in the bedroom, too. No matter if the stereo system is in the living room, say you want to listen to live concert DVDs. You can buy those in the street beforehand for a couple of bucks each. Get Aventura, a salsa and merengue mix or whatever.
Music is a great way to build emotional state.
Roosh talks about how your date breaks off the conversation to sing along with her favorite song until it's finished. That is right on the money.
Colombians pay a lot of attention to lyrics and the feeling behind the song. They like to feel the emotions that it stirs up.
Obviously, this is very useful if you want to build sexual tension. Doubly useful for guys who don't speak Spanish so well but do know the right songs to play. You're leaning back sipping on a whisky and meanwhile Marc Anthony is doing all the work getting your girl warmed up.
Colombians are not always adventurous when it comes to new styles. You may be tempted to DHV by introducing her to some music you know well. That may work, but it's probably easier to ask her to explain a Latin song to you. What's the message of the song etc.
As Oscar Wilde said: "There are only two kinds of people who are really fascinating - people who know absolutely everything, and people who know absolutely nothing." So be the guy who knows absolutely nothing about this song or that style and get her to walk you through it.
Money and being congruent: Roosh's advice is not to pay for a taxi, because you want her to feel invested in you by paying it herself. I strongly disagree with that. She has already invested plenty by getting dressed up for the occasion, making time in her schedule and dealing with the bus or metro to get wherever you're meeting.
Colombian women are very plugged into the nuances of clothes and outfits and the right level of sexiness. If you suggest she can stay over and take the bus home in the morning, that shows a lack of understanding of her situation. There's no way she wants to take the bus home in the morning in last night's clothes. She probably chose a moderately sexy look for when she comes over to fuck you for the first time, and now you want to send her back on the bus in those clothes at 8 o'clock in the morning. Even if her outfit is not much different from what a regular Colombiana gets around in during the daytime, she will feel everyone judging her for it.
Beside that, she simply may not have the disposable income to pay for a taxi. There could be reasons involved that have nothing to do with how she feels about you. For example, Colombians borrow the money to buy an item and pay it back over two or three monthly installments. Suppose she had all her disposable income committed a month ago due to something she bought before she met you. Now you just put her in an impossible situation and for no good reason.
When she wants to rationalize it, she'll decide it's your fault for not having a car or motorcycle. If you can't offer to drive her around yourself, I recommend just paying for the taxi and don't guilt her about it.
A lot of gringos screw up by not being congruent with money. They invite the girl to hang out at their expensive apartment and then refuse any money for a taxi. Drink only expensive liquor but are stingy with sharing it. Go out to an expensive bar and dress like a hobo.
Try to calibrate your behaviors consistent with a guy who's generous because he likes to enjoy himself with friends. On the other hand, don't be a complete pushover.
You'll be paying her way for any activity that you invite her to. You'll find if she likes and respects you, she'll take the initiative to gift you things. Maybe in ways that don't cost much money. That might be inviting you to lunch at her family's place, paying for the movie ticket on discount night, a token gift or whatever.
A boat is safe in the harbor.
But this is not the purpose of a boat.
~ Paulo Coelho