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Why do some guys have this fetish/fantasy? I can't see the appeal of watching or knowing my girlfriend/wife is getting banged out like a Congo drum by some other dude. Were these unfortunate souls sexually humiliated as a child and somehow their sexuality formed around that one event? Have you ever known someone with a cuckold fetish or have been the 'bull' - The 'Bull' being the guy fucking the other guy's wife.
04-28-2013 12:37 AM
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I never understood this fetish and think it's fucking disgusting, plus has to be the ultimate way to feel emasculated as a man. If I had to guess it has to do with the fact that 90% of adult men in their 20's grew up jerking off to online porn, which overtime maybe has warped people's minds. In porn you are getting aroused and getting off watching two strangers fuck, so it's possible that a guy would get a more intense voyeuristic arousal from watching his girl get fucked by another dude in person. Also I think most dudes who are getting cuckolded have really small penises so they probably have lot's of feeling of shame, inadequency, and low self-esteem stemming from that.
04-28-2013 01:24 AM
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Some like to give, some like to take. Just the way it is. Cannot be objectively analyzed.
04-28-2013 01:36 AM
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(04-28-2013 01:24 AM)OGNorCal707 Wrote:  If I had to guess it has to do with the fact that 90% of adult men in their 20's grew up jerking off to online porn, which overtime maybe has warped people's minds.

Heres where I feel like you might not know what youre talking about.

Only time I ever see anything related to cuckholding. its older dudes. The whole cuckhold porn niche is almost soley older white dude with a black dude banging the wife out.
I dont see young dudes getting into this..unless they are the "bull"
But ive been approached more than once by way past their prime women to be their bull.

But for the record. I have no idea why dudes would be into this.
I would guess its omega level or something.
betas wouldnt wanna watch the wife get banged..but i can see and"omega" thinking he will do whatever makes his wife happy.

*incidentally* I was the bull for a relatively young couple.
husband was early thirties,wife was late thirties.

I would bang his wife out while he would record it.
His wife was a amateur german pin up model.
I wasnt gonna ask the details of why he liked it that way..
He never wanted to join in..just watch.
And he was a mechanic that dealt with export cars...not the type that one would expect to be a cuckhold
but to each,his own

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04-28-2013 03:21 AM
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RE: Cuckold Fetish
Two issues:

Women cheat so guys have evolved methods to deal with it biologically. There's two types of sperm. One type is for reaching the egg, the other is for killing other guys' sperm. After a couple has been apart the man produces more killer sperm. Also, why do so many couples have sex after arguing? Because the chances are higher that one or both strayed recently. Many people say that the post argument sex is the hottest. The prospect of the woman cheating should turn the guy on so he can get some killer sperm in her. Somebody should test the proportion of killer sperm to baby making sperm before and after indications of the woman cheating.

Secondly, if a woman cheats with a guy because the Bull is more studly, that's the worst case scenario. A guy who gets off on it has just turned the biggest lemon into a big glass of lemonade.

With all that, I would bet the guys who are into it suffered emotional trauma as kids.
04-28-2013 05:01 AM
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For the women I know who did this, it's not about cuckolding the man. It's about the man making her a whore who fucks strangers (or select friends) at his command.

I've discussed this with women but never went through with it. The general idea was, though, that they liked the idea of being farmed out to other men (or women) as if they had no choice in the matter. The subservience of it all turned them on. They liked thinking they were sexual animals with no agency and their guy could snap his fingers and say "fuck my friend now!" and they'd have to do it.

Why someone would marry such a woman is the magic question. I had a hard enough time having them come over and not feel like I had to disinfect the entire place. It made for some hot phone sex, though, especially the time I told one that behind the "secret door" there wouldn't be a man but a dog. I kid you not.
04-28-2013 06:17 AM
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(04-28-2013 06:17 AM)Days of Broken Arrows Wrote:  For the women I know who did this, it's not about cuckolding the man. It's about the man making her a whore who fucks strangers (or select friends) at his command.

I've discussed this with women but never went through with it. The general idea was, though, that they liked the idea of being farmed out to other men (or women) as if they had no choice in the matter. The subservience of it all turned them on. They liked thinking they were sexual animals with no agency and their guy could snap his fingers and say "fuck my friend now!" and they'd have to do it.

Why someone would marry such a woman is the magic question. I had a hard enough time having them come over and not feel like I had to disinfect the entire place. It made for some hot phone sex, though, especially the time I told one that behind the "secret door" there wouldn't be a man but a dog. I kid you not.

Good point. Is it cuckold if you pimp her out to another man?

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04-28-2013 08:00 AM
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RE: Cuckold Fetish
One of the big game blogs—probably Roissy—touched on this at some point. The explanation it offered was that sexual arousal in cuckolds is in fact evolutionarily adaptive.

99 out of 100 men who discover their wives or girlfriends cheating don't do so in the context of an orchestrated cuckold fantasy. Instead, they just have the misfortune to walk in on the bitch taking it from another dude. Fucking the girl ASAP gives the cuckold's sperm a chance to edge out the interloper's and get to the chick's egg first. Stalking off in disgust, while perhaps better for the poor guy's dignity, isn't gonna net him many offspring.

As for why the fantasy is most common among schlubby losers, I guess that's because they're the ones most apt to get cheated on, which gives them occasion to realize how "hot" that situation is. And making the "other man" the most exaggerated caricature of masculinity possible (younger, swoll, massive wang) would heighten the competitive feelings that get the cuckold so horned up.

It is interesting how many guys cop to finding Red Pill literature in the wake of some girl cheating on them. That's sorta an alternative to the cuckold fantasy: Instead of fucking the same girl, you learn how to find & fuck a bunch of younger, hotter chicks.

Give it 10,000 years, and a sudden urge to read Roissy and Roosh will become the dominant behavioral phenotype in response to learning that your girlfriend has been hoin' around.

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04-28-2013 08:56 AM
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I didn't follow through, but I was talking with a guy who wanted me to bang his girl. His rationale was that it made him feel like his girl was a pornstar and that seeing her with other dudes was like watching porn and validated that she was highly attractive. It makes some sense. I've used porn while maintaining a gf.
04-28-2013 09:49 AM
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men in to this could also be latent homosexuals - getting off watching hetereo men having sex
04-28-2013 10:05 AM
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(04-28-2013 05:01 AM)JimNortonFan Wrote:  Two issues:

Women cheat so guys have evolved methods to deal with it biologically. There's two types of sperm. One type is for reaching the egg, the other is for killing other guys' sperm. After a couple has been apart the man produces more killer sperm. Also, why do so many couples have sex after arguing? Because the chances are higher that one or both strayed recently. Many people say that the post argument sex is the hottest. The prospect of the woman cheating should turn the guy on so he can get some killer sperm in her. Somebody should test the proportion of killer sperm to baby making sperm before and after indications of the woman cheating.

It's not so much "killer sperm" as it is getting the head of you cock in there to "scoop out" other guys sperm and replace it with yours.

Basically the head your penis, with it bottom rounded edges, acts like a plow, raking up the other guy's jizz. It's also one of the reasons we instinctlvely don't want to come right away. We need to clean up that cervix nice an pretty before we dump OUR load.

The human penis as a semen displacement device

http://www.journals.elsevierhealth.com/p...3/abstract
Quote:Inanimate models were used to assess the possibility that certain features of the human penis evolved to displace semen left by other males in the female reproductive tract. Displacement of artificial semen in simulated vaginas varied as a function of glans/coronal ridge morphology, semen viscosity, and depth of thrusting. Results obtained by modifying an artificial penis suggest that the coronal ridge is an important morphological feature mediating semen displacement. Consistent with the view of the human penis as a semen displacement device, two surveys of college students showed that sexual intercourse often involved deeper and more vigorous penile thrusting following periods of separation or in response to allegations of female infidelity.
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04-28-2013 11:22 AM
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I believe it is referred to as Candaulism. Salvador Dali was famous for this via his Russian wife Gala.
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I read something about this, part of it has been covered before. Another part comes from men who feel they can't satisfy their wife/woman, and feel that them getting some pleasure from another man is better than nothing. It does come from the humiliation that they believe they can't satisfy their wife.

If you google the subject there are some good answers out there.
05-01-2013 09:10 PM
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(04-28-2013 09:49 AM)jmoney29 Wrote:  I didn't follow through, but I was talking with a guy who wanted me to bang his girl. His rationale was that it made him feel like his girl was a pornstar and that seeing her with other dudes was like watching porn and validated that she was highly attractive.

This is a good point. It also explains why so many cuckolds refer to their wife as a "hotwife", even if she is in reality quite far from attractive (old, fat, etc). Validation is a key element here-these guys want to feel like they still have a prize.
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I made this thread because I was recently approached by a couple in their 40's to be their 'bull'. The wife isn't terrible at all considering her mileage, and the guy is your typical beta schalub. Balding, paunch belly, wardrobe dreadfully behind the times (if it was at all stylish at one point).

Normally, I try to conduct myself with at least a modicum of honor, however foolishly idealistic that may be, and I honestly felt that this is something I shouldn't, throwing my lot into the Bernake machine and giving some out-dated carnival ride a final few minutes of more Alpha.

But at this point I'm so jaded and disenfranchised with my life, society, humanity, my job I figure why not; I'll bone some dude's wife, cum inside her, and then make him her out still dripping with my seed - by his request
05-01-2013 09:40 PM
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Don't get caught on film by the dude.
05-01-2013 09:44 PM
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