Post: #1

Guys,

I'm traveling to India for business. Fist time there. I've always thought of India as a conservative culture, so I'm wondering is it worth going out and trying to pull a one night stand while I'm there? Or would this be a long shot, and a waste of time? Does India have much of a night life?

I will be in each of the following cities for a few days each:

Delhi
Jodhpur
Kerala

What do you guys think?

Post: #2

Interested to hear the answer as I have a thing for Indian chicks.

I have had a bunch of ethnic Indian lays in UK and Australia but they were UK / Aussie girls
from an ethnic Indian background.

Actually in India itself I imagine would be another story.

I have never been there (but I will go one day) but I would guess that social circle / social proof would be pretty important so I would say hit up the social networking sights and build up a good circle of indian females and males who want to hang out with you socially while you are in town and take it from there.

Opening sets while socialising should be fairly straight forward if you are socially proofed and I imagine would be pretty hard if by yourself.

Post: #3

You can meet/PU Indian girls no problem, especially the middle class ones who tend to speak English.

One thing, the darker your skin color the harder it is to pick up Indian girls

Post: #4

(02-22-2009 05:43 PM)Branson Wrote:  You can meet/PU Indian girls no problem, especially the middle class ones who tend to speak English.

One thing, the darker your skin color the harder it is to pick up Indian girls

Where would you go to meet them?

What style of game works best?

Post: #5

My brain tells me you'd have to meet cosmopolitan chicks with western influence, so hit the fancier clubs and lounges.

Post: #6

(02-22-2009 05:43 PM)Branson Wrote:  You can meet/PU Indian girls no problem, especially the middle class ones who tend to speak English.

One thing, the darker your skin color the harder it is to pick up Indian girls

Where? I cant find any nights clubs. Nobody knows where they are. I've asked a ton of taxi drivers. I even met an australian guy living here, and he has no clue where to find the night clubs.

Also, I see very few girls out during the day. I just don't see them anywhere. I swear I see 5 guys for every 1 girl. What the fuck? are the mothers hiding their daughters? lol

Yes, light skin is preffered here. In the matrimonial ads (yes they have them here, lol), all the ads describe themselves as "fair skin". I've seen very few fair skinned people here. And I'm in the north. Soon I will travel to the south where they are supposed to be darker.

Skin quality isn't very good here I've noticed. I dont mind somewhat dark skin, but its often blotchy and with blemishes and makes them look like their skin is dirty.

Post: #7

I have to resurrect this thread. I get riled up just hearing PU and India mentioned in the same sentence.

My travel wing has been living in India for six months: without results. Sure he's insanely busy with work, but most girls are very conservative and look like a pile of mud. Still amongst the male population, he is a 6+ feet tall blond god.

The night life sucks ass and many clubs you have to bring your own girl.

Recently he went on a "date" and had to take along a mutual friend to make the event socially acceptable.

Post: #8

(05-19-2009 05:28 PM)travelstobang Wrote:  Recently he went on a "date" and had to take along a mutual friend to make the event socially acceptable.

Yikes. Scratch India off the sex destination list.

I love Indian food and I'm sure it's a really colorful culture, but I have little desire to go to any place full of open sewers, malaria, cholera and terrorism. My uncle who has been there numerous times says he often sees people defecating in the streets. I have friends that have gone there and had a great time, but I'll pass on India for now.

Post: #9

(05-19-2009 07:41 PM)speakeasy Wrote:  Yikes. Scratch India off the sex destination list.

I love Indian food and I'm sure it's a really colorful culture, but I have little desire to go to any place full of open sewers, malaria, cholera and terrorism. My uncle who has been there numerous times says he often sees people defecating in the streets. I have friends that have gone there and had a great time, but I'll pass on India for now.

I'm not convinced there's no sex in India. I used to have an Indian friend, a player type, and he told it really depends who you know and where you go. You not gonna bang chicks waiting for arranged marriage but there's gotta be some play.

You got any cool Indian friends? Not IT dudes.

Post: #10

(05-20-2009 06:19 PM)elguapo Wrote:  

(05-19-2009 07:41 PM)speakeasy Wrote:  Yikes. Scratch India off the sex destination list.

I love Indian food and I'm sure it's a really colorful culture, but I have little desire to go to any place full of open sewers, malaria, cholera and terrorism. My uncle who has been there numerous times says he often sees people defecating in the streets. I have friends that have gone there and had a great time, but I'll pass on India for now.

I'm not convinced there's no sex in India. I used to have an Indian friend, a player type, and he told it really depends who you know and where you go. You not gonna bang chicks waiting for arranged marriage but there's gotta be some play.

You got any cool Indian friends? Not IT dudes.

Actually I am friends with an Indian girl who is really cool, but she's 100% Americanized.

I knew a girl that was living over in India short term and went on a date with some guys. She was saying that if they gave you a hug, they were acting like they scored. And when they went to the beach in a bikini, guys were all peeping and leering like they'd never seen a half-nude woman in their lives. So that should tell you something.

I'm guessing the best chance of getting laid in India is from other foreigners visiting. Especially some humanitarian aid chic from Scandinavia living there who hasn't had sex in months(hmmm, maybe I ought to head to India, lol).

Post: #11

I can't believe nobody has mentioned Goa. Is it possible to land an Indian chick? Yes, but it will take some time, social contacts, and she will want a commitment.

Go to Goa! It is full of Russian girls. It is also a popular destination from the UK. Drunk British chicks are the easiest. Indian is also a popular destination for Israealis, they all end up in Goa as well. In addition you get a good mix of other Europeans. Not only that, Goa has quite a thriving drug culture and beach rave parties, even though the local police are trying to crack down.

The best times to go are from November to about April.

Post: #12

(05-24-2009 02:51 PM)ManAbout Wrote:  Drunk British chicks are the easiest.

And people would travel to India to hook up with drunk British chicks because?

Go to any part of the Spanish coast or any Greek island if you want that. Its closer and cheaper. Does not make the women any less hideous or fugly though.

Post: #13

(05-24-2009 09:40 PM)Lumiere Wrote:  And people would travel to India to hook up with drunk British chicks because?

And where did I say that people should travel to India just to hook up with drunk British chicks. It was just ONE of the options that I presented. If you strike out with the Russians, the Swedes, the Israelis and the Indians, there are always drunk British chicks. Nobody had talked about Goa, so I was telling people about the Goa scene.

I hope that your pick up skills are better than your comprehension skills, because those really suck.

Post: #14

(05-24-2009 02:51 PM)ManAbout Wrote:  Go to Goa!

I had never heard anything about Goa before reading this, but after doing a little research, it looks like a great vacation town. Thanks for this tip.

Post: #15

(05-27-2009 02:30 PM)Eric Wrote:  

(05-24-2009 02:51 PM)ManAbout Wrote:  Go to Goa!

I had never heard anything about Goa before reading this, but after doing a little research, it looks like a great vacation town. Thanks for this tip.

It is actually more than a town. It is a whole state that used to be a Portugese colony till the 1960s. A lot of different beaches up and down the coast. A few years ago drug fuelled beach rave parties were the norm, but things have calmed down a bit. Do a google search for Anjuna Beach, Goa trance, Vagator beach.. you will see what it is like.

Post: #16

(05-26-2009 08:28 PM)ManAbout Wrote:  I hope that your pick up skills are better than your comprehension skills, because those really suck.

This is not my post to get involved with, but there's no need to attack people like this ManAbout. There was just a misunderstanding on the post that's all.

Post: #17

(05-19-2009 07:41 PM)speakeasy Wrote:  

(05-19-2009 05:28 PM)travelstobang Wrote:  Recently he went on a "date" and had to take along a mutual friend to make the event socially acceptable.

Yikes. Scratch India off the sex destination list.

I love Indian food and I'm sure it's a really colorful culture, but I have little desire to go to any place full of open sewers, malaria, cholera and terrorism. My uncle who has been there numerous times says he often sees people defecating in the streets. I have friends that have gone there and had a great time, but I'll pass on India for now.

Skip on the US too huh?

Goa is an awesome place to go from October to April. Not so good now as it starts to get really hot. Otherwise in India its going to be tough to get laid. If you are after Indian chics, best bet is the high end clubs which tend to be in 5 star hotels, or the regions you would find those hotels and restaurants. In Mumbai I would try a few places in Juhu. The girls here tend to be pretty westernized so you may have to put up with posh rich Indians. Otherwise if you aren't fussed about nationality you're looking at ex-pat and traveller type places of which there are many in the main cities nearer the tourist traps.

Post: #18

(05-24-2009 09:40 PM)Lumiere Wrote:  

(05-24-2009 02:51 PM)ManAbout Wrote:  Drunk British chicks are the easiest.

And people would travel to India to hook up with drunk British chicks because?

Go to any part of the Spanish coast or any Greek island if you want that. Its closer and cheaper. Does not make the women any less hideous or fugly though.

I've visited the Spanish island of Ibiza and to the Greek Islands last year, and yup, tons of British chicks (and guys) there. Many of the British chicks actually had nice thin bodies, but few had nice faces.

In the Greek Islands, forget about getting greek girls. They are quite pretty and exotic looking, but they didn't give foreigners the time of day. Anybody have any experience with greek girls?

Post: #19

(05-28-2009 09:33 AM)Blowers Wrote:  In Mumbai I would try a few places in Juhu. The girls here tend to be pretty westernized so you may have to put up with posh rich Indians.

The last God-damn thing I want to deal with is a Posh Westernized Indian Chick. I encountered some of these at a club. The few clubs in india (and there are very few) are expensive. I payed like $40 bucks to get in. Only these "posh" rich girls can afford it. And trust me, you will ask yourself why you flew all the way around the world to get the same American-Princess bitchy-ness, only in a Quicki-Mart accent.

Post: #20

India sucked. For young guys like us, its an awful place. Here are the pro's and cons:

Pros:
- lots of culture & spirituality. Lots of temples. Lots of old shit to see.
- cheap. I got a driver to drive me around Delhi and show me all the sites for 6 hours for $8 (but read the cons, some things are expensive)

Cons
- You will not get laid. Seriously.
- Its dirty & dusty. Significantly more than any other place I've ever been.
- Expensive Hotels (the only decent places to stay are the 4 or 5 star hotels. $200 a night. Anything cheaper and you have the chance of getting your shit stolen, or the bed being to dirty to sleep in)
- Poverty. Lots of it.
- Unhappy culture. The people are very unhappy. Its a vibe thats in the air. I've been to other poor countries (such as thailand and the phillipines) where the people are genuinely happy. Not in India.
- Virtually no nightlife

Post: #21

(06-16-2009 07:43 AM)PartyTime Wrote:  

(05-28-2009 09:33 AM)Blowers Wrote:  In Mumbai I would try a few places in Juhu. The girls here tend to be pretty westernized so you may have to put up with posh rich Indians.

The last God-damn thing I want to deal with is a Posh Westernized Indian Chick. I encountered some of these at a club. The few clubs in india (and there are very few) are expensive. I payed like $40 bucks to get in. Only these "posh" rich girls can afford it. And trust me, you will ask yourself why you flew all the way around the world to get the same American-Princess bitchy-ness, only in a Quicki-Mart accent.

Oh man that's one of the funniest things I've ever read on this site! When I was in Rio, that's the same reason I had no interest in paying a $50 cover to get in one of those clubs where rich Brazilians party, even though the girls were hot.

Post: #22

I don't remember when I paid $20 to get into a club in the u.s., so no way i'm doing it in a foreign country. Only exception is if there is open bar all night.

Post: #23

Hahaha! Having lived in (Mumbai) India for my entire lifespan of 20 years until now, I have to agree with PartyTime's assessment.

You need to have a nice car, cash and adhere to the fucked up social traditions & customs here to have a shot at getting laid for free. It's pretty much a game of pretense and 1upping other people.

The psychology behind this is the Hindu dowry system (wherein the MALE gets paid) and the complete disregard for individuality, especially women's- who are coddled from birth to death & don't really need to expend any effort in anything. This is why the bitchiness & sense of entitlement comes so naturally to most of them.

People born in the 80s and later are more aware & liberal, but very few are real individualists- because the truth is the dowry system still prevails and everyone knows that and takes it as a given. To put it in perspective, if you were a guy who will get 20-50x your annual EBITDA as dowry if you play by the rules (not be promiscuous) why would you try to get laid before/outside of marriage?

There is a small minority of real individualists of course- but unfortunately most of them are stupid. With little going for them other than their chosen genre of Western music (usually rock/metal or hip hop), and an irrational belief in "equality" and helping poor people. These people are like the hippies of India- poor (although they like to call themselves middle class).

Things are changing but it will be a good 20 years from now at minimum for social evolution to the point of recognizing & valuing individual choices.

Until then, prostitutes and if you're lucky...exploiting one of the aforementioned Indian "hippies" is the way to go

Post: #24

Good post Sonny.

A good friend of mine who has amazing game spent 4-5 months in India and failed to get a single lay. Knowing him, that's unbelievable. The guy cleans up every country he goes to. But India was impossible to crack. I'd skip it for girls.

Post: #25

(02-22-2009 05:43 PM)Branson Wrote:  You can meet/PU Indian girls no problem, especially the middle class ones who tend to speak English.

One thing, the darker your skin color the harder it is to pick up Indian girls

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I can't access it anymore but it was at one point everything I wanted from a website.