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long time lurker and first time poster. Recently lived in Japan for a year and thought I'd share my experiences and opinions on Japanese girls with you bros. Dated 3 girls during that time and banged 10 girls in total. I don't cheat and never paid for sex (though regret never trying a soapland) FOR THE RECORD - I cannot speak Japanese. Don't bother learning more than hiragana and some basic phrases as you'll get laid regardless.

Some facts about me -

26 years old. Dress smart, Work out 3x a week, average looking (in my opinion ) but girls have called me handsome before. I don't believe looks should affect any bros game anyways... well, especially not in Asia where it's so easy. I'm pretty chill and good at making girls relax and feel comfortable around me. Sex usually follows.

I don't like clubs. I went there like 3 times in total during my time here. I'm a bar kinda guy. I don't do cold approaches in the day or night, but this is an area of my game I'm trying to improve. Having said that, I'll chat up a girl anywhere if she arouses my interest. I use Tinder, Skout, Language Apps and Okcupid and I've gotten laid from all of those except for OKCUPID. Not sure why.

I'm gonna give a detailed explanation of the girls I banged below. I don't believe in bullshitting so rest assured everything I say is true.

1ST BANG - 25 YEARS OLD - Took me a week to get laid in Japan. But she was an absolute 9. Met her in a coffee shop. Despite what you may have heard about Japanese girls being timid or shy she was pretty confident. She approached me first and asked where I was from etc. We swapped numbers and I was thinking to myself "Japan is looking pretty good!"

She had long sleek black hair and an ass that could crack a walnut it looked so tight. I played the long game and texted her for a while in between a dinner date and a coffee date. After 7 days (and some talk about sex preferences etc) she came to my apartment and I got my first Japanese/Asian flag. The sex was amazing. To this day she was the tightest girl I've ever been with. Was like putting my dick in a clam... felt amazing. Downside - She was shaved bald and I like a bush. My friends said I was crazy for not dating this girl seriously as she was a beauty. But I get bored easily (usually after the 3rd bang) and like to try new girls.

2ND BANG - 23 YEARS OLD - Decided to get on the apps. Used SKOUT and matched with a petite (154cm) Japanese uni student. She was about a 7 but that just makes it easier. I opened with "Why are you on SKOUT?" She replied "To make friends " I countered with "Friends with benefits? " Her response "Maybe. I'm curious. .."

If that wasn't a green light then nothing was. I got her LINE and waited until late at night to text her back. I cut to the chase and asked her what she was doing. "In bed" was her response. I warmed her up with a little flirting and she told me she was wet. I can be pretty direct, so I asked her to show me. "I can't" she responded. "I share a room with my sister and they'll hear the camera sound" *All Japanese made camera phones cannot manually turn off the shutter sound due to perverts taking upskirts*

Still I pressed her gently. "OK. I'll download a silent camera app" she said. Minutes later she was sending downright hot and dirty pics/vids of herself from her bathroom. Over a course of 13 days she would go on to send a total of 40 videos and 80 pictures of herself masturbating with objects and fingers.

Looked like sex was on the cards, but she lived an hour and a half away by train. We arranged a date to meet at a love hotel when we both had free time. We finally met 3 weeks after our first text. We met at the train station and walked to the love hotel which was 15 minute away. Surprisingly, this love hotel had a women at reception, which isn't common in my experience for love hotels. She gave me that typical look which said "Oh! Another foreigner banging a nice Japanese girl again..."

We went to the room and I ran a bath. It was huge. Both my bath and the pressure in my groin. I actually had looked up the girl on Facebook and thought her body was only so so - but man was I WRONG! She had the cutest little ass. .. So small and firm I couldn't wait to get my hands on it. We talked for about 2 minutes and then stripped off. She had tiny breasts, with hard pink nipples. I gave them a bit of attention and she joked that they'd get bigger after I sucked them. Next the pretty white panties came off (I love white underwear on a woman) and there I was - looking at one of the best looking pussies I've seen. It honestly looked like one of those perfect vaginas you see in asian porn movies
After the bath and a blow job I flipped her over and did her doggy style. It felt amazing banging such a petite girl (I'm 6ft tall) and she was absolutely soaking. I guess part of them loves to be dominated by someone bigger. After about 3 hours on and off banging she was still WET! I've never been with a girl who wasn't wet before but this nympho was something else! How is she still horny? She must have came 4 times or so (by her own admission ).

Afterwards she mentioned how next time we could go for a coffee or she could show me around her town. I said maybe, but truthfully I had no intention of that happening. Harsh as it sounds, there is a line between girls I'll bang and those I'll date. I'll only date the best of the best. I met such a girl later.

Some extra information - Was living in Kansai. My next 2 bangs after that were an Japanese teacher of and a university student. If anyone wants to hear about those then let me know.

All men should try the Japanese experience! It's hard - no impossible -to go back to fat, masculine western chicks afterwards.
no pics *clicks back button*
In which city where you living and what did you do there? ( studying, working as a teacher?,..)

Having also spent some time in the country, i have to admit Japan is amazing. It's the whole culture that is unique ( from the crazy ice cream flavours till the sumo wrestlers). It's a country that every men should visit before he dies. Must do's in japan in my opinion: baseball game, sumo wrestling match, eat some of Japan's unique ice creams flavours and japanese food, mount Fuji,..

When it came to girls, they were relatively easy. I did mostly nightgame there. The only thing that was annoying me in Japan was that it was hard to make male japanese friends and that Japan is fucking expensive ( that's the reason i don't go back on short term haha) .
(08-20-2017 02:15 PM)SpursFan741 Wrote: [ -> ]Having also spent some time in the country, i have to admit Japan is amazing. It's the whole culture that is unique ( from the crazy ice cream flavours till the sumo wrestlers). It's a country that every men should visit before he dies. Must do's in japan in my opinion: baseball game, sumo wrestling match, eat some of Japan's unique ice creams flavours and japanese food, mount Fuji,..

Tasting Japanese flavors within some pretty Geisha's mount Fuji... sounds like the right kind of Asian holidays!
Re - Spursfan

I've lived in both Kobe and Osaka. Living in those places allowed me to commute to work pretty easy. Kobe is a great place. Due to its location it's host to a lot of girls from many Asian countries. There's a lot of koreans, Chinese, Vietnamese and Filipina girls about there.

In general I had very few Japanese male friends. Didn't need them tbh. They're pretty much useless as wingmen as they have no game + got jealous when I picked up and they didn't. I've seen Japanese guys here talk and talk and talk with women but never get anywhere. They try to be their friends rather than manning up and making a move. Though this is also in part due to the societies often practiced no PDA social rule.

Doesn't apply to us foreigners though... Fresh of the plane I made out with a J girl in a bar I'd just met (she'd go on to be my 3rd bang) and I realized every single Japanese guy was staring at me. Probably more action then they'd seen in a few years. I guess in the West we move faster cause we know if we don't hook that girl soon then some other guy will. But here girls are used to slooooooooow seduction from local guys. So acting quick, and getting hot and heavy with them fast will have them so excited they'll need to change underwear.

No word of a lie - I pretty much screwed a horny girl outside a closed cafe one late night, and another in a 7/11 toilet. Good times. ..
Many a good man has fallen prey to the yellow fever.

It's hard to go back to the old, flabby, cranky, tired white market afterwards....
How expensive is it there? That's the only country I want to go to in Asia
Japan is not a cheap country to live in unlike the Philippines or Vietnam. You should have a bankroll first or plan on finding work there, which isn't easy to do. Second tier cities are a bit cheaper than Tokyo.
(08-20-2017 04:54 AM)cheekygrin Wrote: [ -> ]Surprisingly, this love hotel had a women at reception, which isn't common in my experience for love hotels. She gave me that typical look which said "Oh! Another foreigner banging a nice Japanese girl again..."

Lol.
(08-20-2017 05:10 PM)cheekygrin Wrote: [ -> ]Re - Spursfan

I've lived in both Kobe and Osaka. Living in those places allowed me to commute to work pretty easy. Kobe is a great place. Due to its location it's host to a lot of girls from many Asian countries. There's a lot of koreans, Chinese, Vietnamese and Filipina girls about there.

In general I had very few Japanese male friends. Didn't need them tbh. They're pretty much useless as wingmen as they have no game + got jealous when I picked up and they didn't. I've seen Japanese guys here talk and talk and talk with women but never get anywhere. They try to be their friends rather than manning up and making a move. Though this is also in part due to the societies often practiced no PDA social rule.

Doesn't apply to us foreigners though... Fresh of the plane I made out with a J girl in a bar I'd just met (she'd go on to be my 3rd bang) and I realized every single Japanese guy was staring at me. Probably more action then they'd seen in a few years. I guess in the West we move faster cause we know if we don't hook that girl soon then some other guy will. But here girls are used to slooooooooow seduction from local guys. So acting quick, and getting hot and heavy with them fast will have them so excited they'll need to change underwear.

No word of a lie - I pretty much screwed a horny girl outside a closed cafe one late night, and another in a 7/11 toilet. Good times. ..

But what did you do there from work? or were you studying there? Japan seems indeed a hard country for foreigners to find a job.

It's Always nice to chill with male friends to go to some baseball games or to hit the gym or even just have a beer and good talk. Japanese guys are indeed useless ass wingmen and they are also useless that they should introduce some drinks. A lot of nerds in Japan tho, although i have to say in the nightlife in Japan, you also can find a lot of tough Japanese guys ( the guys that look they are from yakuza ).

It's freaking expensive, i was paying around 1000 € a month for a shit room shared apartment in the center from tokyo.
Japan is indeed an expensive place to live. I came here with about 700 dollars and nothing in the savings account. I burned through that in a month and was eating pretty shitty that first month.

Remember that you won't get your first paycheck until after you've worked a month at your new job. Plus side is the salary was about 230 000 yen a month, which is enough to pay rent, bills, go out for drinks, buy clothes AND save a couple of 100 dollars a month.

I had a job working in an English Cram school lined up from an online interview before I arrived. Visa took a few weeks... Japanese bureaucracy is a real ball breaker; consisiting of hours of paperwork and mind numbingly slow staff.

Looking back, I must've been outta my mind coming with so little cash. Standard cost to set up an apartment is about 2500 dollars upfront in Japan. However, if you put in the time you can avoid a lot of the "mandatory " fees such as agent fees, deposit, key money etc by negotiating hard. I got my first apartment deposit free + 2 months free + no key money. Took 2 weeks to get there though, and I'm not gonna lie... it was a shit crib. Felt like a loser showing girls it so we often went to hotels or their place. My subsequent apartments were damn nice though!

That was in Osaka and Kobe. My advice would be to stay the hell away from Tokyo. You'll be broke as fuck living in a 16 metres squared box. More space in a coffin than some of those city rooms.
Re John Michael Kane

You lived in Vietnam? It's definitely in my future plans. The low cost of living plus gorgeous women has me very interested! I'd go to Phillipines but it'd be hard to get work teaching there as they are all pretty good at English already. Shame... I hooked up with a stunning Fillipina girl once. Her English was great, her body tight, but what turned me on was that fucking accent. She rolled her Rs like a Spanish would.
What I'd like to know: were the Japanese girls ok (or would they have been) to let you go raw?
What I'd like to know: were the Japanese girls ok (or would they have been) to let you go raw?
Japanese girls are surprisingly okay about going raw. Sometimes they may have the obligatory "eh do you have a condom?" But you can just say yes and then tell her you would put it on later. This can be down to the lack of sex ed in Japan or the assumption that STDs are rare and hard to come by. Still, I would advise to strap it on, you really cant trust Japanese girls too much haha
(08-21-2017 11:47 AM)John Michael Kane Wrote: [ -> ]Japan is not a cheap country to live in unlike the Philippines or Vietnam. You should have a bankroll first or plan on finding work there, which isn't easy to do. Second tier cities are a bit cheaper than Tokyo.

Honestly, the Philippines isn't that cheap either if you like a comfortable lifestyle. I was paying $100-200/month electricity just for A/C.
(08-20-2017 04:54 AM)cheekygrin Wrote: [ -> ]Don't bother learning more than hiragana and some basic phrases as you'll get laid regardless.


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If there is one country on planet Earth where learning the language would completely change your experience, reaping benefits otherwise out of reach, and is basically required in many circumstances if you want success ... it is JAPAN.
Wanna know the best part of that story

The pics
(09-05-2017 12:07 AM)whiteknightrises Wrote: [ -> ]Wanna know the best part of that story

The pics

Okay, Zyzz and Beckham are cute, but not really my thing Angel
Hey guys,

recently I came back from my Japan Trip. I spent only 11 days cause as already mentioned it is expensive.
I did not only gaming rather I did a lot of sightseeing. IMO japanese girls are not hard but also not easy like in SEA. You need to invest time to get them. A ONS didnt happen to me. In 11 days I got 4 make-outs and 2 bangs. Thats pretty good if you consider that I just know some basic words in japanese and language barrier is high.
If you speak japanese you will definitely have chance to get the 9s and 10s. The japanese girls are pretty hot. I saw a lot of 8s but very few 9s. Be prepared with a big wallet and some japanese skills if you want to game.
Daygaming is fine as I NEVER had any direct rejection. Nightgaming is posssible but fucking expensive regarding to high entrance fees and drink prices.
(09-25-2017 06:56 AM)Elguapo86 Wrote: [ -> ]Hey guys,

recently I came back from my Japan Trip. I spent only 11 days cause as already mentioned it is expensive.
I did not only gaming rather I did a lot of sightseeing. IMO japanese girls are not hard but also not easy like in SEA. You need to invest time to get them. A ONS didnt happen to me. In 11 days I got 4 make-outs and 2 bangs. Thats pretty good if you consider that I just know some basic words in japanese and language barrier is high.
If you speak japanese you will definitely have chance to get the 9s and 10s. The japanese girls are pretty hot. I saw a lot of 8s but very few 9s. Be prepared with a big wallet and some japanese skills if you want to game.
Daygaming is fine as I NEVER had any direct rejection. Nightgaming is posssible but fucking expensive regarding to high entrance fees and drink prices.

good job.. I am here for 4 days now and not much success. went to a club and had a couple of make outs but could not get the girls home as there was too much cock blocking from local jap guys.. day game was shit as I approached just 2 girls and they didnt speak english at all
I see that its different now as compared to 4-5 years when I visited Japan the first time.
Maybe there are too many foreigners now so the novelty factor is gone in Tokyo.
I have few more days to go here and I have decided to go for P4P which is an easier option.
To be honest I didn't c a lot of foreigners with good looking girls. All the girls I saw with foreigners were 5 /6
(01-08-2018 06:51 AM)victormarabini36 Wrote: [ -> ]
(09-25-2017 06:56 AM)Elguapo86 Wrote: [ -> ]Hey guys,

recently I came back from my Japan Trip. I spent only 11 days cause as already mentioned it is expensive.
I did not only gaming rather I did a lot of sightseeing. IMO japanese girls are not hard but also not easy like in SEA. You need to invest time to get them. A ONS didnt happen to me. In 11 days I got 4 make-outs and 2 bangs. Thats pretty good if you consider that I just know some basic words in japanese and language barrier is high.
If you speak japanese you will definitely have chance to get the 9s and 10s. The japanese girls are pretty hot. I saw a lot of 8s but very few 9s. Be prepared with a big wallet and some japanese skills if you want to game.
Daygaming is fine as I NEVER had any direct rejection. Nightgaming is posssible but fucking expensive regarding to high entrance fees and drink prices.

good job.. I am here for 4 days now and not much success. went to a club and had a couple of make outs but could not get the girls home as there was too much cock blocking from local jap guys.. day game was shit as I approached just 2 girls and they didnt speak english at all
I see that its different now as compared to 4-5 years when I visited Japan the first time.
Maybe there are too many foreigners now so the novelty factor is gone in Tokyo.
I have few more days to go here and I have decided to go for P4P which is an easier option.
To be honest I didn't c a lot of foreigners with good looking girls. All the girls I saw with foreigners were 5 /6

1. You went to a club and got cockblocked by local guys. I'm sure that doesn't happen anywhere else in the world. 2. You daygamed 2 girls who couldnt speak english and decided it was time to call it quits?

Japan is not that much different from 4 years ago, I was there 4 years and have been going back every year for duration lasting from 2 weeks to a year. Were there no cockblocking J guys and English speaking chicks abundant 5 years ago? If you read any of the J threads here, you would know that for short trips, Japan is hard.

Some ways you could have improve your odds on getting the flag:

1. Learn the language, even a little helps
2. Research based on what is available on the forum or other resources on Japan
3. Pipeline


Maybe you did but none of the 3 are reflected in your post so I'll take it that you didn't.

Adjust your expectations, do your homework and maybe you'll find Japan a much different place next time you visit. Also, p4p talk is banned on the forum. Just a heads up.
Like the op I prefer to avoid the clubs and prefer the bar /pub / live music scene. Any j'ap town one can recommend to chill at the pub, smoke outside or inside and chat up some hunnies.? Any places where the jap girls like western karaoke etc? Too spoilt by the easy vibe of bar culture in bangkok.. Where its easy to date or bang randoms.
It's a long read, but the master Japan thread is very comprehensive in information, including gaming in different regions/cities in Japan, nightlife, day game, online game, etc. In fact, it has so much information that I think someone could organize it all into a fairly good-sized book and make some money selling it. I recommend anyone going to Japan to read through it at least once and then post your questions.
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