Quote:Women should embrace numerous sexual partners instead of channeling their energy into finding 'the one', a new book advises.
Sex coach and midwife Lauren Brim, 31, grew up in a Christian family in Orange County, California, which taught sex is sacred in marriage.
It is global a social construct, she says, built to wound women sexually.
Now, with eight partners on the go and about 100 under her belt, LA-based Brim insists she has been enlightened.
In her recently-released book, The New Rules Of Sex, Brim describes her colorful catalogue of sexual experiences - sex with exes, with women, with numerous people at once, in all manner of unusual locations.
And she reveals midwifery led her to a sexual awakening.
'I was watching women giving birth,' she explains in a YouTube promotion, 'and I was seeing that women who were in touch with their sexuality had much easier birth experiences - sometimes orgasmic birth experiences; empowering experiences.
'Women who weren't in touch with their sexuality really struggled. They had a lot of interventions a lot of problems.'
The realization provoked her to analyze the rules of sex in western society, she says.
'I was raised in a Christian family and was getting this message from my family, from society, from the church, that sexuality was really not ok; that it was something you could have with your husband when you got married.
'Later in my adult life I got more messages from society that it was ok to have sex but only with someone that you saw a potential relationship with; with someone that could potentially become your husband.
'That didnt feel great either.
'So I was suffering a lot with how to be sexual. I had this sexuality inside me and never felt like I could express it without getting in trouble for it.'
When she turned 27, finding a relationship became near-impossible.
'I looked around and saw there were many single people around me, all of them attractive, talented and intelligent people,' she told The Telegraph.
'Some of them hadn’t been in a relationship for years.'
'I don’t believe in putting your energy into waiting for the perfect partner to come along. I believe in looking at what’s there.'
Brim, a trained dancer who has performed with New York City's Radio City Rockettes, insists the book is not a How To guide - rather a reconfiguration of sexual rules.
She says readers will be empowered to stop expecting love from sex, which should be celebrated in its own right.
'These expectations I had of my sexual partners - "why didnt they love me?"
'Sex and relationships and love were knotted up and I needed to unravel them.
'Where do sexual ideas come from? Why are we telling women they can only have relationships?
'We need to set women free because women are really sexual and they're powerful.
Her message to the female population? 'Relate to people differently, have less expectations.'
Question: How much more cliche can she get? Blaming society? REally!?!
A simple google search shows this lady is crazy about sex. A true Christian nymphomaniac who is trying to throw off the shame by being a sex coach. I knew one in grad school who was a bit plain looking. She was called the throw down girl. It makes me wonder why this insatiable hornyness is not more common in women.
05-06-2015 05:26 PM
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RE: California dancer says she's been "released" after attaining 100 partners
I couldnt make it to 0:17, a weak stomach,along with a low-tolerance for disgusting, self-promoting hags spewing a bunch of crap out their saggy jowls, are conditions which result in me projectile vomiting onto my expensive apple Mac-book Air.
05-06-2015 06:21 PM
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RE: California dancer says she's been "released" after attaining 100 partners
(05-06-2015 06:21 PM)Island Souljah Wrote: I couldnt make it to 0:17, a weak stomach,along with a low-tolerance for disgusting, self-promoting hags spewing a bunch of crap out their saggy jowls, are conditions which result in me projectile vomiting onto my expensive apple Mac-book Air.
oh she is definitely no better than a 6/10 and severely damaged. on the plus side, she is likely to be an absolute freak in bed, but likely devoid of any sort of humanity from taking hundreds of cocks.
WB once because she is likely a freak, but i don't think i could stomach being around her more than once, would be one and done.
Team yoga pants
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RE: California dancer says she's been "released" after attaining 100 partners
(12-01-2014 01:04 AM)runsonmagic Wrote: She was raised in a Christian environment.
People raised in that environment either...
1) Get married young and perpetuate that environment.
2) Discover sex is not the boogyman and have rather interesting sex lives.
I could see a little whoring after the programming of that environment being healthy. If shooting to the right, shoot to the left.
If you're looking for something to blame, you gotta go back to the root cause. All that "no sex" teaching, without a explanation what it's for.
Christianity doesn't teach "no sex" without an "explanation what it's for." Neither does it teach that people can't have an "interesting sex lives." It states the truth that sexual sin is a path that seems good at the outset, but ruins the lives of almost every woman who goes down it, and even many of the men, who get burned by their involvement with the Delilahs and Jezebels.
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RE: California dancer says she's been "released" after attaining 100 partners
WNB. She's a 5, and if she's got 8 fellas on the go at once she will have semen in or on her at any given point in time. Women like this have no problem getting cummed in and then going to their next fuck wanting cunnilingus.
With her attitude to sex there's no way her notch count is a mere 100. She's in her 30's - do you realise how quickly she got to 100? It's got to be 100 PER YEAR, not in total. Bullshit she can't keep count.
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