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TechLead (Youtuber) Talks About His Divorce
I've been following this guy for a while for his tech and lifestyle related videos. He has never mentioned his wife before in much detail, and this 'personal' video is unusual for him.

He does seem red-pilled, though he is mainstream, I think the younger generation are getting more and more red-pilled on relationships, career etc.

He focuses here on how material success did not help his relationship. Interesting red-pilled perspective, I think this is a good video that can red-pill more people not in the manosphere.



08-01-2019 09:57 AM
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RE: TechLead (Youtuber) Talks About His Divorce
As anyone on this forum would say, material success is just one part of the game. I can tell that he is likely an agreeable person who was bluepill before his divorce, and like all men who goes through it, is now a little more red pill. Same thing, different guy. This is kinda why guys needs to get experience in the field first before marrying. Back in the day, we had the culture to keep said things from happening, but due to lack of strong masculine figureheads and feminism making divorce attractive, this is going to keep happening until something changes. Either a hard war/ times to force women to stick close to a man, or the revamp of our justice system to not punish men or reward women.
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08-01-2019 10:07 AM
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RE: TechLead (Youtuber) Talks About His Divorce
1st mistake:
Apologizing to his wife repeatedly
No frame control

2nd mistake:
Trying to get her dried up pussy wet again with various gifts
The worst kind of beta behaviour


Game saves marriages.
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08-01-2019 10:15 AM
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RE: TechLead (Youtuber) Talks About His Divorce
No man should be getting married today. It's counterintuitive. I know most men want to believe in that fantasy but will learn the hard way, like this guy did.

A contract where someone can just walk away without any reason and take half of your assets is just a silly thing to sign.
08-01-2019 10:20 AM
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RE: TechLead (Youtuber) Talks About His Divorce
Stole his kid and took him out of the country. Just like that, his whole family is gone. What a cunt.
08-01-2019 10:39 AM
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RE: TechLead (Youtuber) Talks About His Divorce
The most interesting aspect of this is that I'm seeing more and more non-manosphere youtubers getting red-pilled, and they are pushing these ideas out to their subscribers. I think this could be useful. The mainstream media only pushes their own corporate narrative, but these types of youtubers are shunning corporatism, and are capable of expressing red-pill truths to their followers.

In old days, 'professionals' had their own organizations, and that allowed those professional men also to have more cultural clout in society. Corporations have killed off any free discussions and unity between workers. But, these kinds of youtubers are just telling people about their real experiences, and they are not afraid to talk down big corporations, and possibly even modern culture.

These tech youtubers have a following consisting mostly of 'intelligent' men, if they can move out into also talking about cultural things that could have a big impact. The manosphere could treat these well and try and get them on 'our side', cos they may afraid of losing income, so we should try and support them without being too harsh, and not put people down if they still somewhat blue-pilled.
08-01-2019 10:40 AM
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The average man can never compete with the elites and the establishment if we cannot even get our women on our side. These are women from our own 'communities', ethnic groups, social groups, extended families and we are losing them. The elites have everthing locked up and the rest of us below the top 5% are gradually losing out in terms of quality of life. 'Our women' dont seem to understand how their behaviour will negatively affect their own children further down the line.
08-01-2019 10:50 AM
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(08-01-2019 10:39 AM)bbgun Wrote:  Stole his kid and took him out of the country. Just like that, his whole family is gone. What a cunt.

Funny thing is I was just talking about this as a risk in another thread Laugh called children and financials.
08-01-2019 10:55 AM
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RE: TechLead (Youtuber) Talks About His Divorce
SilentOne- yup! A deal where one person can wake up on a Tuesday, decide they don’t like you anymore, take half your shit, and plunge you into expensive litigation is not a deal at all.

Women would immediately counter with- ‘but marriage isn't like a business wahhhhh!’.

Isn’t it interesting that women treat it exactly like a business during divorce? They think they’re so clever.
08-01-2019 11:17 AM
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He might never see his son again. Japan is notorious for their refusal to sign the Hague Convention treaty on child abduction and for denying divorced fathers any custody rights. All he can do is wait until his son is 18 and then try to find him.
08-01-2019 11:19 AM
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RE: TechLead (Youtuber) Talks About His Divorce
(08-01-2019 11:19 AM)JayR Wrote:  He might never see his son again. Japan is notorious for their refusal to sign the Hague Convention treaty on child abduction and for denying divorced fathers any custody rights. All he can do is wait until his son is 18 and then try to find him.

Oh I think he will. My guess is that his ex will use the kid as a bargaining chip to shake this guy down for $. If this guy is in the financial shape he claims, she will use him to finance her "independence".

The exception to this is if she is independently wealthy (e.g. family money), or if she completely drained their accounts before leaving.
08-01-2019 11:40 AM
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RE: TechLead (Youtuber) Talks About His Divorce
It's beating a dead horse to point out to redpill men how risky marriage and kids is... What's the solution, don't do it?

The new realization, some other colour of pill, is that this is exactly the behavior (((they))) want from you, to give up.

History is littered with an infinite number of forgotten men who had perfectly good reasons to avoid having children. (War, crushing tyranny, extreme poverty, plague, starvation, etc.) "Divorce rape" doesn't even make the top 50 list of risks/hardships your ancestors went through to bring you here.
08-01-2019 11:51 AM
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The solution in my opinion, is for high-quality men to aspire to more than one wife. Dont offer any woman exclusivity, tell her another girl will come and live in the house. See if you can gain some ground, push the boundaries. If you have two wives, and one wants to leave, she cant take the house or half the estate.
08-01-2019 12:12 PM
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RE: TechLead (Youtuber) Talks About His Divorce
(08-01-2019 11:51 AM)christpuncher Wrote:  It's beating a dead horse to point out to redpill men how risky marriage and kids is... What's the solution, don't do it?

The new realization, some other colour of pill, is that this is exactly the behavior (((they))) want from you, to give up.

History is littered with an infinite number of forgotten men who had perfectly good reasons to avoid having children. (War, crushing tyranny, extreme poverty, plague, starvation, etc.) "Divorce rape" doesn't even make the top 50 list of risks/hardships your ancestors went through to bring you here.

Red Pilled men don't get married today. It's an oxymoron. A lot of guys like to dilute themselves into thinking they are red pilled but are far from it. Now you can become Red Pilled while already married. That's different.

I'm not here to derail this thread. This is about an ungrateful women snatching a child away from an unexpected father and moving across the world. The stuff woman are allowed to do today without repercussions is really amazing.
08-01-2019 12:13 PM
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(08-01-2019 10:39 AM)bbgun Wrote:  Stole his kid and took him out of the country. Just like that, his whole family is gone. What a cunt.

How is this not criminal? What a ludicrous situation that we, as men, don't have the organisation to make this illegal.

Nightmare situation.
08-01-2019 01:56 PM
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(08-01-2019 09:57 AM)mr_ks Wrote:  I've been following this guy for a while for his tech and lifestyle related videos. He has never mentioned his wife before in much detail, and this 'personal' video is unusual for him.

He does seem red-pilled, though he is mainstream, I think the younger generation are getting more and more red-pilled on relationships, career etc.

He focuses here on how material success did not help his relationship. Interesting red-pilled perspective, I think this is a good video that can red-pill more people not in the manosphere.




I have yet to watch this video, but I am definitely surprised by the news (I am familiar with some of TechLead's videos).

He did come off as pretty red-pilled & definitely seemed to gravitate towards a more traditional, conservative, Asian type of lifestyle. He didn't seem like the most fun guy in the world lol (but he did have an amusing dry humor in his videos). I wonder if there was a fundamental compatibility issue with his wife. In any case it is beyond foul if she is about to run overseas with their kid. I need to watch this video later when I get a chance.
08-01-2019 02:21 PM
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RE: TechLead (Youtuber) Talks About His Divorce
(08-01-2019 01:56 PM)Feyoder Wrote:  
(08-01-2019 10:39 AM)bbgun Wrote:  Stole his kid and took him out of the country. Just like that, his whole family is gone. What a cunt.

How is this not criminal? What a ludicrous situation that we, as men, don't have the organisation to make this illegal.

Nightmare situation.


Either you are really young or have been living in a cave for the last 20 years.
Things have been this messed up way for quite a long time now.
08-01-2019 02:25 PM
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(08-01-2019 02:21 PM)jordypip23 Wrote:  I wonder if there was a fundamental compatibility issue with his wife.

In any case it is beyond foul if she is about to run overseas with their kid. I need to watch this video later when I get a chance.

I doubt it's a 'compatibility' issue. He is right about it being related to money. Many people that use their careers and financial success to define themselves end up with similar problems. It is all very shallow and superficial. He talks about it in the videos.
08-01-2019 02:33 PM
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Try as hard as you can to save your family but have a backup plan. Take the child's passport or have it surrendered to the court. When she leaves, call the police. Don't let that bitch leave the country with your kid.

Now, that kid is getting indoctrinated. She's telling how she HAD to take him away for his safety.
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Not a lot of redpill moments here. Lots of talk about buying gifts to appease, keeping up with the joneses, hoping that financial success will solve everything,
living in a lonely empty apartment, not wanting to judge her.

Also shows you can marry a girl from a less feminist country and still get screwed.
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OP - that guy is not Red Pilled and has barely the basic perception on reality down.

He speaks about constantly apologizing, he refers to the old social model that is no longer valid.

Obviously a woman gets used to money, she realizes that having been married to a wealthy guy and having his kid is her lottery ticket. She has all the power and even legally can take away his kid. I can tell from that vid alone that he is a Blue Pill shmuck who paid the highest price for not learning truly the Red Pill. He would need to read through the Rollo Tomassi bible, then learn some basic Game, go through coaching, then he would be on a better footing. He would not need to go on Daygame binges and become a pick-up-artist. All he would need to do is understand why women are attracted to men and how they keep being attracted in a marriage.

Everything he says about 30$ gifts and gifts "relative to his net worth" are just signs that he does not know anything about women. His wife would swoon at a more Alpha rich man giving her a packet of M&Ms for her birthday.

Now that said - even if he became truly Red Pilled, then it's not clear whether he would be able to save his marriage. But it would be possibility. And since he does not seem likely to be learning from this, then he will be repeating his mistake. Now he pays for his wife to be banged out by other men while he is an absentee dad and his kid gets raised by a single mother.
08-03-2019 06:52 AM
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Everyone knows having game is better. I don't recall anyone saying otherwise. Problem is you are living in a world now that needs it. None of your beta ancestors needed to be persuasive, have frame or whatever. They just told them and slapped them into submission. Men needed only being able to provide. Women were defacto property, now men have to game their belongings to keep them. The fact that you are already forced into a gaming your wife that has full state backing is playing a losing game with the odds stacked against you. You are admitting she has a winning hand over you but you will beat the odds by being skillful, having game. I just shake my head when I hear this. Today's betas need to leverage their wealth so that leaving is not even an option. The West is not a place where this game is played.
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< Yeah, men in the past did not have to have Game or even be Red Pilled about women. They do now.
Even in the past it was better, but in most instances it did not carry that many consequences.

Even if he had made her sign a pre-nup or did not marry her, she would have some power of his kid and have enough financial freedom to leave him. Though of course - the power would be limited. She likely wasn't even aware of the dynamic herself, but simply "wasn't happy and did not feel like having sex with him anymore". Also - Japanese women living in the West are tricky - I met another Japanese-American (USA born) who also was left by his wife overnight. Buy obviously I don't know the full extent of their living conditions. They should have lived at least half the time in Japan.
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The guy is as blue pilled as they come as you would expect in the IT field, obviously has not been burned enough in the past and lacking experience.

You take a woman out of her comfort zone to another country and away to her parents and this is what can easily happen, runs off with the child back to her mum.

A pretty sad state of affairs you can cuck as much as you like (as he has done in Google etc) in a marriage you're always at risk of coming back home with the wife, kids and all your stuff gone.

And there's nothing you can do about it.

Why in the world would anyone put themselves in that situation? Yet men keep doing it all the time.

The manosphere was initially focused on pickup with RSD clown game and so on picking up girls with lines fitting to a drunk 50 IQ (for putting your penis in their vagina before they forget about you the following morning) and has in the last several years been naturally maturing more as a reveal of the true nature of modern relationships and women.

You can see from the comments on youtube, reddit etc that if even slowly the tide is shifting, guys even in their teens knowing about mgtow. That sort of information wasn't readily available 10 years ago resulting in an era of beta cucks as we see today. The more they keep doing this the more this sort of behaviour will come into the light. How fast is this happening while the mainstream brainwashing continues however is unknown.

While millions of college girls are prostituting themselves on SA for 200 dollars an hour (doing drugs, getting pissed on and doing anal) for the sake of empowerment, all they are doing is actually empowering men, who slowly realise they could live the good life without the risk of losing most of their assets and working like slaves for the rest of their lives.

Women are turning to single mums, who most guys wouldn't touch with a barge pole, and prostitution.

A life of sheer depression and misery. All for the sake for money which will never ever make you content.

Looking forward to his channel turning into a red pill one as he goes into a journey of happiness and success.
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There are guys who are really successful with women but are terrible at managing their careers. Life is a tradeoff like that. When you put all your energy in one area, the other suffers. The guy's intelligence is all in the career domain, not interpersonal. That's what his channel is all about. How to manage your career and personal finance. Leading a good life is more than just that, as he's discovered.
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