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Sexual Display & Prudishness?
I have some ideas on this but my thoughts on it seem quite negative. Anyone else have better way of thinking / explanations for this behaviour?

For example. Women sexual display A LOT in Western hemisphere. eg) In thongs on instagram. If you were to ask if they'd like to have sex directly however a huge amount of these women would get upset/mad and attack the guy who asked.

My thoughts = they are assholes and will destroy and get mad at any man who asks unless it's their ideal?

This makes me sad because it's the equivalent to someone applying to a job and then having the employer insult you because they don't find you good enough.

Am I seeing things wrong here? Because the way it seems, women are assholes when they do this. They have every right to reject offers of course, but to go on top of this and be offended? That's too far in my opinion.

Also seems that women like to use the 'possibility of sex' so they can get things from guys other then sex = attention, favour, money, etc. so going for sex threatens this dishonest means of getting value.
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08-10-2019 06:19 PM
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08-10-2019 06:57 PM
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RE: Sexual Display & Prudishness?
Rich men buy expensive status symbols to show off their wealth. Does that mean they are obligated to give you $1000 if you go up to them and ask nicely?

Why do you think a beautiful woman is obligated to have sex with you just because she is advertising her sexuality? Why would she give away her most valuable asset for free, to some random guy with nothing to offer her?

If a woman is offended by you hitting on her it means some combination of your approach being completely ham-handed and/or you simply being far below her in status. She is offended by the idea that you ever thought you had a chance with her. In most cases, women are justified in this feeling, because there is an enormous pool of socially awkward losers (especially on social media) salivating over women and projecting massive amounts of thirst. If you're an average guy, how would you react if some 400 lb. woman with body odor and missing teeth approached you and said, "Wow you are so sexy, will you have sex with me?". You would likely be revolted. That is how the average Instagram thot HB 8/9 feels when hordes of thirsty, low status men try to holler at her.

This is simply the reality given female psychology and social media. Women have always and will always barter their sexuality in exchange for male attention and provision. Women advertise their sexuality in whatever ways the social norms of their society allow, in hopes of attracting the highest status man they can. Social media simply empowers their sexual advertising and expands it to a worldwide audience. The only winning move is not to play. Get off social media, do not encourage e-Thottery with thirsty comments and improve yourself enough that women no longer find your approaches offensive, because you no longer give off a low-status vibe.

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RE: Sexual Display & Prudishness?
scorpion pretty much nailed it.

One thing I would add is that "asking [a woman] if they'd like to have sex directly" violates a fundamental premise of basically all game advice ever written - you need to have a certain level of tact.

Unless you have extremely high status (ie: you're an A-list celeb) or you're located at a swingers club, opening any woman with "would you like to have sex with me?" will come across as tactless and just plain lame. There's always a dance you need to play to get to the finish line. Sometimes it only needs to take 30 seconds, other times it can take months or years. Asking outright is putting the cart before the horse, regardless of how available a woman presents herself.

Finally, most of these IG thots probably won't even be offended if you ask them directly. They get 50 new DMs a day asking the same thing. They likely won't even see your message.
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RE: Sexual Display & Prudishness?
Okay so I understand correctly why but I still find a dick move to act offended. My ideas as to why they would then are correct.

Honestly it's kind of depressing because let's be real, most girls most guys would never be able to attract even with best efforts. I've been working on this since I was 16 and I'm turning 29 now. I do quite well but even still the game is very depressing for me. Female nature also just depressed me in general. This is after a really good night out too tonight.
08-11-2019 03:35 AM
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RE: Sexual Display & Prudishness?
(08-11-2019 03:35 AM)jackgig Wrote:  Okay so I understand correctly why but I still find a dick move to act offended. My ideas as to why they would then are correct.

Honestly it's kind of depressing because let's be real, most girls most guys would never be able to attract even with best efforts. I've been working on this since I was 16 and I'm turning 29 now. I do quite well but even still the game is very depressing for me. Female nature also just depressed me in general. This is after a really good night out too tonight.

Life isn't fair and you have to deal with it. The attitude described above isn't helpful.
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(08-11-2019 04:46 AM)BoiBoi Wrote:  
(08-11-2019 03:35 AM)jackgig Wrote:  Okay so I understand correctly why but I still find a dick move to act offended. My ideas as to why they would then are correct.

Honestly it's kind of depressing because let's be real, most girls most guys would never be able to attract even with best efforts. I've been working on this since I was 16 and I'm turning 29 now. I do quite well but even still the game is very depressing for me. Female nature also just depressed me in general. This is after a really good night out too tonight.

Life isn't fair and you have to deal with it. The attitude described above isn't helpful.

How do you deal with it and not let it get you down?
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RE: Sexual Display & Prudishness?
(08-11-2019 03:35 AM)jackgig Wrote:  Okay so I understand correctly why but I still find a dick move to act offended. My ideas as to why they would then are correct.

Honestly it's kind of depressing because let's be real, most girls most guys would never be able to attract even with best efforts. I've been working on this since I was 16 and I'm turning 29 now. I do quite well but even still the game is very depressing for me. Female nature also just depressed me in general. This is after a really good night out too tonight.

In case you hadn't noticed, the forum has taken a turn against casual sex and 'notches". Your situation is a good indicator of why. You have been doing this for 13 years yet you find yourself depressed and cynical. Perhaps you're playing the wrong game? What about getting into an LTR? Going out night after might for ONS is not a good use of time and produces poor results for 99% of men. Listen to your depression and sense that this is not the right path.

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RE: Sexual Display & Prudishness?
(08-11-2019 05:09 AM)jackgig Wrote:  
(08-11-2019 04:46 AM)BoiBoi Wrote:  
(08-11-2019 03:35 AM)jackgig Wrote:  Okay so I understand correctly why but I still find a dick move to act offended. My ideas as to why they would then are correct.

Honestly it's kind of depressing because let's be real, most girls most guys would never be able to attract even with best efforts. I've been working on this since I was 16 and I'm turning 29 now. I do quite well but even still the game is very depressing for me. Female nature also just depressed me in general. This is after a really good night out too tonight.

Life isn't fair and you have to deal with it. The attitude described above isn't helpful.

How do you deal with it and not let it get you down?

Acceptance. There is no need to dwell on things beyond your control. The next step is for you to find out, how you can better your lot in life. Easier said than done, I know.
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