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(08-09-2019 12:37 PM)EndsExpect Wrote:  
(08-09-2019 11:54 AM)Montrose Wrote:  Yes, some women want a relationship or money. But in my experience the vast majority of them will happily have sex with a guy who tells them stories, listens to their stupid stories, provides them with affection and attention, and is only half decent in bed. With kindness and compassion.

I agree, but how do you extricate yourself from such a situation without causing... damage?

My only guess so far is to present them with a flaw so serious they can't imagine things working out. However, I've never tried it.

In that case they might still fall in love, but decide to be wretchedly in love without telling you. In that case you usually get a loyal FWB - the female version of an orbiter.

Fornicating without damage - that's a myth.
08-10-2019 03:49 AM
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(08-10-2019 03:49 AM)wwtl Wrote:  In that case they might still fall in love, but decide to be wretchedly in love without telling you. In that case you usually get a loyal FWB - the female version of an orbiter.
Fornicating without damage - that's a myth.

I'm personally unsure. I think what Montrose says is likely correct, however his target age is likely 18-22 and that's not really my thing.
08-11-2019 04:37 PM
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A quick update , on what I think is 2 weeks since my "change".
Positive things :
- I feel more "free" , I see a nice girl or interact with a nice-looking girl and do not feel like she is sexual target. I don't feel frustrated and although I acknowledge she is pretty , it does not increase my anger. She is just a woman , and she is not mine , and that's it. I dont feel bad about it.
- I feel stronger. I can focus on my own life , my own goals , without having to lose time to chase women. This time goes for my children and my wife.
- I feel like I have some sort of aura (the presence of God) around myself , which is kind of protecting me. A bit like when you play Mario Kart , and you get some "invicible" blitz around you (not sure how to explain in English). I am sure this presence can be kept and reinforced through prayers , which is probably the next step.

Negative things :
- It is more "boring". Life has lost a bit of its luster , it s less fun to be serious. I have always been a serious guy but it is definitely less fun to not chase girls. I highly recommend being fully into a hobby or into sports/training . Use this time to call your parents if they are still alive , your nephews , etc. To read books.
-I feel that the distance between the clown world and me is getting bigger and bigger , so while I have no problem with this , this might be hard for people who are used to be very social.
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08-18-2019 08:56 AM
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(08-18-2019 08:56 AM)Polniy_Sostav Wrote:  -I feel that the distance between the clown world and me is getting bigger and bigger , so while I have no problem with this , this might be hard for people who are used to be very social.

Thanks for the update. What exactly do you mean by the distance is getting bigger and bigger? You are seeing more or less of the clown world?
08-18-2019 04:45 PM
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I am seeing more of it , and I feel more and more like an outcast when I go to public places.
And still I am in a place where women are more or less normal compared to the west...
08-19-2019 08:12 AM
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