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(06-06-2014 04:06 PM)General Mayhem Wrote:  [Image: Screenshot_2014-06-06-15-58-24-e1402088506447.png]

I posted a picture of the fish I fried for lunch just for shits and gigs and got a bunch of likes. There might be some potential with the update.

I'm going to update to IOS 7 just to get this. Do you think that the update will allow us to effectively separate ourselves from the guys w/o a sense of humor?
06-06-2014 04:17 PM
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(06-06-2014 04:17 PM)MikeinMKE Wrote:  Can girls tell when you read their message sometimes when they send I want to see it right away so I can think about the best response for a while. But if they see when I read it that obviously defeats the purpose

No they can't see if you read their message.
06-06-2014 04:52 PM
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(06-06-2014 04:17 PM)Renberg Wrote:  
(06-06-2014 04:06 PM)General Mayhem Wrote:  [Image: Screenshot_2014-06-06-15-58-24-e1402088506447.png]

I posted a picture of the fish I fried for lunch just for shits and gigs and got a bunch of likes. There might be some potential with the update.

I'm going to update to IOS 7 just to get this. Do you think that the update will allow us to effectively separate ourselves from the guys w/o a sense of humor?

Definitely.

As far as your "moments" go, I think it will be helpful to just show that you are a real person who does things. I threw out the lunch pick just to see if girls were even looking at it. In the future I will post mostly pictures of me having a blast with other people. If I'm at the club and it's a good time I can caption it and say, "anyone who isn't here is missing out."

You will have a shot at showing off your humor by commenting on girl's moments, when before all you had to go on was their profile. So essentially this just gives you more material to work with.

Most guys open with, "Hey" and you know that most will comment on their moments and tell them how hot they are.

Always venture on the outrageous side. It's not hard to shine when your competition barely has a pulse.
06-06-2014 05:07 PM
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(06-06-2014 05:07 PM)General Mayhem Wrote:  
(06-06-2014 04:17 PM)Renberg Wrote:  
(06-06-2014 04:06 PM)General Mayhem Wrote:  [Image: Screenshot_2014-06-06-15-58-24-e1402088506447.png]

I posted a picture of the fish I fried for lunch just for shits and gigs and got a bunch of likes. There might be some potential with the update.

I'm going to update to IOS 7 just to get this. Do you think that the update will allow us to effectively separate ourselves from the guys w/o a sense of humor?

Definitely.

As far as your "moments" go, I think it will be helpful to just show that you are a real person who does things. I threw out the lunch pick just to see if girls were even looking at it. In the future I will post mostly pictures of me having a blast with other people. If I'm at the club and it's a good time I can caption it and say, "anyone who isn't here is missing out."

You will have a shot at showing off your humor by commenting on girl's moments, when before all you had to go on was their profile. So essentially this just gives you more material to work with.

Most guys open with, "Hey" and you know that most will comment on their moments and tell them how hot they are.

Always venture on the outrageous side. It's not hard to shine when your competition barely has a pulse.

Thanks GM. Good shit. I just updated the app. It's pretty cool. However, the downside will be sifting through all the shitty moments some people post.
06-06-2014 05:20 PM
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Tinder - an app for attractive betas to get laid and unattractive alphas to realize they're ugly. If you've ever seen an attractive girl use tinder, you realize that you have to be extremely good looking to even get a single lay.
06-06-2014 07:29 PM
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(06-06-2014 07:29 PM)xpatplayer Wrote:  Tinder - an app for attractive betas to get laid and unattractive alphas to realize they're ugly. If you've ever seen an attractive girl use tinder, you realize that you have to be extremely good looking to even get a single lay.

"Extremely" good looking? not even close.
06-06-2014 07:33 PM
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Not really understanding the hoopla over Moments. It's still something that you need to be matched with the girl in order to use. Now if moments were public, then it would be a good way for a girl to notice you who previously had overlooked your profile, or it was buried under all the other dudes. But then you'll have 500+ comments from every dude in your area posting on a girl's pic. I understand you can't do it that way, which is why I'm neutral on the addition of moments. You should, if you have game -- be able to get in, get the number, get out. Moments is the scenic route to doing that (in my mind) guys were getting numbers and bangs before then. Anything that doesn't improve the ability to get more matches is a wash to me.

That app coffee meets bagel had it right, but on a small scale. You and the girl are matched at the same time and if you both like each other, you can start a convo. But it's one match every 24 hours. Maybe tinder can do it so that you're given like 30 matches per day. If they're in your 30 for the day, that means you, too, are in their 30 for the day. You can better gauge your success level. If you find yourself continuously not getting matches with girls you would have no problem gaming in real life, you know it's your pictures, or whatever. But now, you don't know if these girls are even seeing you, and seeing as how they get bombarded daily, it would be nice to put a cap on how many men women are shown per day. At least you'd know that girls are seeing your profile and just not interested as opposed to "are they even seeing me at all?" Just my opinion.
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I did a facebook name change on my fake account and it while pictures seem to update just fine the name change just won't move to Tinder.

Since I have just a few matches and have the numbers on the ones I need of that group is it smart to just delete Tinder and redo? Particularly with the new app, I might end up getting seen by new faces.
06-06-2014 09:51 PM
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(06-06-2014 09:51 PM)midlifealpha Wrote:  I did a facebook name change on my fake account and it while pictures seem to update just fine the name change just won't move to Tinder.

Since I have just a few matches and have the numbers on the ones I need of that group is it smart to just delete Tinder and redo? Particularly with the new app, I might end up getting seen by new faces.

I would delete and make a new account, yes. I mentioned this a page or two back -- for me personally, Tinder has a shelf life of about 4-5 days.

Meaning when I delete my account and make a new one, that fresh account gets like 10 matches the first day. Then descends as the days go on. Nothing changes. My pictures haven't changed, my profile has not been altered. I am active every day. Not sure why I somehow fall to the end of the line -- maybe it's possible that the first few days, you're shown girls that are minutes or hours active, but once you swipe through that batch, you start getting shown girls that are days inactive or something. That's my only logical conclusion.

It feels like when you make a new account, Tinder throws you back to the front of the line in order to get you to use the app. I don't know. I get most of my matches day one.

I've experimented and kept my profile active all week this week and not much doing. I think I'm ready to delete and start over again. I also mentioned it's a good way to get a number quick/gauge interest if you need one. After a few lines you say "so this app is really buggy, I'm gonna delete my profile and make a new one, let me have your number so I don't lose you" - if she's hesitant, oh well, if she provides the number, there you go.
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I have a really nice downtown condo and nice car - is this a good way to casually add value in an "innocent" way?

I always feel like I underplay my hand for fear of looking like a douche... but if there was an innocuous way to push my advantages I'd gladly do so.
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(06-06-2014 11:12 PM)MikeinMKE Wrote:  I have a really nice downtown condo and nice car - is this a good way to casually add value in an "innocent" way?

I always feel like I underplay my hand for fear of looking like a douche... but if there was an innocuous way to push my advantages I'd gladly do so.

I don't think it'll help you get the date and I don't necessarily think it'll help you get her back home. But when you say you "have a really nice downtown condo," I assume it's in a good location (surrounded by restaurants, bars, etc.)

^ That aspect definitely comes in handy. But bragging about your pad would only work if you have some really cool shit inside (a painting you bring up over drinks, a certain type of drink, etc.)
06-07-2014 12:33 AM
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(06-07-2014 12:33 AM)Renberg Wrote:  
(06-06-2014 11:12 PM)MikeinMKE Wrote:  I have a really nice downtown condo and nice car - is this a good way to casually add value in an "innocent" way?

I always feel like I underplay my hand for fear of looking like a douche... but if there was an innocuous way to push my advantages I'd gladly do so.

I don't think it'll help you get the date and I don't necessarily think it'll help you get her back home. But when you say you "have a really nice downtown condo," I assume it's in a good location (surrounded by restaurants, bars, etc.)

^ That aspect definitely comes in handy. But bragging about your pad would only work if you have some really cool shit inside (a painting you bring up over drinks, a certain type of drink, etc.)

Personally, I think that you can strategically drop those kinds of luxury lifestyle information pieces in at various points of communication, and girls love those kinds of demonstrations of wealth - b/c wealth equals status. I think that there are ways to accomplish such signalling regarding your nice things tactfully, without appearing like a douche.


The tagline can be about your activity or that you love being close to x location or that one of your hobbies is car collecting... or something else that you can make a story out of... especially if you have the means to follow up, if push comes to shove.


Further you can say things like "it is sure nice having a jacuzzi in the condo or that the pool is a great place to relax and catch up on reading.. if any of those luxuries are at your disposal.
06-07-2014 05:00 AM
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Well I meant in regards to the new Instagram facet (or whatever it is) of Tinder. Like I have a huge projection tv so presumably I could have a picture of the game on with people standing around or something or yah I have a juicer so I could do before and after pic of cucumber pear appletini being made "for Kentucky Derby Party" or something. Sounds lame and shallow but I feel like that platform is more for random pics than Facebook, where it would look more like you're showing off just to be douchey. For example I don't have any pictures of my place on Facebook... not one. Because that seems really show-offy.
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(06-07-2014 05:05 AM)MikeinMKE Wrote:  Well I meant in regards to the new Instagram facet (or whatever it is) of Tinder. Like I have a huge projection tv so presumably I could have a picture of the game on with people standing around or something or yah I have a juicer so I could do before and after pic of cucumber pear appletini being made "for Kentucky Derby Party" or something. Sounds lame and shallow but I feel like that platform is more for random pics than Facebook, where it would look more like you're showing off just to be douchey. For example I don't have any pictures of my place on Facebook... not one. Because that seems really show-offy.

We are probably more or less thinking in the same way here - b/c it seems that if you can put the information in a context, then you are merely showing that you are a cool guy to be involved in such activity(ies), and the car or the apartment or the jacuzzi just happens to be in the back ground... and the girl asks about it, and you may say .. "oh, that old thing, I bought it last year"... or whatever. Probably would NOT hurt to mix it up and experiment... especially if you already have some pictures that have such context.....

On the other hand, when you seen the picture or the combination of pictures, you may get a sense that the picture(s) appears to be a show off, rather than an activity.
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Spot on
06-07-2014 09:32 AM
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So I'm traveling next week for the first time while active with Tinder. is there a consensus as to whether we should download the update or will that mess up our current communications or prevent us from chicas who don't have update?
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(06-07-2014 09:34 AM)MikeinMKE Wrote:  So I'm traveling next week for the first time while active with Tinder. is there a consensus as to whether we should download the update or will that mess up our current communications or prevent us from chicas who don't have update?

I don't know the exact answer, but I've still been consistently matching with chicks. If I had to make an assumption, it would be that you still see everyone, regardless of what version to Tinder she has, but you only see the "Moments" of those who have the update.

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Next move here?

[Image: 8S13Hw6l.png?1]

I'm 29 and she's 35...haha. Her profile says she wants to, "meet new people and have fun". I'm new to this app, but when broads say that is that coded for just fucking, or am I being naive? She messaged me first too, so I'm trying my best to capitalize on this.

Off topic, but this one girl is an absolute 9+. She's a Southern Belle, marathon runner, doesn't have any pics of her pounding bud lites like 3/4 of the chicks I see, sense of humor. We were chatting and on the app and then she gave me HER number. But now she says she is real busy with work and will text me back in a couple days when things slow down... just my luck. I'm still holding out a little hope, but fuck it if she doesn't get back to me.
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(06-06-2014 04:49 AM)Borealis Wrote:  
(01-22-2014 03:38 AM)speakeasy Wrote:  



Confused

We may need a WWW III just to thin out the excess male population.

Doesn't the top 20% male do 80% of the mating? Now we know the magic number. The Earth population should be 20% male and 80% female.

Wow, the amount of "Hey"s and "You're cute"s in there is astounding. I mean, sounds like the profile had some award shot, is it so hard to come up with a "So was that an award for your stunning good looks or razor wit?" and at least be somewhat original?

(06-06-2014 11:12 PM)MikeinMKE Wrote:  I have a really nice downtown condo and nice car - is this a good way to casually add value in an "innocent" way?

I always feel like I underplay my hand for fear of looking like a douche... but if there was an innocuous way to push my advantages I'd gladly do so.

IME chicks do not dig car convos, and most guys are all about using them for DHVs, risky to bring up. You could easily can something like "OMG, some guy just --- on the street down there, you see the craziest shit in --- neighborhood" though.
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(06-07-2014 11:40 AM)Monty_Brogan Wrote:  Next move here?

[Image: 8S13Hw6l.png?1]

I'm 29 and she's 35...haha. Her profile says she wants to, "meet new people and have fun". I'm new to this app, but when broads say that is that coded for just fucking, or am I being naive? She messaged me first too, so I'm trying my best to capitalize on this.

Off topic, but this one girl is an absolute 9+. She's a Southern Belle, marathon runner, doesn't have any pics of her pounding bud lites like 3/4 of the chicks I see, sense of humor. We were chatting and on the app and then she gave me HER number. But now she says she is real busy with work and will text me back in a couple days when things slow down... just my luck. I'm still holding out a little hope, but fuck it if she doesn't get back to me.

Hit her up tonight or tomorrow with a time, place and clothing suggestion: "X:XX PM at Bar ABC. Wear a nice dress."
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I'm very excited about exploring women in the 34-40 range on Tinder. It's an age group that I have very strictly stayed away from because of guilt issues I have with leading them on, but I feel like Tinder is a game changer. If you meet on Tinder that is a perfect copout for going for a bang and not wanting any relationship.
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If anything, this Tinder update is telling me who NOT to pursue. All I've seen thus far is attention-whoring and attempted-but-failed humor.
06-08-2014 12:16 AM
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What are musicians and tv shows to like to get more in common with tons of chicas but not lose face or look like you have femme taste in music.

I see justin timberlake and John mayer a ton but I've got to be missing some. Would having Coldplay and Maroon 5 be acceptable?
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Got my first Tinder bang last night. I took a huge gamble by driving an hour to meet her but talking and texting her I got a DTF vibe. It payed off. I realized for me Tinder is just blind luck where I'm at. She said she liked my opener (Thanks Youngblood) but that's only because she was on vacation and hadn't seen any action all weekend so was feeling a little adventurous. Any other day she probably would have blocked my ass.
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I'm about to try tinder out in Nebraska and South Dakota LOL. Will let y'all know. Working great back home tho.
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