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RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - quino_16 - 07-17-2017 12:54 PM

14 days in brahs


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - casa-nostra - 07-17-2017 12:56 PM

more than 3 weeks with NoFap , but yesterday i jerk off with a handjob from a clubbing girl . Does that count ? have less motivation after that


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Mercenary - 07-17-2017 01:16 PM

(07-17-2017 12:56 PM)casa-nostra Wrote:  more than 3 weeks with NoFap , but yesterday i jerk off with a handjob from a clubbing girl . Does that count ? have less motivation after that

Depends...did she make an effort to lick up and swallow everything ? Laugh


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - roberto - 07-19-2017 02:17 AM

What are your guys thoughts on fapping to a photo of your girl when you can't be there? Would this keep the brain chemistry balanced?

I got a good streak going on but I feel like I'd be better fapping than cheating on her, mentally.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Mercenary - 07-19-2017 02:46 AM

(07-19-2017 02:17 AM)roberto Wrote:  What are your guys thoughts on fapping to a photo of your girl when you can't be there? Would this keep the brain chemistry balanced?

I got a good streak going on but I feel like I'd be better fapping than cheating on her, mentally.

It might make you feel less guilty, but I can assure you it won't help the relationship. You will feel more virile and manly and confident in your brain chemistry if you get away with cheating. Especially if the 2nd girl is even hotter than the 1st. This is the red pilled truth of how we are built as men.

Also, girls are always attracted to a man that can get other girls, even if they will never admit it.

....and girls can smell competing female pussy juice on a man - somehow - subconsciously.

She will work a lot harder to please you if she senses there is danger in competition.

Unfortunately, biology and nature do not care much about your feelings of guilt.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Uruz - 07-19-2017 05:43 PM

Had a bit of epiphany today. Watched porn this morning, did not jerk off but it was interesting in one way. Normal white chick in porn would not make me jerk off, asia chick either. The one thing left was big asses. In last few months I had almost every shape or size I was checking out virtually and suddenly when I look at that niche pornstars now, it's nothing. Jerking off would feel boring compared to the right thing and pornstars usually are not hotter than normal girls, every nice chick with some niche feature or enhanced feature could be pornstar by looks.

So I feel a bit freer. The thing was in my mind "Why would I jerk off to this shit, when I had the real thing couple days ago." It's no more some superhuman feature that I see just online but something that I can easily have for $600 flight. The same applies to fake tits, model chick etc.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Wealth of Spirit - 07-20-2017 11:40 AM

Just rubbed one out and now I feel like trash. Saw the YBOP documentary and was taken aback. Before, I'd judge people on their addictions, looking at them as "how could they be so weak?" when my habit of jerking off with porn is no better. This ends today.

I'm not going to count days, but instead, will write an end of the day report here for some accountability. This past year, I've kicked fast food and sugar. This is the hardest challenge yet, but on the other side of discipline is freedom. Good luck gentlemen and thanks for the inspiration.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - heavy - 07-20-2017 12:10 PM

One thing you could try is simply observing and recording when you fail. I do this on my calendar, similar to recording when I do BJJ or lift.

I'm much more motivated by observe and record than by goal setting. That's just me. It prevents you from beating yourself up about missing a workout or jacking it. The same shame feelings might be there, but you're removing the feeling of failure. You're saying, yep, you just jerked off. No biggie, but I gotta put it on the calendar.

I will say my system works better for doing positive things (lifting, BJJ, etc) than not doing negative things like jacking it.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Wealth of Spirit - 07-21-2017 11:57 PM

Thanks for the advice.

At this point, I'm not sure which method is effective. Generally, there are two schools of thought:

-You have to "count" your days and cannot even think about pussy for 3 months before you're cured.

-Don't count and if you rub one out, mark it on the calendar and if its less than what you've done previously, then you're making overall progress.


The issue with the first school is that its kind of unrealistic. Unless your a eunuch, there's no way some high T male is NOT going to think about pussy. C'mon son.

The second one is more with the individual than anything, as some people use the more "lax" approach to make excuses and not focus on getting better. We've all heard it before.

Quote:I can fire up Anal Assassins 7 and choke the chicken, as long as I don't do it every day.

No, sir.

Like dieting, you have to calibrate it to best fit yourself. But, if you're not following the original plan, then you're just fucking yourself. Literally.

In any case, here's the report.

Haven't rubbed one out since: July 20

Current Mood: [Image: 20346516cc74393ae471e16e1eb50899.gif]

Having done this challenge before, it doesn't start becoming difficult until about 5 days in. By day 6, I'm raging. This is the "surge" that people talk about, I suppose. The challenge here is to get past 2 weeks. If I can do that, then it should be enough momentum to keep going. This is the same tactic I used to quit other bad habits. Get past a 2 week threshold and it's much easier to mitigate. Thanks gents and keep fighting.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Cattle Rustler - 07-23-2017 12:51 AM

Just completed Day 70.

Just as things were getting back together, broke loose in one part of my life and I'm trying to fix that, so I haven't had given much thought to fapping.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Cattle Rustler - 07-23-2017 02:43 AM

hell broke loose*


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - StackGsMan - 07-28-2017 12:17 AM

I read several pages of this thread (like 10 pages) and a lot of it seemed to confirm what I had already heard about noFap. Personally when I don't fap, and the longest I've ever gone is 4 or 5 days, I pretty much lose my mind. I'm already prone to aggressiveness but my risk taking hits a totally new level. I can see how it would make life much more exciting, but it isn't worth the trouble with the poor decisions I end up making.

Also fapping seems to consume my mind when I abstain from it.


My plan is to try to not watch porn again ever unless some really rare circumstance where a chick I am really feeling is into it. I tried not watching porn and it worked for about a week recently, then I broke down and watched porn several times a day afterward. It might have just been dumb luck but during the time I wasn't watching porn I began getting incredibly positive responses from women I approached. Not that my rate of getting numbers was any higher but there wasn't a single chick that was unpleasant in the least with me.


Porn really serves no purpose, at least not after you watch it and learn some positions and the different types of sex and fetishes out there. Other than that you are at least wasting time and at most potentially fucking up your head. I have been battling Erectile Disfunction for a while now and it has cost me many notches and at many points caused me to give up on approaching which cost me further potential notches. I personally think it is mainly a physical issue, but I think it is also partially psychological and porn may be a part of the issue, however small.

Also about fapping, I am going to reserve my fapping for once or possibly twice every other day. I have a variety of reasons for doing this, but I still think not fapping at all is dangerous in my case.


As of tomorrow I will not be watching any porn (since I already watched some today) and I will try to update my thoughts on the results of not doing so periodically here as a way both to share information but also so I can keep track on what I notice.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Ringo - 07-28-2017 09:38 AM

^ Substitute "fapping" for "drinking" and read the post again - how does it sound?

Your post reads like classic addiction to masturbation.

It's hard to kick the habit but at 4-5 days without fapping you're barely scratching the surface. As you go longer, the edge dies down and only comes back in waves - the rest of the time is filled with benefits.

Also, keep in mind how much better sex feels. That's the real game changer for me.

I feel like sex has the same increment in pleasure from fap vs. nofap, as there is between banging with a condom vs. raw. It's night and day and I love it.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Kieran - 07-29-2017 04:51 AM

How I feel when not masturbating is so much better than when I am that there's no doubt in my mind that it's the way to go. Strength gains in the gym are crazy too when on it, and drive is so strong I'll be practically growling between sets. The only negatives are cumming too quickly during sex, and being prepared to fuck some low quality girls which feels horrible after finishing. I haven't lost any girls through finishing too quickly, but I used to be able to hammer girls for ages so that's a bit of an ego thing. I don't care enough to stop though.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - MrTickle - 07-30-2017 01:47 PM

15 days in now. Just had 2 week holiday and it's been a great way to get a kick start. The change of routine helped.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - 8ball - 07-30-2017 08:55 PM

I am at 35 days no fap now. i lost count on noporn days. It has been relatively easy due to having a regular girl. I have tried a couple of long no fap streches this year.

Effects on sex: heavy loads when ejaculating, ejaculating fast.

other effects: Finding women at work more attractive than before.

Thats pretty much it.


Effects found by other posters but not me: Increase in energy, other women finding you more sexually attractive, raised confidence, being more social etc. While my social life has greatly improved(which means there are more women that wanna fuck me and my confidence is reciprocally higher), it has been pretty much entirely a result of an increase in wealth rather than halt to masturbation.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Investment Bro - 07-30-2017 08:57 PM

Jumping on this train starting tomorrow, got a big month ahead at work and I want to see if nofap really brings the focus i'm going to need.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Kid Twist - 07-31-2017 01:09 PM

Echoing or distilling what others have said --- you'll realize the foolishness of digital images or movies more, especially as you age. The funny problem is precisely what Kieran said --- the double edged sword of libido, quick busting, and post ejac depression (wtf did I just bang?)--- if you aren't careful, lol.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Le Siamois - 07-31-2017 01:14 PM

Day 1, here we go again


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Wutang - 08-01-2017 05:44 PM

It's the first day of August so I'll be trying to abstain for this month. Pic related:

[Image: stopmasturbating.jpg]


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Tengen - 08-02-2017 11:58 PM

Recently decided to clear out my computer + hard drive. I had something like 200GB of "material".

Two. Hundred. Fucking. Gigabytes.

I hovered my cursor over the "delete" button. For a long time. Fuck it. A few grams of pressure on my index finger. Gone.

Goodbye Alina, Maria, Remi, Sharon, Hitomi, Yui, Evelyn, Caprice, Michelle, Abby, Barbamiska, Marika and countless other false names.

Tumblr also installed "safe mode" so no more surreptitious browsing. I've resisted the call to create an account.

There is a saying that Hell is meeting the man that you could have become. Let's make that meeting a little less painful.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - MrTickle - 08-03-2017 03:08 AM

(08-02-2017 11:58 PM)Tengen Wrote:  There is a saying that Hell is meeting the man that you could have become. Let's make that meeting a little less painful.

Great quote. I like.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - redbeard - 08-03-2017 09:43 AM

Good work Tengen.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Ivanis - 08-04-2017 07:10 PM

Alrighty, I haven't posted in nofap for a while, but now here I am. I recently started a third job, so I don't have much time off. That has been a major contributing factor to not jacking off as much, but sadly it has been a factor of getting pussy too. So this has been an almost two week hardcore run so far. The difference is real. My nuts feel heavier, I get much more looks and smiles from women then ever before, and I generally feel good. This is the furthest into nofap as I have ever been, and I can say that the urges have gone down drastically. Dopamine receptors have been fucked up so bad in many men that I imagine it would take time to reset the mind. I've not watched any porn either. Only nudity that I see on a screen is in TV shows such as Game of Thrones and Shameless(I'm eventually gonna give that show a good ranting in the lounge).

Bottom line: The shit works, have some faith in it.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - shameus_o'reaaly - 08-05-2017 08:51 AM

A bro-sciency question:
-do the blue balls, nocturnal emissions, getting morning wood again etc indicate my testosterone is actually going up, or is it that I'm just giving myself a break from porn and beating off and other junk food for the brain, so I get stimulation elsewhere?