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RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Vasily Zaytsev - 02-06-2018 12:21 AM

I made it about a month before I relapsed and fapped 5 times in 2 days. Back to day one.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - roberto - 02-06-2018 04:36 AM

I must be at four months since my last relapse now. Feeling fucking great. Keep at it gents.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Belgrano - 02-06-2018 05:00 AM

Day 30.

First month completed!

Banana


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Mercenary - 02-06-2018 05:47 AM

(02-05-2018 09:03 PM)Thrill Jackson Wrote:  I thought the point of this thread was no porn and no fapping.

It is.
Do not touch your dick AND do not look at any porn or sexy images.
You have to avoid doing either of them.
Both are very strong addictions that must be conquered.
Only by quitting both will you get the maximum number of benefits.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Mercenary - 02-06-2018 05:52 AM

(02-05-2018 08:45 PM)Thrill Jackson Wrote:  I swear to God. I haven't jacked off in five days and I got stomach pain. 4's are turning into 6's.6's are turning into 8's. If I look at a 10 too long I might just jizz my pants! I have a fatty coming over this week from Tinder, but guys. What do you do on dry streaks and you have stomach pain from blue balls?

The pain you feel is just healing going on inside you, and your internal male energy building up.
It should pass after a few days and you'll feel a lot more powerful.
You may get various different small pains all around your body during the healing process. This is normal.

Try again, but this time resist the temptation to masturbate when the pain comes.
Trust me...it should pass within a few days at the very most.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Mikestar - 02-06-2018 08:04 AM

Broke at 5 days. My eyes look droopy again, time to start over.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Mercenary - 02-06-2018 08:14 AM

(02-06-2018 08:04 AM)Mikestar Wrote:  Broke at 5 days. My eyes look droopy again, time to start over.

When you do long term NoFap your eyes start to shine like lazer beams.

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RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - sterling_archer - 02-06-2018 10:40 AM

Day 35. This has been the most effortless iteration, just because I read your brain on porn (see previous pages for my short review). But here is an interesting thing. This night and week and a half ago I had wet dreams where I only ejaculated precum. So no usual full, sticky blow. Anyone else experienced this?


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Mercenary - 02-06-2018 10:53 AM

(02-06-2018 10:40 AM)sterling_archer Wrote:  This night and week and a half ago I had wet dreams where I only ejaculated precum. So no usual full, sticky blow. Anyone else experienced this?

Precum is produced and usually drips or oozes out of your penis....it does not "squirt" out like a normal ejaculation. Precum in a healthy male happens when you are very turned turned on, but still in total control. I see it most often when I'm about to have sex with a new girl and take off my underwear. You don't even need to touch your dick....gravity when you stand up makes it flow out.

I don't see it as unusual to have a wet dream with just precum. In fact, I would not even call it a wet dream as no loss of semen/sperm happened. You probably had 1 or more sexy dreams but were able to resist the temptation, so you did not cum. In any case it is a good sign of progress and self control.

In spiritual terms (for those who believe in such things) you successfuly resisted the female demon succubus vampire who was after your sperm/semen.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - sterling_archer - 02-06-2018 11:56 AM

Yeah I know what precum is and how it functions, it's just I was really surprised that it happened as a "wet dream". Haven't heard of that type before. Last night it wasn't really a sexy dream as there weren't any other female characters and no interactions with them. But yeah, I resist urges during dreams these last couple of weeks and just precum come out. That is a big plus for me, as I hate washing myself in the middle of night while strong bathroom light gouges my eyes out hahah.

You know that I am a guy with interest in spiritual and is believer but I personally think succubus is BS and that it stems from hypnogogic state and/or sleep paralysis induced hallucinations.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - eskimobobseal - 02-06-2018 12:05 PM

Day 21 here. Tied my last record.

Temptation level is low because I've stayed far away from anything that might make me relapse. The thing I struggle with the most is the pornographic images popping up in my head. Temptation seems to come in waves for me, some days the images come flooding back into my mind and the urge gets really strong to relapse while other days they're gone.

I can definitely see early signs of healing taking place especially when I bang an actual woman.

Looking forward to finally hitting day 90.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - ShotgunUppercuts - 02-06-2018 11:45 PM

68 days. Almost at 90


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - King of Monkeys - 02-07-2018 12:48 AM

Finished with week 2. Week 3 is coming up now.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Mark Fletcher - 02-07-2018 12:55 AM

I just passed day 200 earlier this week and last night almost rationalized giving in. I managed to avoid it and today I felt great. The few minutes of pleasure really don't compare to how good it feels when you fight it.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Off The Reservation - 02-07-2018 07:28 AM

(02-01-2018 12:02 PM)juicebox Wrote:  
(02-01-2018 11:57 AM)Mercenary Wrote:  
(02-01-2018 09:20 AM)juicebox Wrote:  Sorry man but there is no medical evidence that masturbation is harmful. Medical professionals are in uniformity on the fact that it is a broadly healthy exercise. As for porn, sure, maybe that is more of a 50/50 issue. In moderation however, I see how harm.

Moderation means you don't spend 2 hours a night watching porn. 30 minutes once a week with your gf/wife has shown no medical damage. Hearsay is not evidence.

These are the same medical professionals telling you vaccines are all harmless, and the sex of children can be more than male or female, and that gender is purely created by society and can & should be modified in kids. Who are you going to trust & believe ? The medical establishment with a huge profit motive of corrupt financiers with politcial agenda to keep you weak and addicted, or over 500 respected and vetted men on RVF who have seen endless benefits firsthand and have no ulterior motive ?

It sounds to me like have never tried the 90 day challenge and don't want to.
You just want to justify your continued addiction which you can't break.

I don't think this thread is for you.

I am in med school. We study the entire human body and experience. Some of those statements you are attributing to medics belong to whack-job Sociologists. I am just stating the prevailing medical opinion.

You are in med school.

You come here telling us how you can't get laid yet going on about how medically this and that.

It isnt about medically proven rules of non-thinking garbage. Save that for when you are a so called Doctor and you stick people with drugs you don't understand but memorized that they are for such and such a condition. When they die you have special terminology about how it wasn't your fault.

I would never want ever in my life, under any circumstance to be under your "medical" care nor anyone who thinks like you - precisely because you don't think.

You are a walking talking non-thinking set of beliefs and excuses programmed into you by your own inaction and refusal to acknowledge responsibility for your life. The audacity to come to a thread of men who seek to self improve through a certain set of actions, and have achieved great results in energy and lays, and you "scientifically this and that." What a load of total bullshit. It's a subtle jab at those who are taking the said action becasue you aren't. It would be like you going to a travel thread and dissing travel, or the wagon thread and going on about medically you read a study that getting drunk doesn't do harm. You, Sir, are called out for this despicable behaviour.

I hope you don't get banned because in your current form of thinking you represent a repudiation of self-improvement that we can observe. The UK medical system - I see socialism is doing it's thing.

Good luck with your desi HR manager date, I see now what she sees in you - a future job title date. I can hear it softly spoken in her thick Desi accent laced with a rote attempt to sound English "my boyfriend is going to be a Dok-to."


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Bienvenuto - 02-07-2018 12:45 PM

Gentlemen.

My problem is this.

I try and avoid fapping as a general principle but normally I'm pretty relaxed about fapping and porn - some here may call that an addiction I don't know...

Now I am in a situation where I need to stop.

Major physical trauma = breaks in small spinal bones, trapped femoral nerve that runs from my spine down my leg. creates pain/ burn in my stomach and seizing up in my right hip. I have to do extensive physiotherapy in order to fix it. Hours a day if I can.

Guess what habit sets that all right back?

Yep.

I'm not ideologically or emotionally motivated necessarily to quit porn or fapping - I'm more like an alkie suddenly told that if he drinks again he won't get his sight back or a smoker told to quit now or lose their voice.

Any advice, insight, support welcomed.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - sterling_archer - 02-07-2018 01:13 PM

Sorry to hear that. Best wishes to you. I would suggest that you stop doing it cold turkey. You know it will hurt you physically and mentally. Currently you are aware of physical danger because of your medical condition, but you are not fully aware of mental effect. On previous pages I mentioned that Your Brain on Porn changed everything to me. Go now and download it/buy it. You will then have both awareness and you are ready for the challenge.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Alpha Hunter Zero - 02-07-2018 07:43 PM

Been clean for a few days now, almost a week. Certain things happened over the weekend that makes me very certain that I'm not going to fail again. Although I've occasionally looked at sexy/nsfw stuff, mostly pictures, and kind of stroking my shaft I really havent felt the need to ejaculate and to be honest Im kind of losing the interest to touch my dick or look at porn (have not watched videos, only images and gifs). I seriously believe what happened over the weekend is subconsciously responsible. Im hoping that continues to be a strong enough motivator to carry me out for the long term. May God have mercy on us all and help restore us to peak mental and physical state as well as control.

Below is a great article I read on the subject. May it help you guys keep fighting the good fight.

http://www.modafinilexpert.com/10-truths-about-nofap-quitting-porn-masturbation/


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Raylan Givens - 02-07-2018 08:22 PM

21 days in. Positive momentum forward.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - fitness2569 - 02-08-2018 09:41 AM

Almost 10 months in. The best thing ive done in my life. In 10 months i've become onversational in spanish, traveled to two latin American countries. Interacted with Amazing people. I'm happier , Stronger, better looking. I swear once you quit porn you can literally sense girls checking you out, it's like a spidey sense i have never had before. Cold turkey was very effective for me. 1 have done it for 10 months and i'm never going back


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Mercenary - 02-08-2018 10:16 AM

(02-08-2018 09:41 AM)fitness2569 Wrote:  Almost 10 months in. The best thing ive done in my life. In 10 months i've become onversational in spanish, traveled to two latin American countries. Interacted with Amazing people. I'm happier , Stronger, better looking. I swear once you quit porn you can literally sense girls checking you out, it's like a spidey sense i have never had before. Cold turkey was very effective for me. 1 have done it for 10 months and i'm never going back


10 months is a LONG time.
Tell us your methods for avoiding relapsing.

Also, what symptoms did your body and brain undergo in the various months ?


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - seabridge - 02-08-2018 11:51 AM

Congrats man 10 months must develop some discipline. I'm at 1.5 months in and I too feel like a much better man.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - fitness2569 - 02-08-2018 12:21 PM

Honestly Approaching tons of girls , working out, and having different projects has helped me alot. Things like learning a new language get's your mind super busy. On avoiding relapsing , i just avoid anything related to porn or wanking. I just keep busy approaching girls , traveling, learning spanish.

I played division I sports so i've grown to be really discipline and that helps with any goal i want to achieve. As far as symptoms I'm Super horny most of the time, but with meditation i'm learning to chanel that energy into not only banging alot of girls but also learning a new language.

I have always been a pretty motivated person but now it is on overdrive. If i have any goal i want to accomplish i can put in 120% into it very easy.

Finally, when it come to getting laid , i can't wait too long before finding new ass. When you know that your only way to get sexual satisfaction is through sex with a chick and not your hands, you are beyond motivated to APPROACH APPROACH APPROACH. whether it is daygame, online or wherever . Approach anxiety doesn't exist anymore


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - roberto - 02-08-2018 01:50 PM

I must just co-sign what Sterling said about Your Brain On Porn. This is a fascinating book, available free online, that really lays out how porn addiction works, and just why it is so damaging. Once you understand the mechanics, quitting is often much easier.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Nater - 02-08-2018 02:00 PM

Day 1