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RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - theCatSaysMeow - 07-10-2019 08:17 AM

I am at day 15. Been in nofap for many years now. Boredom/depression is really the culprit, so I try to engage in activities so my brain doesn't think about relapsing. Once you look at porn it is really hard to turn around.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - BalanceLife - 07-11-2019 08:22 AM

(07-07-2019 05:15 AM)BalanceLife Wrote:  
(06-14-2019 02:02 AM)BalanceLife Wrote:  Second day of my no fap no porn renewed effort.

Porn/fap on 25th June hence reset again and on the 12th day now.

I could clearly sense the goodness of this exercise, as I've been able to control my cum much easily. Previously I sometimes had problems cuming, maybe once in 3 - 5 times, but not anymore.

NoPorn and NoFap for 15 days...and then start from zero again today.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - KnjazMihailo - 07-15-2019 09:58 AM

For all the guys struggling with porn, simply try to get yourselves into the habit of completely giving up on using any electronics or digital technology (papers/magazines as well if you happen to use them) to watch porn and masturbate. It's an important step to saving yourself because it forces you to think mentally and be more creative in your fantasies if you have to cave in at least.

I've mastered this more than half a year ago but my only problem is my bad lifestyle habits and behaviours that lead me to lapse and use my imagination. Still, it's a significant improvement from being hunched over a piece of electronics like a phone or laptop for hours. You will find that if your brain hasn't been wired to any sort of disturbing cuck fantasies or other messed up things, your fantasies and mental imagination will be healthier anyway.

It's not the whole thing of course, because i'm still stuck with masturbation and i've been caving in several times, but trust me everyone, it's a massive improvement from using digital technology and electronics. Half of the battle is already won if you give up on digital technology and electronic porn.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Cattle Rustler - 07-16-2019 09:26 AM

I’m on day 115 and seriously want to give it up. I can’t last for more then 3-5 minutes in bed before busting a nut and taking time to rest for the next round because my balls are drained. Sometimes I slow down or stop a for a few secs to recompose myself and last a bit longer.

Before no fap I could smash for 30 mins straight at the very least, because I could never cum. That would lift my ego to sky high levels. Fuck this whole 5 minute man deal but I’m proud of not failing for over 100 days. So I’m at a crossroads. Go back to fapping so I won’t nut with a girl or finding a way to postpone cumming.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - sterling_archer - 07-16-2019 10:06 AM

^Why not fap (no porn of course) just once a week?


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - BalanceLife - 07-25-2019 01:32 AM

(07-11-2019 08:22 AM)BalanceLife Wrote:  
(07-07-2019 05:15 AM)BalanceLife Wrote:  
(06-14-2019 02:02 AM)BalanceLife Wrote:  Second day of my no fap no porn renewed effort.

Porn/fap on 25th June hence reset again and on the 12th day now.

I could clearly sense the goodness of this exercise, as I've been able to control my cum much easily. Previously I sometimes had problems cuming, maybe once in 3 - 5 times, but not anymore.

NoPorn and NoFap for 15 days...and then start from zero again today.

My 14th day is no fap and no porn!


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - wwtl - 07-25-2019 03:24 PM

Hmm, interesting:

Nicole Prause, pro-porn PhD, falsely accuses NoFap founder of rape threats, stalking. ($10m lawsuit)

Who could possibly be behind this?


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Slim Reaper - 07-25-2019 08:56 PM

Here's a thought. I've heard when you win at something or a team you root for wins, you get a temporary surge of testosterone. So if you jerk off, your mind thinks you got laid and then you become an animal. Obviously not right after, but the next day you have that swagger that says "hey, I'm not a virgin anymore".


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - tugofpeace - 07-25-2019 10:00 PM

(07-25-2019 08:56 PM)Slim Reaper Wrote:  Here's a thought. I've heard when you win at something or a team you root for wins, you get a temporary surge of testosterone. So if you jerk off, your mind thinks you got laid and then you become an animal. Obviously not right after, but the next day you have that swagger that says "hey, I'm not a virgin anymore".

No. Your mind thinks you got laid therefore your ambition and all other positive attributes go out the window, because your body has fulfilled it's biological obligation to reproduce (that's what the mind thinks). Furthermore you lose your semen, which has powerful effects on the body.

The only positive effect that I've ever gotten from busting a nut was that I was more relaxed in front of a hot girl after the nut. That's it.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - VNvet - 07-28-2019 07:17 AM

(07-16-2019 09:26 AM)Cattle Rustler Wrote:  I’m on day 115 and seriously want to give it up. I can’t last for more then 3-5 minutes in bed before busting a nut and taking time to rest for the next round because my balls are drained. Sometimes I slow down or stop a for a few secs to recompose myself and last a bit longer.

Before no fap I could smash for 30 mins straight at the very least, because I could never cum. That would lift my ego to sky high levels. Fuck this whole 5 minute man deal but I’m proud of not failing for over 100 days. So I’m at a crossroads. Go back to fapping so I won’t nut with a girl or finding a way to postpone cumming.

Why do you care so much?


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Lino - 07-28-2019 07:45 AM

(07-28-2019 07:17 AM)VNvet Wrote:  
(07-16-2019 09:26 AM)Cattle Rustler Wrote:  I’m on day 115 and seriously want to give it up. I can’t last for more then 3-5 minutes in bed before busting a nut and taking time to rest for the next round because my balls are drained. Sometimes I slow down or stop a for a few secs to recompose myself and last a bit longer.

Before no fap I could smash for 30 mins straight at the very least, because I could never cum. That would lift my ego to sky high levels. Fuck this whole 5 minute man deal but I’m proud of not failing for over 100 days. So I’m at a crossroads. Go back to fapping so I won’t nut with a girl or finding a way to postpone cumming.

Why do you care so much?

To make it more enjoyable for the lady, if you nut in 3 min whenever you fuck her you won’t be seeing her for long.

I had this problem as well, that was embarrassing to finish in a few minutes, things went slowly to normal with regular sex.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Slofie - 07-28-2019 07:59 AM

This thread is awesome! I start nofap life today.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Captain Gh - 07-28-2019 09:16 AM

(07-28-2019 07:17 AM)VNvet Wrote:  
(07-16-2019 09:26 AM)Cattle Rustler Wrote:  I’m on day 115 and seriously want to give it up. I can’t last for more then 3-5 minutes in bed before busting a nut and taking time to rest for the next round because my balls are drained. Sometimes I slow down or stop a for a few secs to recompose myself and last a bit longer.

Before no fap I could smash for 30 mins straight at the very least, because I could never cum. That would lift my ego to sky high levels. Fuck this whole 5 minute man deal but I’m proud of not failing for over 100 days. So I’m at a crossroads. Go back to fapping so I won’t nut with a girl or finding a way to postpone cumming.

Why do you care so much?

Laugh3

Isn't it obvious?



RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Broadband - 07-28-2019 02:11 PM

I've never noticed much when doing NoFap. Perhaps because my record is some odd 45 days, but now 14 days in PMO can't say I feel much of a difference.

I seem to admire women more in public which I assume is because of the no porn, but besides that just an extra 5-10 minutes a day.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - wwtl - 08-03-2019 04:22 PM

I went to a birthday party with almost 4 months of Nofap (20 days of uninterrupted retention) and I again noticed my calming effect even on women I don't know at all and just met. Once I have them in my vicinity, they start to feel safe, comfortable and don't care about accidental touching. And I'm far from being a tall and strong guy.

I wouldn't mention this if I had seen this effect my whole life, but it used be quite the opposite, with girls trying the hardest to keep the 1-2 foot distance. Now I tend to have them almost on me without any effort. Not to mention that I don't get nervous anymore, which used to be a thing around females as well.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - fortysix - 08-05-2019 01:07 AM

Day 1 for me fellas. Relapses hard today and afterwards realized this isnt what I want to be doing as a succesful guy in my 30s. My wife is travelling this month so im all in as of today.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - thatnowrite - 08-07-2019 10:52 AM

Hey all,

I am just thinking of starting NoFap today. My wife is currently not with me; she and other female distractions are not available for a while. My test levels are not ideal (around 450 ng/dl as tested last week); I am 40 years old, hit the Gym at least three times a week for the last two years; currently trying to bulk.

Thinking NoFap could help me increase my testosterone and my gains, but I was worried since I will be alone for some weeks, if it could negatively affect my prostate.

Do you have any thoughts?


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - BalanceLife - 08-10-2019 06:29 AM

25 days with No Fap and No Porn.

Finally I broke down and Fap 4 times in two nights..... Sorry lads I am restarting from today.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - wwtl - 08-10-2019 08:44 AM

(08-07-2019 10:52 AM)thatnowrite Wrote:  Thinking NoFap could help me increase my testosterone and my gains, but I was worried since I will be alone for some weeks, if it could negatively affect my prostate.

The prostate stuff is debunked BS spread by the (((cigarette doctors))) of our time. In fact fapping gives you cancer.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Slofie - 08-11-2019 01:01 AM

day 14. Feel great


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - fortysix - 08-11-2019 01:17 AM

Ugh day 1 tomorrow...


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - roberto - 08-12-2019 04:23 AM

(08-11-2019 01:01 AM)Slofie Wrote:  day 14. Feel great

Same here.

After a bad relapse, I resolved to use a tally counter. Whilst it feels like ages since I last looked at porn, the I was surprised to see that the reality is I am only 14 days in. Anyone else experience this?


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - bucky - 08-16-2019 11:02 PM

(08-10-2019 08:44 AM)wwtl Wrote:  
(08-07-2019 10:52 AM)thatnowrite Wrote:  Thinking NoFap could help me increase my testosterone and my gains, but I was worried since I will be alone for some weeks, if it could negatively affect my prostate.

The prostate stuff is debunked BS spread by the (((cigarette doctors))) of our time. In fact fapping gives you cancer.

Where'd you get that info about it giving you cancer?


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - wwtl - 08-17-2019 01:44 AM

(08-16-2019 11:02 PM)bucky Wrote:  
(08-10-2019 08:44 AM)wwtl Wrote:  
(08-07-2019 10:52 AM)thatnowrite Wrote:  Thinking NoFap could help me increase my testosterone and my gains, but I was worried since I will be alone for some weeks, if it could negatively affect my prostate.

The prostate stuff is debunked BS spread by the (((cigarette doctors))) of our time. In fact fapping gives you cancer.

Where'd you get that info about it giving you cancer?

https://www.livescience.com/7658-masturbation-increase-risk-prostate-cancer.html


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Lino - 08-17-2019 02:03 AM

(07-16-2019 09:26 AM)Cattle Rustler Wrote:  I’m on day 115 and seriously want to give it up. I can’t last for more then 3-5 minutes in bed before busting a nut and taking time to rest for the next round because my balls are drained. Sometimes I slow down or stop a for a few secs to recompose myself and last a bit longer.

Before no fap I could smash for 30 mins straight at the very least, because I could never cum. That would lift my ego to sky high levels. Fuck this whole 5 minute man deal but I’m proud of not failing for over 100 days. So I’m at a crossroads. Go back to fapping so I won’t nut with a girl or finding a way to postpone cumming.

I had the same problem. Things went back progressively to normal when I started seeing a girl regularly once or twice a week.

I once tried to explain to a girl that I was on no fap to justify my 3 minute performance, she thought I was making up excuses and we never saw each other again, not a loss anyway.
In this modern world there is the pressure of performance in all areas, the next one I met was more patient and we’ve seen each other regularly, after a few weeks things went back to normal.
Edit: forgot that I answered already,