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RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Rompetoto - 07-26-2013 09:35 PM

Currently on day 15 and something is definitely happening. This may sound really crazy but here me out. With certain chicks that I'm in close proximity to there literally feels like a little magnetic tug between us. I know the chicks can feel to it by their body language and their demeanor when I open them. Is this the masculine/feminine polarity people talk about? Are my pheromones signaling to these bitches that this guy is loaded with testosterone and a full ball sack ready to impregnate you? Or am I just cultivating sexual energy that these girls can just sense by having raw sex and not fapping? Maybe a combo of all of them? Any feedback would be cool.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Tenerife - 07-27-2013 07:42 AM

Why not just decrease the amount from multiple times a day to maybe 1 time a day, once every two days.

Even once a week seems a little harsh.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Prophylaxis - 07-27-2013 07:58 AM

signing up for the noporn motion. I've been watching porn since I was a kid, haven't noticed any side effects - but don't even want to think of the amount of time wasted. Even if I have a woman on a side, I'm still watching porn every couple days - purely out of habit.

Aside from the obvious, you boys think of any alternate ways to reward your brain - when substituting for porn ?


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Tenerife - 07-27-2013 08:06 AM

Essentially, porn releases dopamine, which is essentially like crack, only much less dopamine than with crack.

Anything that you view as potentially rewarding will also give you a dopamine buzz. So working on goals and hobbies will give you a similar fix.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Neo - 07-29-2013 04:29 PM

Update:

Ok guys, I'm not counting the days, but I am continuing the challenge. The non libido thing subsided quickly. Unfortunately, I am going through a month long dry spell while doing this, let me say I am going insane. I am much more motivated to approach and interact with girls, but my mind's only focus is how to restart the clock. It's getting to the point where I think I'm showing desperation as my vibe is I need to get laid. Hell I've even been considering hitting up strip clubs, something I haven't done in years. I have a few meetups this week hopefully one of them pans out, otherwise I'm losing my mind.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - pitt - 07-29-2013 04:38 PM

(07-29-2013 04:29 PM)Neo Wrote:  Update:

Ok guys, I'm not counting the days, but I am continuing the challenge. The non libido thing subsided quickly. Unfortunately, I am going through a month long dry spell while doing this, let me say I am going insane. I am much more motivated to approach and interact with girls, but my mind's only focus is how to restart the clock. It's getting to the point where I think I'm showing desperation as my vibe is I need to get laid. Hell I've even been considering hitting up strip clubs, something I haven't done in years. I have a few meetups this week hopefully one of them pans out, otherwise I'm losing my mind.

Dont give up man, stay strong. Actually i believe this challenge become more interesting when you are not having sex. I am looking to stay 3 months without fapping or sex..i know without sex will be hard..but if i can handle it well, then i will do it.

Once your body adapts to the fact that you can live without sex, thats it, you are set for life. I want to get to that stage, not sure if is possible.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Player_1337 - 07-31-2013 01:53 AM

As of late, all sex and no fapping.

This has been quite fun.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - amity - 08-01-2013 09:03 AM

When there isn't a steady of supply, this becomes very challenging!
almost broke my fast today, took a hell of a lot of willpower to calm the beast


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - darklightdispatch - 08-01-2013 01:48 PM

Well, I broke my 13 day nofap streak last night. I was experiencing some prostate "heaviness," and difficulty peeing...starting and stopping and some (presumably) prostate fluid leakage.

I'm disappointed I didn't make it longer but it felt good to clean out the pipes. On the positive side, I didn't look at porn or fantasize about porn-like scenarios. I just concentrated on the physical sensation and got it taken care of quickly.

Where I went wrong was making out and grinding with a chick the other day. After that, I stayed aroused and my body was really wanting release.

I think a big factor in making nofap success easier is avoiding overly arousing situation (unless you're just going to go ahead and fuck, of course.)

Also, I definitely am getting the sense more and more that porn is the main problem, moreso than fapping. An occasional jack off isn't necessary, but it also isn't a huge deal.

It's the brain "re-wiring" that endlessly available and endlessly novel internet porn causes that results in ED and the other problems so many people have been reporting. Also, without porn in the picture, I don't think most of us would get in the habit of jerking off with the high frequency that is common these days.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - amity - 08-01-2013 06:51 PM

I look at porn too often really, but I don't fap that much, especially not in the last year or so since I've been more disciplined
A couple of years ago when one night, I couldn't sleep, and I flicked on the pc and started surfing aimlessly, and just happened to type in 'nsfw amateur' and lo and behold, the first clip that comes up is an ex of mine blowing some dude!!
So that fucked up my head for a while and I began looking for more clips of her (to no avail mostly, and I wasted so much time in the process)
Am mostly over that chick now, but spotting that clip did set me back a bit, my oneitis for her returned, at least for a while, before I pulled myself together again
Another reason to lay off the porn! Eventually you will see someone you recognise, and well, that can be the road to ruin!


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - GoldenCock - 08-01-2013 10:48 PM

(07-26-2013 09:35 PM)Luccheese Wrote:  Currently on day 15 and something is definitely happening. This may sound really crazy but here me out. With certain chicks that I'm in close proximity to there literally feels like a little magnetic tug between us. I know the chicks can feel to it by their body language and their demeanor when I open them. Is this the masculine/feminine polarity people talk about? Are my pheromones signaling to these bitches that this guy is loaded with testosterone and a full ball sack ready to impregnate you? Or am I just cultivating sexual energy that these girls can just sense by having raw sex and not fapping? Maybe a combo of all of them? Any feedback would be cool.

Im nearing 2 weeks as well and I can corroborate your story. The same thing is happening to me. Im sucking women towards me like a vacuum. Im talking to way more women, they are friendlier and receptive, im more comfortable talking with them too. I was already confident, bold and a bit cocky....this just amplifies it. Im a little bit of $$ short of being unstoppable.BananaBananaBanana


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - GoldenCock - 08-01-2013 10:49 PM

Note: Im having way more sexual dreams and night/morning boners. Happening more frequently. Its like my body is turning back the clock and resetting itself..im 18-21 all over again.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Cr33pin - 08-02-2013 10:14 AM

I looked at some porn gifs for like 2 minutes..... then fapped 2 or 3 hours later, really not even thinking about the gifs.

Sometimes I find myself trying to head in the porn direction when im bored and surfing the web..... I will click on a article about a porn star or something but not a actual porn site.. I think my brain is trying to be sneaky an get me to view porn


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Genghis Khan - 08-02-2013 06:26 PM

Day 6...haven't really noticed any benefit.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Rompetoto - 08-02-2013 11:51 PM

(08-01-2013 10:48 PM)GoldenCock Wrote:  
(07-26-2013 09:35 PM)Luccheese Wrote:  Currently on day 15 and something is definitely happening. This may sound really crazy but here me out. With certain chicks that I'm in close proximity to there literally feels like a little magnetic tug between us. I know the chicks can feel to it by their body language and their demeanor when I open them. Is this the masculine/feminine polarity people talk about? Are my pheromones signaling to these bitches that this guy is loaded with testosterone and a full ball sack ready to impregnate you? Or am I just cultivating sexual energy that these girls can just sense by having raw sex and not fapping? Maybe a combo of all of them? Any feedback would be cool.

Im nearing 2 weeks as well and I can corroborate your story. The same thing is happening to me. Im sucking women towards me like a vacuum. Im talking to way more women, they are friendlier and receptive, im more comfortable talking with them too. I was already confident, bold and a bit cocky....this just amplifies it. Im a little bit of $$ short of being unstoppable.BananaBananaBanana

I'm glad someone else is experiencing this. It's a different thing to explain to someone who has not felt it themselves. I would also like to add that the eye fucking I get from girls is something else to. An example being, Thursday afternoon I was walking towards the entrance of a subway. When a cute little brunette walked out hand in hand with her boyfriend. As we walked by each other we held eye contact and her faced became flushed. I shot her a smirk, she smiled and looked down quickly. The funny thing was that this all went down right in front of her herb boyfriend.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - TopPanda - 08-02-2013 11:52 PM

I need to get in on this.

Been a heavy porn user for years, and I find I rarely get that strongly aroused by it these days, although my equipment still works.

I just find it's hard to give up, and I constantly want new porn. If I go on a date and it's not successful, I just go back into the porn world. But I've now moved myself to Thailand where there is an abundance of real women and probably a good place to give up porn.

A good thing about porn is that it reduced my stupidly high sex drive and allowed me to do more productive things. In the pre-porn era just seeing girls in the street would make my hormones go crazy and I couldn't get anything productive done.

It was probably not a coincidence that I started my successful business around the same time I discovered masses of internet porn.

Napoleon Hill touches upon this in "Think And Grow Rich".

If you must look at porn, then softcore movies don't do much damage.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Collide - 08-04-2013 02:41 PM

I went a week without it and my confidence did shoot up, I kind of like the feeling.

Isn't the obvious problem that if you in fact pull a girl and sleep with her you will blow your load way too fast? I'm young so I have no problem getting it up, it's shooting too fast.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - reino341 - 08-04-2013 03:14 PM

(08-04-2013 02:41 PM)Collide Wrote:  I went a week without it and my confidence did shoot up, I kind of like the feeling.

Isn't the obvious problem that if you in fact pull a girl and sleep with her you will blow your load way too fast? I'm young so I have no problem getting it up, it's shooting too fast.

Yes, but I think it's an acceptable tradeoff given that I might not have that girl in my bed in the first place of it wasn't for nofap. Extend the foreplay and go for a round two.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Nascimento - 08-04-2013 08:30 PM

I think its important to add if it hasn't been said already..

If you're someone who barely faps anyways and occasionally watches something, the benefits will be there, although less.

If you're someone who faps all the time (several times a week or daily) and always does it to porn, then the benefits will be tremendous.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - GoldenCock - 08-04-2013 08:33 PM

Not fapping has increased my Kevorka Pimp Game exponentially.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - mikado - 08-05-2013 06:21 AM

I want some advice.

I have not been laid for 10 months (!!!) , and I always have the need to get some sex. What do I do?
Sure I try gaming almost everyday, but I never get laid -_- By the way the hookup culture with ONS is almost non existent here (Grenoble, France). Almost every time I see two people leaving a bar or making out, they already knew each other. The hookup rate in clubs is not high either (people leave always in massive groups whether at bars, or clubs). It's August, the only club that allowed me to enter this year ( I am a young black not that rich) has closed till September, and the other clubs do not let black people like me enter (sadly this is the truth).
Makeouts are really scarce in the bars (making me wonder whether to go there). It seems like I can't get laid without relying on social circle... Which I admit I did not build last year.
Bars, except for one or 2 in the city, have also become scarce in customers... And the ratio is like 70/30 for men, who never ever let their girlfriends go talk to the lone guy gaming solo (me).
Now, even if I have decided to wait till the freshmen (and women) come, in something like 3 weeks,to construct some massive social circle, tell me please what can I do to avoid this really high frustration from Non hooking up( 10-11 freakin months!!!!!!!! ), if I don't fap Sad


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Nascimento - 08-05-2013 07:04 AM

(08-05-2013 06:21 AM)mikado Wrote:  I want some advice.

I have not been laid for 10 months (!!!) , and I always have the need to get some sex. What do I do?
Sure I try gaming almost everyday, but I never get laid -_- By the way the hookup culture with ONS is almost non existent here (Grenoble, France). Almost every time I see two people leaving a bar or making out, they already knew each other. The hookup rate in clubs is not high either (people leave always in massive groups whether at bars, or clubs). It's August, the only club that allowed me to enter this year ( I am a young black not that rich) has closed till September, and the other clubs do not let black people like me enter (sadly this is the truth).
Makeouts are really scarce in the bars (making me wonder whether to go there). It seems like I can't get laid without relying on social circle... Which I admit I did not build last year.
Bars, except for one or 2 in the city, have also become scarce in customers... And the ratio is like 70/30 for men, who never ever let their girlfriends go talk to the lone guy gaming solo (me).
Now, even if I have decided to wait till the freshmen (and women) come, in something like 3 weeks,to construct some massive social circle, tell me please what can I do to avoid this really high frustration from Non hooking up( 10-11 freakin months!!!!!!!! ), if I don't fap Sad

Change some things if it's not working out.

Tune your night game. Are you being aggressive enough, or are you being too aggressive? Are you comfortable going out solo, because to succeed solo you have to be comfortable in your own skin.

Start some daygame. You didn't mention going out of your way to do some day approaches.

Change your focus a bit. Focus more on sports and working out so that you have something else to release your energy.

Besides that, it will come if you put the effort in.

Just look at dryspells as a chance to learn and change up what isn't working.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - mikado - 08-05-2013 07:25 AM

(08-05-2013 07:04 AM)Nascimento Wrote:  
(08-05-2013 06:21 AM)mikado Wrote:  I want some advice.

I have not been laid for 10 months (!!!) , and I always have the need to get some sex. What do I do?
Sure I try gaming almost everyday, but I never get laid -_- By the way the hookup culture with ONS is almost non existent here (Grenoble, France). Almost every time I see two people leaving a bar or making out, they already knew each other. The hookup rate in clubs is not high either (people leave always in massive groups whether at bars, or clubs). It's August, the only club that allowed me to enter this year ( I am a young black not that rich) has closed till September, and the other clubs do not let black people like me enter (sadly this is the truth).
Makeouts are really scarce in the bars (making me wonder whether to go there). It seems like I can't get laid without relying on social circle... Which I admit I did not build last year.
Bars, except for one or 2 in the city, have also become scarce in customers... And the ratio is like 70/30 for men, who never ever let their girlfriends go talk to the lone guy gaming solo (me).
Now, even if I have decided to wait till the freshmen (and women) come, in something like 3 weeks,to construct some massive social circle, tell me please what can I do to avoid this really high frustration from Non hooking up( 10-11 freakin months!!!!!!!! ), if I don't fap Sad

Change some things if it's not working out.

Tune your night game. Are you being aggressive enough, or are you being too aggressive? Are you comfortable going out solo, because to succeed solo you have to be comfortable in your own skin.

Start some daygame. You didn't mention going out of your way to do some day approaches.

Change your focus a bit. Focus more on sports and working out so that you have something else to release your energy.

Besides that, it will come if you put the effort in.

Just look at dryspells as a chance to learn and change up what isn't working.


First, thank you for your advice.
Actually, I am pretty comfortable in my skin when I game solo(I always go solo now). Girls often come next to me when they see me (not saying I always approach them , though)
For the aggressiveness, I don't know. I feel like I give too much sometimes the horny vibe. Too fast moves also, have been working on these lately. I dance quite good solo, but need to get better in partner dancing.
Thing is that too I don't want to wait for 1-2h talking to a group, befriending them... It sucks up my energy, for no guaranteed result. Maybe I should be doing it though... But I feel like the best way should be coming with my own group of girlfriends (some males are ok too).

I do daygame often too. Everywhere. I even go sometimes alone in the city (I live a bit outside) to game... Never gotten more than some makeouts on a date with one girl. Too many flaky numbers.

I guess I will do some sports... Not a bad idea.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - bacan - 08-05-2013 09:31 AM

7 days.. I am enjoying the feeling of being more touchy with girls.. hmm .. but I feel like my sex drive has also dropped too.. Very weird.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Every10GivesMeA10 - 08-05-2013 09:33 AM

(08-05-2013 09:31 AM)bacan Wrote:  7 days.. I am enjoying the feeling of being more touchy with girls.. hmm .. but I feel like my sex drive has also dropped too.. Very weird.

It always drops after a few days. I personally just do no porn. I still try to fap every few days. Haven't fapped to porn in a few weeks now.