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RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - DonJuanBrown - 03-27-2014 09:20 AM

Just want to add a few things to the convo because I've watched a lot of porn and have been overfapping for the past six years or so.

I can definitely attest to how porn (and creating fantasies in your own mind) can totally fuck up your sense of sexual reality.

The sight/thought of another dude's cock is a boner killer for me, so I've been almost exclusively into girl on girl porn. If I'm fantasizing, then I usually make it a threesome haha. Keep in mind, I was whacking it to lesbo images and fantasies before I ever had my first real sexual experience with a girl. I'm ashamed to say that I went soft the first time a girl sucked me off because it wasn't anything what I expected. I bounced back, but during blow jobs I would often have to imagine the girl getting it on with one of her friends to cum. It's gotten better and better on its own over the years, but when I'm fapping, it's still centered on these vids/fantasies. That's why I'm trying NoFap.

Not watching porn is easy for me because I can always fall back to the elaborate fantasies I create. The longest I've gone without fapping is three days...this is fucking hard!


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - English - 03-27-2014 09:40 AM

Cardguy ^
I've only had 3 wanks since the beginning of November. The urge to have a Wank comes rarely now but I'm always horny (much more than before).

I've also had my main girl round once a week and we Fuck 3/4 times that night so maybe that has curbed the desire to fap. When I do fap it's not too porn either


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - No Habit - 03-27-2014 12:27 PM

Man six days without ejaculating already and I didn't even get a boner. After that I will turn to NoPiss and NoShit challenge. Looking forward to NoBreath also.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - cardguy - 03-27-2014 01:30 PM

lol - I'm out.

Jerked off twice today. I was looking at some images - and couldn't face going to work with a semi. I was in a bad enough mood as it was with the thought of a long day at work ahead of me.

If you count total hours - I reckon I lasted about three and a half days.

I could have gone longer - but the problem is that when you haven't jerked off you become more interested in checking out hot girls. And when that happens it is easy to slip into jerking off.

I am not proud of myself - I could have lasted longer. But it is what it is.

Looking at everything in the round I would say this. The problem isn't jerking off - it is when you jerk off past the point of it even being pleasurable.

Limiting yourself to jerking off once a day - or once every other day is fine. It is when you jerk off 3-4 times in a day, just for the sake of it and because you are bored that it is more of a problem. Since it leaves you with a lethargic feeling for a couple of days afterwards where you are pretty much asexual.

I do think the no-fap thing is interesting. But - in the past day on a couple of occasions I got spasms/cramps in my lower back. And I have never had them before. Pretty weird.

Where no-fap does help is in breaking the porno cycle of looking for harder and harder images/videos. Not just harder images - but endlessly searching for the 'perfect' one. I am not a hardcore porn kinda' guy - but I am somebody who will waste hours looking for the exact video clip to satisfy my particular mood that day. Which is pretty much the same thing.

Usually - the 'What do you consider a 10?' thread would not do anything to me - since I was used to looking at more intense images than the pretty girls in that thread. Yet - over the past 3 days - I became interested in the thread as my brain reset to appreciate more vanilla type images. And I think that is a good thing. Almost like a detox which helps you appreciate the flavour of simple foods which you have overlooked for too long.

My problem isn't fapping. My problem is fapping 3-4 times in a day. Since the last couple of faps are pretty pointless. And that is a habit I would like to get rid of forever. I am not sure how much it would benefit mean going longer with a no-fap to be honest. But it is something I will think about in future - since it is an interesting way of instantly resetting your brain's tastes in sex and porn.

They we are. Just wanted to be straight with you guys - and not bullshit you in a few days time by saying I went a week with no problems.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Cr33pin - 03-29-2014 04:28 PM

I lost.... as I always do. I make it like a week and it feels like I haven't fapped in months.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - No Habit - 03-30-2014 11:06 AM

Day 0 again. Made the mistake of forcing myself to a boner and the unleashed force knocked me over. Bragging about how easy it is in post #803 and then breaking down... that's embarassing.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - L M McCoy - 03-30-2014 11:47 AM

The hardest part for me is not going on porn sites. The curiosity of "I wonder what new videos they have up?" is KILLING ME!

I lack so much self control its embarrassing


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Vaun - 04-02-2014 11:07 PM

I will make it 2 or 3 days then give in, the goal is once a week. It gets tough when I give myself blue balls when I think about women. The blue balls will last all day until I fap.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Vaun - 04-02-2014 11:09 PM

(03-23-2014 02:07 PM)slubu Wrote:  393 days

So how has this effected you at work? Are you more focused, or more hot headed? I am afraid it may make me too aggressive at work.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Bushido - 04-03-2014 12:22 AM

28 days.

NF is just a habit now. I don't think about it.

Added zinc and my sex drive is on turbo.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - magellan - 04-03-2014 06:35 AM

Checking in at day 74. If you ever want to experience male PMS, go 74 days without masturbating or consistent sex. It's been tough; some serious mood swings recently when it comes to chick problems too so controlling your emotional state is a challenge. I've had two very long and trying flatline periods and have just recently come back strong. Rock hard morning wood every day and strong urges to get some release.

I feel like my dog. Just want to hump everything that moves.

The upside is that this is definitely an accomplishment and moves you to be productive in other parts of your life as well. I'm working out consistently, eating well, getting shit done, and it feels good. The downside is the mental torture and constantly thinking about sex, but it's not so bad once you get focused. That said, being in between college and work life living back home has been tough on the psyche without a social life or girls. Can't wait to start and get back out there. I have no plans to return to masturbation, but something's gotta give soon. I have an addictive personality and know that all it will take is one go around to get me hooked again, especially with pornography.

My problems with lasting too long / not being able to finish when it comes to sex are completely gone as well. I'm fucking with a new vigor and rock hard boners to the point where it can actually be a bit uncomfortable.

Final verdict: nofap = better and more consistent boners, better sex, better mentality, but intense mood swings if you're not releasing consistently. I'm glad I've done it and look forward to crossing the finish line at day 90.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - redbeard - 04-03-2014 04:49 PM

Day 15. Consistent sex. NO PORN USE this time either!


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - L M McCoy - 04-03-2014 05:31 PM

Back to day 0. SMH


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Felix88 - 04-03-2014 06:13 PM

3 days without fapping, approached a girl who is as close as my "10" as it get yesterday, she gave me a most raging boner I've ever had in my life just by looking at her but I didn't push for more and I was kicking myself, went home and looking at some porn but didn't fap because the boner I got by looking at porn couldn't compare.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Incognito - 04-05-2014 06:14 AM

Haven't been fapping since last monday. Damn, it is driving me crazy. I feel so full and crazy. Espescially when I want to go to sleep I am almost dying to nut, but I will keep strong.

Pro:
- I have been talking to way more girls because I just want to nut

Con:
- Getting crazy
- Sometimes being too agressive with no patient to chill with a girl. I approach them very aggressive(online dating), I have to control this.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - tylerdurden1993 - 04-05-2014 06:45 AM

I haven't fapped since last Thursday however I have had two sex "sessions" one last Friday night and one last Thursday night so have found I don't need to fap at all if having semi regular sex.
However I am now at home from uni for the easter break so the chance of me getting any action is pretty much near zero, bad logistics etc. So the chance of me fapping is quite high but hopefully i'll last to at least Tuesday/Wednesday next week.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - redbeard - 04-05-2014 10:41 AM

On how the mighty fall - I got pretty drunk last night and watched half an hour of porn then jacked off. DAY ZERO


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - cardguy - 04-05-2014 10:48 AM

How long did you do the no-fap thing for? It was quite awhile wasn't it???


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - redbeard - 04-05-2014 11:03 AM

That streak was about 17 days of no porn or masturbation. I've been "on the wagon" for a few years though.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - HankRearden - 04-05-2014 12:46 PM

Checking in from Guatemala. Good to see the progress guys, keep up the work.

Cardguy: If you're struggling too much just go for it in stages - that is, try to limit it to maybe once a week on Sundays, and don't do it if you pick up on the Fri/Sat, for example. Sound doable?


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - cardguy - 04-05-2014 04:31 PM

Yeah - I am going to experiment with that some more. Thanks for the advice.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - rottenapple - 04-06-2014 10:16 PM

Okay guys I'm in!! I was already doing the no porn, since long I am convinced that this was necessary. However lately at times I had trouble keeping it up during sex, this while I'm eating well, taking supps and doing sports. So I decided for harsh measures!! No Fap and only stunning girls, this will be tough, that I already know.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - redbeard - 04-06-2014 11:10 PM

Best of luck! You will definitely start to see some improvements to your sex drive but remember YMMV. Let me tell you - it's much better worrying about if you're going to splooge quickly with vs if you'll be able to keep it up.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Vaun - 04-09-2014 07:21 PM

got a handy today from a newer fling and I busted within a minute. Have fapped 2-3 times a week lately, there may be something to this


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - kaotic - 04-10-2014 05:55 PM

Been pretty solid since February, I enjoy women alot more, I've closed alot more. I can give it a go more than once with a girl as well. I just feel more aggressive focused and masculine.