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RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - kosko - 04-29-2014 07:14 PM

I was pushing 3 months no porn, and 4 months + no fap. Day 1.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Chemistry - 04-29-2014 07:26 PM

I'm on this wagon now too. Only been 4 days though. Starting because the last THREE girls I was with, I couldn't get it up for unless they were whacking me off really aggressively. I chalked it up to other factors but three times in a row = a trend. and it's time to take some action.

I used to love not-cumming - made me feel like a man to "outlast" the girl - but now lack of sensitivity is obviously a problem.

Keep it up guys


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - HankRearden - 04-29-2014 08:02 PM

Chemistry: I had a similar thing going down in the past. It might take some time to cure, and there might be a flatline period, but in the end you will be so incredibly thankful that you dropped the addiction.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Switch - 04-29-2014 08:40 PM

I'm stopping all porn and masturbation activities starting now. Yesterday i herked it 3 times to porn and once without. My sex drive is through the roof right now and I am going to get my first lay within a month. No mas porno. No mas jack off. Time to get serious.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - redbeard - 05-06-2014 02:23 PM

Right now I am at 9 days pornfree and 13 days nofap. One of the biggest tools that has helped me is RVF chatroom, which can be found here.

Going on and shooting the shit with like-minded guys motivates me to work on something important instead of watching porn. The chatroom gets busy around 9 PM my time and that's usually when I get my urges the most.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - HankRearden - 05-06-2014 05:43 PM

I went from having huge delayed ejaculation problems, to having to put on a condom last night 5 minutes in because I thought I might finish fast.

The difference was cutting out porn and masturbation.

Gentleman, I think I am cured!

(If you want to read more about my story with quitting porn, and my 'Quitting Porn Data Sheet' feel free to check out my earlier post in this thread: http://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-12879-post-680821.html#pid680821)


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - xpatplayer - 05-08-2014 03:38 PM

Haven't jerked off in a week and I'm walking around with a boner half the day. I do feel more energetic and alive, and I can feel a higher testosterone content. Longest I've gone without fapping in 3 years. But shit, I just want to fuck.I'm constantly thinking of girls who I have a good chance of fucking, even if they're ugly.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - zanetti - 05-12-2014 03:38 AM

I'm gonna get into this.

Was suffering from insomnia over the weekend and ended up having a marathon porn session. Have been feeling empty and depressed all day today and didn't feel like talking to anyone, esp girls.

A couple of years ago I used the Sedona method to cure me of my porn habits. It worked great for about six months but then the desire for porn came back.

Today I'm turning the tide....


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - redbeard - 05-12-2014 11:43 AM

Could you elaborate more on the Sedona method and it's usefulness, especially if other forum members would find it useful.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - zanetti - 05-13-2014 12:21 AM

I used the Sedona method for a while about 4 years ago or so and it helped me get rid of/improve a couple of issues I had been having, namely porn and titty bars.

The Sedona method believes that any type of negative behavior, including addictions, negative thoughts, depression etc, is caused by unconscious emotional/energy blockages that accumulate over time.

They have a number of audio products and work books. How it works is that you're asked to get into the feeling of this particular issue/addiction that you want to get rid of and then you ask yourself a number of questions how this issue makes you feel, and then at the end you "let go" of it.

This may sound like a lot of new age BS to some of the peeps on here but it actually works, at least for me it did. The interesting thing is that you can actually get to the bottom of why you're exhibiting this kind of behavior. For me it was the fact that on a very deep, emotional, subconscious level that I was not consciously aware of, I believed that I wasn't good enough, not worthy. So this led me to pay for attention (titty bars) and watch other people getting it on, not myself (porn).

Once I got into the feeling of this basic thought/emotion, I was able to release it through the Sedona method. It took me a couple of weeks of using this method to get to this deeper level but once I reached it, all of my previous wants/desires/inclinations for porn/strippers completely disappeared. So I wasn't using any willpower whatsoever, I just didn't have the urges anymore.

This lasted for about six months before the porn habit kinda creeped back in a bit but it never became as severe as it had been in the past. The Sedona method actually tells you that this is very common and normal, that once you get rid of a certain problem, it is possible that it may return in a similar or slightly altered form. This doesn't mean that the method didn't work but rather that you need to go even deeper.

Even though it was working for me, I decided to stop using the Sedona method when I found something else that I thought/think is even more effective, namely Qigong.

I have found that, at least for myself, a lot of these negative thoughts and behavior patterns are caused by emotional/energy blockages in the body. The Sedona method, other release techniques and Qigong are ways of breaking through those barriers and restoring energy balances. IME Qigong is the most effective method I have come across so far.

It doesn't only help with mental/emotional issues, but also with physical ones. I had been having chronic back/shoulder/neck problems for over a decade and the Sedona method and especially Qigong have considerably improved this.

Like I said earlier, many of you are probably sceptical about this. I'm not here to try and convince anyone to believe in this. I'm only saying what worked and is working for me.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Valhalla - 05-14-2014 03:51 AM

im in a few months without no fap/no porn.

i didn't notice any significant differences. ive heard all sorts of crazy claims about the benefits.

yeah i was super horny. the boner was super strong and impossible to stop when messing around with women but when it came time to bang things would end quickly, to say the least so that is disappointing.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - DonJuanBrown - 05-14-2014 05:35 AM

I stumbled upon this interesting dude's Youtube channel. Kind of an odd person, but give his vids a shot. Great motivation for NoFap.





He takes things a bit further than the average RVFer would be comfortable with (advocates avoiding sex with women, whom he calls "vampires") but as far as NoFap is concerned, he is on point. Control your sexual energy, the strongest force on the planet, and you can change your life for the better.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - ColSpanker - 05-14-2014 07:29 AM

(05-14-2014 05:35 AM)djwaters420 Wrote:  I stumbled upon this interesting dude's Youtube channel. Kind of an odd person, but give his vids a shot. Great motivation for NoFap.





He takes things a bit further than the average RVFer would be comfortable with (advocates avoiding sex with women, whom he calls "vampires") but as far as NoFap is concerned, he is on point. Control your sexual energy, the strongest force on the planet, and you can change your life for the better.

Listened to a bit of it. He's onto something with the whole "master your sexual energy" thing.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - No Habit - 05-14-2014 10:04 AM

Love that dude.

Quote:They are partaking in it. They're saying YES to it because they love the attention. Then they wanna sit there and complain. This is the whorish women. They sit there and complain about oh how it is so anti-female. ARE YOU KIDDING ME. They always say the opposite of what they do, don't they.
The only way they are able to do this is because you are giving them energy.


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RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - eradicator - 05-16-2014 04:58 AM

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I am currently up to day 3.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - zanetti - 05-16-2014 06:20 PM

Day 6 now. Proving particularly hard after boozing the night before.

Is looking at topless pix allowed??


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Handsome Creepy Eel - 05-17-2014 06:26 AM

(05-16-2014 06:20 PM)zanetti Wrote:  Day 6 now. Proving particularly hard after boozing the night before.

Is looking at topless pix allowed??

Don't do it! Once you get excited from doing that, you're bound to rationalize away your restraint and proceed over the edge. It always starts with these "innocent" things.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - cardguy - 05-17-2014 07:20 AM

Yeah - that happened to me once after day 4. The 'What Do You Guys Consider a 10' thread was my downfall.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - zanetti - 05-17-2014 08:14 AM

So I guess also no more Colombian car audio honeyz on YouTube. D.mn.....


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - berserk - 05-17-2014 01:09 PM

In on this. I find it the hardest the day after boozing and going out, regardless if I get laid or not. If I get laid, then I sometimes fall into the trap of thinking 'hey its ok you just got laid' and if I didnt get laid and I am hungover I am usually sexually charged to the max from being around so many hotties the night before.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - slubu - 05-19-2014 12:15 AM

450 days. Honestly can't believe it myself.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Every10GivesMeA10 - 05-19-2014 04:28 AM

(05-19-2014 12:15 AM)slubu Wrote:  450 days. Honestly can't believe it myself.

seriously? no porn AND masturbation for 450 days or just no porn? how do you feel?


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - No Habit - 05-19-2014 05:36 AM

(05-19-2014 12:15 AM)slubu Wrote:  450 days. Honestly can't believe it myself.

Looking up to you man. Day 6 of goal 365. Feeling strong this time.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - pitt - 05-19-2014 07:11 AM

(05-19-2014 12:15 AM)slubu Wrote:  450 days. Honestly can't believe it myself.

Didn't you even play with your dick during that time?

Are you feeling any big difference comparing to the normal you?


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - magellan - 05-19-2014 07:23 AM

Currently on day 120, I believe.

Went for quite a stretch without release. I was getting increasingly emotional and erratic over the past couple weeks. Finally got my rocks off last night and the sense of calm and rationality I now feel is like day and night compared to how I was feeling before.