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RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - The Reactionary Tree - 07-02-2014 03:24 PM

It may have already been posted in this thread. Victor Pride over at Bold & Determined wrote up a great article about it: http://boldanddetermined.com/2011/10/20/10-reasons-to-stop-using-internet-porn/


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Summer - 07-03-2014 02:52 PM

Been off for 20 days now. Had a girl over this tuesday and I couldn't get hard enough to penetrate her.
I've been on and off of NoFap for 1 year now. After realizing that I have PED, I have zero urge for porn and I will break my own record of 101 days!


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - redbeard - 07-03-2014 06:54 PM

you mean you had twenty days of jerking off or twenty clean days?


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Blackwell - 07-06-2014 06:44 PM

Thought I'd share this here, thought it was absolutely hilarious.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Handsome Creepy Eel - 07-07-2014 03:27 AM

Fun fact: masturbation in the context of phone sex doesn't leave me drained and depressed like just normal masturbation and/or watching porn. It's incredible how your body can tell the difference even without physical contact.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Constitution45 - 07-07-2014 06:37 AM

Speaking to a female if you are feeling horny, even if its just a "friend" or casual conversation really helps a lot. I think a lot of men in the anglosphere wouldn't Fap as much if they had some genuine female affection coming their way.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - redbeard - 07-07-2014 08:31 AM

(07-07-2014 06:37 AM)Constitution45 Wrote:  Speaking to a female if you are feeling horny, even if its just a "friend" or casual conversation really helps a lot. I think a lot of men in the anglosphere wouldn't Fap as much if they had some genuine female affection coming their way.

Definitely agree! I've been saying something along these lines for a while. I think there is something in your brain that will feed you a little bit of dopamine during the process of pick-up in order to urge you to push to have sex. Even going out for drinks will help satisfy me a little bit more than doing nothing.

This is also one of the reasons why NoFap itself is faulty. The subreddit or some of the websites would never be able to say that, or truly discuss issues about having sex with girls while on NoFap.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Summer - 07-08-2014 05:47 AM

(07-03-2014 06:54 PM)redbeard Wrote:  you mean you had twenty days of jerking off or twenty clean days?

I had been clean for 20 days.

The girl came over on saturday again and I was hard as a rock, guess it was just performance anxiety Smile. But I have enough motivation to get a really long streak now.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - The Reactionary Tree - 07-12-2014 08:29 AM

I just went 8 days. I became horny and developed the worst case of blue balls ever so I had to alleviate some congestion by throwing down an 8 roper. This day I did not take my usual cold shower. I took a hot shower in order to shave and turned it cold at the end. Usually I take a cold shower the whole way through. I feel if you combine nofap with cold showers you will get better results. It definitely kills the fire in the loins.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - pitt - 07-12-2014 08:31 AM

13 days


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - game_ethic - 07-12-2014 10:12 AM

so.. You have to avoid watching porn and masturbation for as long as you can, or can you still masturbate but just not watch porn? I think I'll hop on the bandwagon.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Ensam - 07-12-2014 11:22 AM

I think it depends on what you want to get out of it. Quitting porn is the most important thing.

The testosterone surge after not masturbating for 5-7 days is crazy. I'd cut back to once a week based on that alone. Whether you cut it out completely is a personal choice. For me I chose to go at least 90 days just to see a) if I could and b) if I noticed any real benefits.

So far it's been about 30 days and in the last week I've noticed my ability to hold eye contact has increased substantially. I'm also more emotionally stable and sure of myself. The biggest impact this has had is I'm better able to read the emotional states of people around me because I'm less in my own head. My guess is this is coming more from the willpower and discipline I've been cultivating rather than the abstinence itself.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - HankRearden - 07-12-2014 11:25 AM

I have been on such a porn/masturbation binge lately. Really really bad. Luckily it hasn't affected my game yet but I've noticed I'm already slightly worse with holding eye contact.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Fortis - 07-14-2014 12:08 PM

Reporting in for first day of noPMO

I've mad it 3 weeks before, but I would like to make it a month from this date.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - simondice - 07-14-2014 12:54 PM

One important thing to keep in mind is that working out and meditation help.

You also go out knowing that you have lots of testosterone, that every one of your fluids is golden and necessary for females to live (even more than guys)

Most men have low T, so they'll be thirsty for you, till the last drop.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - HankRearden - 07-14-2014 04:09 PM

(07-14-2014 12:54 PM)simondice Wrote:  One important thing to keep in mind is that working out and meditation help.

You also go out knowing that you have lots of testosterone, that every one of your fluids is golden and necessary for females to live (even more than guys)

Most men have low T, so they'll be thirsty for you, till the last drop.

When I didn't jerk off for 18 weeks I was a fucking animal. Best game of my life.

Simon, what type of meditation stuff do you do?


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Cattle Rustler - 07-15-2014 03:23 AM

Current time: 12 hours and counting.

Goal:1 month.....may the odds be ever in my favor.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - game_ethic - 07-15-2014 10:19 AM

Day 2.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - simondice - 07-15-2014 10:43 AM

(07-14-2014 04:09 PM)HankRearden Wrote:  
(07-14-2014 12:54 PM)simondice Wrote:  One important thing to keep in mind is that working out and meditation help.

You also go out knowing that you have lots of testosterone, that every one of your fluids is golden and necessary for females to live (even more than guys)

Most men have low T, so they'll be thirsty for you, till the last drop.

When I didn't jerk off for 18 weeks I was a fucking animal. Best game of my life.

Simon, what type of meditation stuff do you do?

Mindful meditation, you sit down and focus on the sensations of where you sit, the pathway of your breathing, and every time you have a thought, you acknowledge it and let it go, like a helium ballon. Just focusing on your breath and the smaller sensations for 20 minutes a day.

I read the book introduction to mindfulness by this Vietnamese monk where he says
that the way to be alive is to take the time to be mindful and live in the moment, always. It teaches us that intuition lives in the moment.

When we're doing the no fap challenge our brain is so focused on nutting, it takes over our desire and we're overwhelmed by our thoughts instead of acknowledging it and taking action. With mindfulness we acknowledge these feelings, but we are clear on what to do about it, like what's a good place to go find a sexy receptive girl and staying in the moment with her, to enjoy her thoroughly and find solutions.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - game_ethic - 07-15-2014 11:27 AM

I've never meditated before but I just found an article on mindfulness meditation and it seems pretty convincing. If anyone is interested, you can read about it here. Thanks for mentioning it, Simon.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - redbeard - 07-15-2014 10:42 PM

50 DAYS MOTHA FUCKAS! FOLLOW YOUR DREAMS!


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Felix88 - 07-16-2014 05:29 AM

Did 2 months before and I didn't notice real difference, thinking of doing this again. I won't abstain completely though, will limit it to once a week from now on to see how it goes.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Cattle Rustler - 07-16-2014 11:33 PM

6 Hours.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - game_ethic - 07-16-2014 11:38 PM

(07-16-2014 11:33 PM)Cattle Rustler Wrote:  6 Hours.
haha, weren't you just at 12 hours?


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Travesty - 07-16-2014 11:44 PM

I believe in No Fap, it makes my game and workouts much better.

What it kills is work. I cannot sit and concentrate. I actually get agitated for long term goals. I have no sense of delayed gratification. I just want to be outside running around and fucking girls, which is natural but impossible unless your job at work is doing porn.

Having girls over 4 or 5 times a week also drains my work energy from all the drinks, going out, entertaining, and screwing late into the night.

My work goes much better when I actually abstain from sex and jerk it.

I can see why many guys that work to the top have a steady wife or GF that is low maintenance and they can depend on sex. Therefore their mind can be focused always on work.

Damn I need enough $ to retire so I can run around outside and just chase chicks all day / night like an animal.