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RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Atlantic - 09-01-2014 04:20 PM

Okay Im on board. Day 1.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Cattle Rustler - 09-02-2014 02:17 AM

(09-01-2014 04:19 PM)philosophical_recovery Wrote:  Caved sometime last week. I'm not sure if I want to continue this or not, but I am not getting a lot of pleasures out of orgasms anymore, regardlesss of the cause (sex or jerking it).

Same here, it's like you don't see the point in sex as you're drained.

It's the only thing encouraging me from fapping. That and knowing that I could use my time in better ways.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Party Pooper - 09-02-2014 11:57 AM

Day 16:

Defintley more horny and more into sex. The biggest difference I noted was the fact that I can get it up much faster after an orgasm than before.
Normally I would need at least half an hour to give it another go. Now I need 5 minutes to get back to rockhard.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - The Reactionary Tree - 09-02-2014 01:08 PM

Relevant (and funny): http://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-39658-post-821072.html#pid821072


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - JoyStick - 09-03-2014 11:27 AM

Looks like the fappening have died down. I'm ready to try again. Day 1.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Giovonny - 09-04-2014 12:39 PM

I used to masturbate everyday. When I first got exposed to porn, I increased to at least twice a day and sometimes more.

My sex life suffered. I knew I had to stop.

Now, I try to only orgasm when I'm with a girl.

I rarely masturbate. (I might stroke it a few times but I wont cum)

NOT cumming is actually a very important part of my sex life now! If I jerk off, I am hurting my sex life.

Masturbating was great in my teens and 20s, now that I am in my 30s, I must avoid if I want to enjoy a real sex life.

---

"How did stop masterbating?"

It started with my mindset and attitude.

Masturbation was causing problems in my life!

I was jerking off 2-3 times a day and that caused a little erectile dysfunction, weak erections, and weak orgasms .

I knew that I had to stop. I lost bangs because I couldn't keep an erection. (condoms were also a big part of the problem)

I knew I had to make a change in my life. My new attitude was established.

Then,

I got motivation and inspiration. Mostly from Slubu:

Slubu has not masterbated in over a year!

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I had no other choice, my life was being negatively effected by porn and masturbation.

I was losing the thrill and excitement of real sex with real girls.

I stopped my making myself orgasm. I still touch myself occasionally but I rarely do it til completion. I will stroke it a few times and have a dirty thought but that's all, nothing more.

This has saved my sex life. It was a little scary for a while.

Over exposure to porn can be a real problem!

I'm glad I took this step!

Many thanks to Slubu for the inspiration!


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - killongy - 09-04-2014 03:52 PM

think ill need to do this challenge .

I kicked the habit I was a twice a day guy and decided that it was fking pathetic so I stopped.
Recently started to really wack the meat and its like my energy levels are at 0 and pretty muh in a daze for the day.
I think its affected my testosterone levels as well.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Euphoric_Breeze - 09-04-2014 04:20 PM

Day 20 .

I'm Feeling awesome ,focus and memory are sharper than they've ever been.
Huge boost in self-confidence , I seem to enjoy every tiny detail of life.

I'm planning to get rid of fapping forever . I'm glad that the neuro-chemical reaction in my brain was totally conducive.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - HonantheBarbarian - 09-05-2014 07:50 PM

The fappening took me down, big time.

I'm at 4 days.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Coldfire - 09-05-2014 08:16 PM

Day 16. I'm finding myself more motivated in other areas of my life.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - philosophical_recovery - 09-06-2014 12:50 PM

Day 1. Motivation is totally sapped. Dammit.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Comte De St. Germain - 09-06-2014 12:52 PM

Pissed off after a girl ruined my night starting at Day 1 after last night.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - turuk - 09-06-2014 01:21 PM

Held off for 6 days.

The weekends are more difficult because of free time :/

Day 1 again.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Cattle Rustler - 09-06-2014 01:44 PM

I must move my bed or something....it's too close to my desk and causes me to relapse.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - killongy - 09-06-2014 05:00 PM

Day 3

I think relapse is imminent , the urges man Confused
maybe going cold turkey wasn't a good idea but im working hard on my business as a distraction lol


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Gorgiass - 09-06-2014 05:13 PM

Got SIFed last night, not terribly so, but definitely a chubber. Feeling the thirst and banged her anyway. My sense of self worth would probably have been better if I had just fapped instead, but right around 100 days no fap in any case. Close call with Bar Refaeili's fappening pics though...


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Phoenix - 09-06-2014 07:08 PM

My recent experience: went without sex for about 1.5weeks, but did not 'fap' (not by force of will, I just don't like it versus waiting out for real sex). For the first 5 or 6 days I positively didn't want sex, due to having previously being 'sexed out' (mostly due to this one girl who was very sexually demanding).

After this amount of time, getting laid gradually moved to the front of my mind and became prioritized. Became preoccupied with trying to meet chicks. Balls actually started to get uncomfortable.

Persued one woman for two consecutive days but she wouldn't put out so I moved on.

When out at a club, was at a table when an acquaintance came in with her friends, and joined me. One of her friends appeared to show interest (trying to get my attention), but the other girls around the club seemed hotter. However because of the layout, time until club close, and social groups in the club, I thought it would be unlikely I would score one.

My calculation went as follows: I return interest in this 'passable' (boner test) chick and escalate, or my balls will remain uncomfortably full for an unknown amount of time hence. So I just went for it, and she was up for it.

I noticed that my sexual performance was very good. Noticeably better than normal. Very dominant. Really enjoying the visuals and 'savouring' everything about the sex.

She wasn't a girl I would usually chase (hated her hair, didn't like her tan), but relieving yourself with a girl versus your hand feels massively different afterwards, even if she wasn't anything to brag about (excluding fat, a fattie is different).


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Ridelife - 09-06-2014 07:48 PM

The only problem is that I now last about 15 seconds the first time, and 10-15 mins second time. Whereas before easy 30 mins of hard banging.

sigh...

Easily more dominant and enjoyable in bed, but perhaps over-sensitivity is a problem now?


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Phoenix - 09-06-2014 09:11 PM

Yeah you've got to pace yourself, but it does become a problem if you have to keep slowing down when she's getting into it. Who knew sex required so much training to get good :/


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - -GTL - 09-07-2014 10:01 AM

(09-06-2014 07:48 PM)Ridelife Wrote:  The only problem is that I now last about 15 seconds the first time, and 10-15 mins second time. Whereas before easy 30 mins of hard banging.

sigh...

Easily more dominant and enjoyable in bed, but perhaps over-sensitivity is a problem now?


There is no such a thing as over-sensitivity Exclamation

Maybe try kegels and reverse kegels to build up stamina and have a total control over your ejaculation

See : http://www.pegym.com/penis-exercises/kegel-exercises-for-men


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Lovecraft - 09-07-2014 12:24 PM

Count me in bud! Send me an invite to the group. I'm going on day 5 right now. I want to see if I can last 30 days


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - LemonDrink - 09-07-2014 02:49 PM

I have gone about 2 weeks without fapping.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - philosophical_recovery - 09-07-2014 10:03 PM

This has been an incredibly difficult weekend. Had an injury which prevented me from doing much other than cleaning up my place and throwing myself at art and reading. Saw a girl on Thursday and even then had a huge impulse to just watch some porn and jerk it, but managed to hold off for Saturday and today.

What's bothering me is that the impulse to just jerk off was stronger than to reach out to that girl again or to meet a new one. I realized the mind state and that was motivation to stick it out today, but it was extremely hard.

I'm at the point where not masturbating for up to a month results in huge motivation gains in creativity and athleticism, but those drop into a deep lull if I don't have a single, steady partner. I get bored of doing the intro commentary to girls. I like to have some kind of relationship, but it's been a lot easier to bang than get something steady with a girl that is worth hanging on to. At least I'm able to get some, but the after effects of getting laid without follow through into a relationship are worse than just not getting any. At least that's how it seems in the lulls.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - LemonDrink - 09-08-2014 02:37 AM

I have read lots if positives on reddit about no fap but what are the negatives of it ?


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - -GTL - 09-08-2014 08:27 AM

(09-08-2014 02:37 AM)LemonDrink Wrote:  I have read lots if positives on reddit about no fap but what are the negatives of it ?

None.