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RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - killongy - 09-08-2014 11:42 AM

Day 4 and my energy is returning and focus has improved.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - LemonDrink - 09-08-2014 12:39 PM

(05-15-2012 03:40 PM)oldnemesis Wrote:  Well, the nature obviously intended fapping (it happens in the animal world too)...

Yes it happens in the animal world, here is a gorilla maturbating:


https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=0lSxOXvXbCU


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - killongy - 09-08-2014 07:51 PM

sigh.....

Day fking 1


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Bilboswaggins - 09-09-2014 04:07 AM

(09-08-2014 02:37 AM)LemonDrink Wrote:  I have read lots if positives on reddit about no fap but what are the negatives of it ?

Negatives, which were also mentioned in Slubu's post about not masturbating for a year, are that you're horny all the time and after the initial drop in libido which means a more focused mind and energy/time to do work-related stuff it changes into a desperate thirst for poon which may inhibit your focus on other areas of life.

My own experience shows that you have to find a happy medium between two extremes, although you should abstain completely from masturbating to porn. Once every week or a few weeks is normal and I feel that I get the most out of it this way, but to each their own.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Phoenix - 09-09-2014 06:15 AM

Correct, not orgasming (either by sex or jerking off) leaves your balls 'full' and preoccupies you with getting a girl.

I'd say this is only a problem if you cannot get a girl who passes the boner test within a reasonable period of time. This of course will depend on your attractiveness, the average attractiveness of women in your area, and how much you are chasing girls.

I'd say 'NoFap' is too extreme if you simply cannot get a passable girl for long periods of time. However jerking off to porn is absolutely terrible for you.

A happy medium would be: 'if you can't get a passable girl, jerk off only when your balls are so full you can't think straight, and only to the idea of fucking a specific girl you know or saw'.

If you're jerking off out of habit, or because your standards are higher than 'boner test', or because you're not chasing girls, or stimulated by porn, then it is detrimental to you.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Mentavious - 09-09-2014 05:34 PM

Day 3 for me. I've been real busy so I haven't thought about it.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - pitt - 09-09-2014 06:29 PM

I was 14 days without masturbating and after so many days of wild sex, I just felt the urge to masturbate. I was actually feeling kinda sick and this is the time when I felt like masturbating. Now I just feel like staying home, I hate myself when I do this.

Anybody else doesn't have the motivation to do anything when they masturbate? If I had to go to work right now (let's say it was a physical job), I probably wouldn't go to it. What I don't understand is that I have friends who masturbate everyday and they say it doesn't affect them in any way. I wonder why is that. Sometimes I just feel like going to sleep in the streets everyday in order to stop masturbating.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - philosophical_recovery - 09-10-2014 12:35 AM

Day 4. I feel like I'm back in my groove again. A very short time after i started practicing art, i think i have convinced someone to pay me to do design work on the side. I've felt insatiable creative energy and things have just been clicking, like I'm just "on". This is in heavy contrast with how i felt this weekend.

Practicing all kinds of skills, and planning to launch a new website to host and promote my side work. Heaven help me when i get back out of the flatline and start seriously chasing tail again. I'm hopefully going to make another month long stretch at least, because the two other ones this year were big turning points.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Coldfire - 09-10-2014 12:38 AM

Day 19 Its getting a bit hard to resist


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - britchard - 09-10-2014 01:16 AM

Had a two week abstainance. Then a couple of days ago I jerked off. Felt pretty crap and had no motivation to do anything. On my 4th day since then.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Comte De St. Germain - 09-10-2014 11:16 AM

Day 1 again :/


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Giovonny - 09-10-2014 12:28 PM

(09-09-2014 04:28 PM)Nascimento Wrote:  I'm not sure where I stand on this nofap thing..

I don't think young guys need to worry about jerking off too much. When I was in my teens and 20s, I jerked off everyday and still had plenty of energy for weights, sports, girls, and everything else. My erections were strong and I got hard when the wind blew.

NOT jerking off made me restless and tense.

Young guys shouldn't worry unless they have a porn or masturbation addiction. Signs of addiction are inability to get hard in real life, weak erections, jerking off so much that you run out of cum yet continue to do it, work problems, inability to focus, uncontrollable urges, etc.

Other than that, young guys shouldn't worry.

Once or twice a day, every other day, or every few days is no big deal. It's normal and healthy.

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My problems came after 15-20 years of jerking off.

It's a cumulative effect.

Age changes a man. The novelty of sex begins to wear off, we get desensitized to many things that used to excite us, our standards often get raised, porn spoils us, etc.

I was jerking off so much that it had a negative effect on my sex life.

The problems didn't start until around age 34 or 35.

I had to give up porn and masturbation except on rare occasions.

Again, I think this is problem for older guys and not for young guys.

Young guys can generally cum all day and have plenty of power left for the rest of their day.

I used to jerk off before sex just to last longer. Now, if I jerk off before sex I run the risk of a weak erection.

This is an older guy issue, mostly.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Cattle Rustler - 09-10-2014 06:26 PM

28 hours and going....longest time in a month.

The only thing that's going to keep this is that I have no place to fap.....so I won't be fapping. Which is good


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Euphoric_Breeze - 09-10-2014 07:51 PM

Guys you need to watch this .





RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Vytas - 09-10-2014 09:34 PM

Day 36. +1 to a fellow RVF member who has been a solid accountability partner. It definitely helps with fighting the temptation.

#1 learning point: Do not allow yourself to have extended idle time alone in your room with your computer! Go for a walk, do work in coffee shops, stay in public view, especially in those first few weeks.

I also agree with Gio, its a cumulative effect. Stay strong and channel that masculine energy elsewhere. For me fapping now seems like drinking, except you skip the joyful buzz and elation and go straight to the hangover.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - JoyStick - 09-10-2014 10:22 PM

why does all these no fap youtube guys always look so dorky?


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - NewGamer - 09-10-2014 11:20 PM

jacked off twice in 3 hours.god damn i'm horny..good thing did it without porn though.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - pitt - 09-11-2014 06:43 AM

(09-10-2014 09:34 PM)Vytas Wrote:  Day 36. +1 to a fellow RVF member who has been a solid accountability partner. It definitely helps with fighting the temptation.

#1 learning point: Do not allow yourself to have extended idle time alone in your room with your computer! Go for a walk, do work in coffee shops, stay in public view, especially in those first few weeks.

I also agree with Gio, its a cumulative effect. Stay strong and channel that masculine energy elsewhere. For me fapping now seems like drinking, except you skip the joyful buzz and elation and go straight to the hangover.

Just wondering, no sex during those 36 days?


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - LemonDrink - 09-11-2014 08:54 AM

(09-10-2014 06:26 PM)Cattle Rustler Wrote:  28 hours and going....longest time in a month.

The only thing that's going to keep this is that I have no place to fap.....so I won't be fapping. Which is good

There is always the bushes....


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - TravellingSoldier - 09-11-2014 09:49 AM

I forget how long it's been for me. Maybe 5-10 days without fapping.

I'm starting to realize and feel a much deeper, primal desire to fuck the shit out of women. Yesterday I was on POF when I saw an attractive chick and i literally started thrusting with my hips and imagined slamming her. Now here's where the problem lays. I haven't been productive in a couple days.

I literally can't concentrate on working... It's reading or POF/OKC. Trying to work for myself and I am having trouble completing my project. I am understanding now why in wolf of wall street they advocate daily masturbation. I need to get a serious harem started here to curve my sexual appetite or I will have to continue masturbating to keep my mental focus when working.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - blacknwhitespade - 09-11-2014 11:27 AM

You may not believe this, but I did not discover masturbation until I was 22. I had delayed puberty by 2-3 years and was sexually dormant throughout my teens. I'm a major late bloomer! Anyways, ahh, I remember that summer years ago when I finally awakened at 22yo. My first conscious whack-off came when I was simply lying on a bed, having a hard-on, perhaps very slightly rubbing myself against the matress or perhaps not at all, dreaming of a spontaneous sexual encounter. Once I learned how to replicate it I couldn't go more than 24 hrs, lol. Stuff was just squirting out of me effortlessly, often 3-4 times a day. Constant fantasies of cavorting with beautiful young women.

I'm over 30 now, but still horny as ever, and can still whack-off 3 times to the day if I want. In fact, since I broke things off with my last gf a year ago, I've never been hornier in my life. I haven't fapped in 7 days now, partly because I'm sick and psychologically bothered by my health issues, running on lower energy.

Since January, I've been making it a point to fap no more than one day a week. I went 2-3 weeks a few times over the winter, but had a slide into almost daily fapping at points during the spring and summer. Getting it back under control now, it's do-able once you get on a roll, get some other testosterone-building and adrenaline releasing activities in your life. I once went 180 days without fapping in 2010-2011.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - heavy - 09-11-2014 11:35 AM

^^^ TravellingSoldier...yeah, I find there's a sweet spot between day of whacking and when you haven't whacked in so long you're too horny to concentrate.

In regards to productivity


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - TravellingSoldier - 09-11-2014 11:53 AM

Ya I caved. Busted a glorious nut and literally went into productive mode 5 minutes later... I guess I will have to keep it about twice a week for fapping.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Party Pooper - 09-12-2014 08:08 AM

Day 26:


I did no fap for 70 days before, with frequent edging.This gave me no real results and made my sex drive really low.

No, I don't wach any porn and don't stroke my dick. The results are nothing short of amazing:

Pro's:
-Delayed ejaculation is gone (could go for an hour and had to focus on hardcore porn scenes to cum while having sex)
-Spontaneous erections are happening when I'm touching a girl.. This hasn't happened since I was 17.
- Definitely more aggressive during sex
- I can get my dick hard again 5min after I've cummed. This is also something I haven't had since puberty.

Con's:
- Faster ejaculation first time
- When your with a girl you want to fuck all the time. 5-6 times a day is nothing unusual.

I'm going to give up porn forever. It really is a poison for your brain. I had no idea that 12 years of watching hardcore porn had affected me so much...


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - philosophical_recovery - 09-12-2014 09:54 PM

(09-12-2014 08:08 AM)Party Pooper Wrote:  Con's:
- Faster ejaculation first time
- When your with a girl you want to fuck all the time. 5-6 times a day is nothing unusual.

I'm going to give up porn forever. It really is a poison for your brain. I had no idea that 12 years of watching hardcore porn had affected me so much...


Truth on both of the cons. On my second run, about three weeks into nofap, I knew I had a girl over for a whole day and I nutted amazing fast the first time, which has literally never happened to me before. In fact, when I popped my cherry a long time ago, the girl cried because I lasted so long (I probably watched porn and jerked it earlier that day). She was upset because she thought I was lying about being a virgin (she had already slept with 3 or 4 guys...lol...I am pretty sure I beta'd up and comforted her over that)

As for the second con, after I busted so quick we ended up going at it 3 more times. I actually don't even want a girl over to bang now unless I'm reasonably sure that I have enough times for at least 2 rounds, because orgasms are quick and I like to change it up and toss them around more.