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RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Comte De St. Germain - 09-28-2016 10:04 PM

I told myself I wouldn't post in here until I hit the 4 weeks mark(2 days until I do), but today was like a complete reversal of fortune and I think NoFap had the biggest fucking effect on it.


I'm just hungry guys. I've never been more hungry and high energy, and it's good real good.

Brainstormed and floated a new business idea with one of my closest friends, and unlike the previous ones we're pretty damned sure it's going to do amazing as there's a lot of potential.

Made a lot of new contacts today.

Met up and talked with an old friend I hadn't seen in 2 years, and it was like we just picked up where we left off. I didn't even expect to see him again.

My public speaking ability has went up amazingly and talking to strangers so far is almost the same as talking to old friends.

Oh and most importantly. Female attention has skyrocketed almost exponentially. It's nuts.


I'm feeling damned high energy and I've realized more than ever I need to be consistently hungry and in need of more. It's the only way I get stuff done, and NoFap has done an amazing job of that.


Cheers! I'm having a fantastic week and I hope you are too. Keep fighting it'll pay off in spades.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Vet-Boy - 09-29-2016 02:00 AM

Day 46:

Pros:
- Voice has gotten noticably deeper
- Next to no anxiety speaking to girls/people in general
- Morning woods everyday
- Never feel intimidated by other males/feel far more ballsy and have gained a superior inner confidence

Something Weird:
- Next to no horniness during the day which is good in the sense that it keeps the mind clear and with out fog but weird in the way that I'm seeing girls in ways I haven't in years. Like the attraction and desire to pursue is there, but its less motivated by the need to just let off a nut


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Comte De St. Germain - 09-30-2016 05:17 PM

Lying down and taking a nap due to exhaustion, but as I lay there I started fantasizing about a chick and next thing I know it's over.

Reset.

Back to Day 1 Angry

Going out to have a drink and a smoke. Fuck that bullshit.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Ivanis - 10-05-2016 04:55 PM

I've been doing the 30 Days Of Discipline, which includes no jacking off or porn. Well I am 15 days in and have broke fapped two times, but only to semi clothed pics or imagination. Right around every 7 days is when the urges start to get bad. This last time, I was unable to sleep and had two wet dreams in two nights. It was frustrating as shit!

However, we charge on because life doesn't stop!

Day 1 gents, game on!


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - TheFinalEpic - 10-05-2016 06:25 PM

Day 2 after restart. Fuck I'm making 30 days this time.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Felix88 - 10-06-2016 03:24 AM

I'm using the NF companion apps for android and it works great,
I like how it has title badges for you by the day you made it and it let you know how many people have made it that far,
I'm currently a Chancellor at 19 days.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - MrTickle - 10-06-2016 05:36 AM

Well, this is a lot harder than I thought. I have successfully stopped drinking (190 days and counting with no desire to drink again), changed diet, committed to exercise amongst other things over last few years without too much fuss.

But this is a whole new dimension. I made it a week before crumbling. Back to 2 days now. I know exactly what the problem is, my brain is currently wired up wrong having watched porn on an off for years. It only takes a few random thoughts to start an inevitable series of thought processes that leads to fapping.

So not watching porn is critical to getting this down. I am also going to investigate strategies to undo or be able to actively reroute my brain to break those thought processes.

Essentially I am going to need more ammo / tools to beat this.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - John Doe - 10-07-2016 10:56 AM

For those on NoFap, I liked this video. The more time passes, the more I realize how much porn damaged my psyche.

PS: there is a meditation that may help in this thread.

Cheers






RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - eddie_7 - 10-07-2016 10:10 PM

Recently the farthest I've been able to go was about 2 weeks. Determined to exercise better self discipline, which is my biggest weakness. Good luck to all of you!


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - tomzestatlu - 10-08-2016 08:33 AM

When somebody says he is at his "day xx", is it meant he only doesn´t fap or also doesn´t have sex?


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - King of Monkeys - 10-08-2016 08:31 PM

@tomzestatlu

It just means they haven't fapped or looked at porn for that amount of time. Sex is perfectly fine during nofap. In fact, it's encouraged since it causes a testosterone boost in your body while giving you a fresh serving of booty.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - ShotgunUppercuts - 10-09-2016 11:29 PM

If been trying no fap since the beginning of this year.

The maximum day's I can go without touching myself is about 2 weeks. But hell in that short period of time I felt slightly different and I noticed I was being eye fucking at the grocery store one Saturday morning .

I have plenty of things (that's productive) to keep me distracted. Plenty of books to read and a shit ton more coming in this week. Studying math and science ,hell I even hired a tutor for that ,and lifting weights .


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - philosophical_recovery - 10-09-2016 11:42 PM

This is, without a doubt, the hardest habit for me to drop.

Somehow, I got more control over it lately, even though I've been spending more time in front of the computer programming and learning another programming language.

I can give up alcohol at the drop of a hat for a month plus, but going a week without porn or jerking it seems astronomically difficult at the moment.

Hopefully I stay at it. Only a couple days in at the moment.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - King of Monkeys - 10-10-2016 01:24 AM

@philosophical_recovery

I used only last a few days, but now I'm able to last up to a week. As long as you keep at it and continue to work, you will definitely be able to quit it. The hardest part for me is when my mind starts to tempt me with past images, and the allure of looking at sexy women, even clothed, becomes more tempting.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Sooth - 10-10-2016 01:36 AM

I started for the first of the month for Sober October. Haven't faulted on either fap or alcohol.

I'm pretty sure my voice is deeper.

I would say I'm a lot happier but I'm positive this has been skewed by the slaughter I just witnessed on a certain debate stage.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - cnfrmdbusto - 10-10-2016 02:21 AM

Starting day 1, maximum I made was like 5 days but I expect the testosterone peak around day 7. My gf is currently away so thats a good chance to try.

One question though - for people who have steady girl available on daily basis or whenever they want, I dont get it...why would you fap when you are with a girl on daily basis or once per two days? Is girl every day not enough for you? Or are you that horny, or is that more like fap addiction?


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - tomzestatlu - 10-10-2016 12:15 PM

(10-08-2016 08:31 PM)King of Monkeys Wrote:  @tomzestatlu

It just means they haven't fapped or looked at porn for that amount of time. Sex is perfectly fine during nofap. In fact, it's encouraged since it causes a testosterone boost in your body while giving you a fresh serving of booty.
Thanks you.

I have adapted routine which seems really good to me. While not having any regular girl, fap only once a week. It must be the day when I know no challenges are going to meet me and it can also be reward. Last 3 months I am regurarely meeting my girl during weekends. It seems ideal to me, 4 days off, 3 days fun. The difference in my condition between monday and friday is not so much physical, but psychical. That´s impact I like the most about it.

And it has been 5 months without seeing any porn and I almost feel no need to watch it. It teached me, that it´s better to chase pussy than settle and watch somebody doing what I should had.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - philosophical_recovery - 10-10-2016 07:42 PM

So I did the whole meditation tape linked above. I've never tried something like that, and I felt great afterwards.

It works similarly to the mindset techniques that Cernovich has in his book. I had to stop the comparison while I was doing it, so that I could just accept what I was hearing and relax my body and mind.

Day 3.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - DrCotard - 10-10-2016 09:42 PM

A lot of time has passed since I've written here a long time ago.

NoPorn is positively changing my mind, because I don't feel the urge to watch (or binge watch porn) anymore. The horniness is present, but I prefer to see real women than pictures. I say this chalenge is still changing my mind because the risk of relapsing to porn still persists, but it's low.

Now, the next challenge is to use my sexual energy into productive things and obviously banging or dating quality girls.

By the way, I stopped counting my days on NoPorn and I only have the date which I started this journey.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - They Call Me Mister Tony - 10-10-2016 09:55 PM

I've gone 10 days without O, and three days without watching porn.

In my opinion, I'm finding very pointless to watch porn because the videos were there a few years ago, are there now, and will be there in the future. Which tells me that I'm not missing much (if anything) at all.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Guriko - 10-10-2016 10:33 PM

Just passed day 92 NoFap and day 7 NoPorn. Once I got my skull in order the NoFap part became tolerable and manageable.

Don’t lose hope, don’t be discouraged if an (former) addict like me is able to come this far, you will be too.

I’m angry at myself for the looking at porn bit because I catch myself watching it for a minute or browsing through a porn website for no better reason than sheer boredom when I am working on a computer.

No urge to fap anymore just sheer boredom.

Fuck that.

I’ll write something more elaborate on the battles I’ve faced against myself and the positives of it in due time.

For now I’ve wanted to share this because damn, it does feel good man.

And you’ll feel good too.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - philosophical_recovery - 10-10-2016 11:46 PM

This sounds a bit silly but I noticed that I have a tendency to rest my hand right by my crotch when I sit down. I've been actively avoiding that now. Pretty sure I've been doing it for years.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - sterling_archer - 10-11-2016 05:52 AM

What about nofap/noporn for a virgin like me?


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Comte De St. Germain - 10-11-2016 07:24 AM

^Do it so you'll have nothing but pent up energy so you can lift weights and hit on chicks with much less conscious effort.

That's the main short term reason I am doing it as it is.

Edit: And if you're a virgin you should be posting in nothing but the game forum until you lose that v-card.


RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - sterling_archer - 10-11-2016 07:28 AM

I started to lift weights, currently doing it at home and saving money for a gym. Hitting on chicks is definitive goal as my approach anxiety is dropping and social skills are rising since I discovered red pill philosophy (sounds cliche but its true).

I am actually looking forward to this challenge!