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Single women in their 30s/40s are starting to realize they will die alone - Roosh - 11-07-2019 08:52 PM

A lot of people, both men and women, are approaching 40 still single. While everyone has a different story of how they got there, women seem to be arriving at this juncture without humility while insisting on high (or immature) standards.

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This thread on 4chan highlights a lot more profiles that share the same theme: http://boards.4chan.org/pol/thread/232098983/heres-your-weekly-victims-of-feminism-thread

The panic among older women is palpable:

Quote:I’m Panicking Because I’m Getting Older And There’s No One Left To Date

I didn’t worry too much about meeting the right guy immediately when I was younger. I thought it would happen in time and I had plenty of it. Now I’m in my 30s and single again and I realize that I should’ve found a good guy then and snapped him up! This is why I’m freaking out...

https://www.bolde.com/im-panicking-im-getting-older-theres-no-one-left-date/

They are under the belief that secular dating will somehow pan out in the end, but I don't see it happening. If you've dated for nearly two decades and failed to find a mate, there is nothing indicate you are on the verge of succeeding. Without turning to Christ to humble yourself and develop the genuine maturity needed to start a family, failure is close to guaranteed. So how will the mainstream guide these single women?

Quote:'You don't have to settle': the joy of living (and dying) alone

Data confirms more women have realized there are far worse things than dying alone, which is bad news for the patriarchy

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Once dying alone is no longer scary to women, men lose power. So it shouldn’t be surprising that some incels are outraged. It’s no different than those who mourn the days when they didn’t have to compete for jobs against women and racial minorities. It must be frustrating to lose power you once had but didn’t necessarily deserve.

https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2019/oct/13/you-dont-have-to-settle-the-joy-of-living-and-dying-alone

Another female is coming to terms with dying alone:

Quote:I have been thinking a lot about death lately. Specifically, mine. Now that I am closer to 40 than 20, life has become less precarious and more precious. My recent Google searches — “retirement investment savings,” “warm places to settle down,” “how old is Clint Eastwood?” — reflect my current state. This probably explains why my perpetually single friends are suddenly getting married and having children. I, however, am not. I am 36, single and have been for most of my adult life.

Being a single and independent living woman is one thing. It evokes a powerful, fist-pumping image worthy of a Beyoncé anthem. But a single woman, face down on a kitchen floor, evokes an image that is mostly sad, lonely and a little scary. Who will really remember me? Who will get my stuff?

https://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/2019/08/27/why-im-no-longer-scared-dying-alone/

The chickens are coming home to roost, and of course we will be blamed for it.


RE: Single women in their 30s/40s are starting to realize they will die alone - TheFinalEpic - 11-07-2019 08:59 PM

I have a feeling that these women will be okay.


RE: Single women in their 30s/40s are starting to realize they will die alone - RIslander - 11-07-2019 08:59 PM

For every idiot with a stupid generic bumble profile I know one that is happily married. Then again... at the end of the day that's not a great statistic.

I still firmly believe this is an issue of a failure of men. Women are children. Men have failed them no less than a man who lets his son drown in the river. Blaming a woman for being a pill popping spinster with no future is like blaming a retarded kid for failing the special olympics.


RE: Single women in their 30s/40s are starting to realize they will die alone - Kingsley Davis - 11-07-2019 09:08 PM

So reallocate some of the box wine and cat food investment into hard liquors then.


RE: Single women in their 30s/40s are starting to realize they will die alone - Rush87 - 11-07-2019 09:10 PM

I like how they're all ticking; Kids: Want someday. Bitch you're 43. Someday was 15 years ago. That ship has sailed, circumvented the world and is fast approaching ship menopause.


RE: Single women in their 30s/40s are starting to realize they will die alone - bgbusiness - 11-07-2019 09:19 PM

I wonder how many guys tried to tie them down when they were in 20s.
I also wonder how many guys these woman have rejected in the early days.


RE: Single women in their 30s/40s are starting to realize they will die alone - RIslander - 11-07-2019 09:20 PM

^Rush87 we men are just as guilty. You think a 40 year old is going to lock up a 22 year old virgin? We got screwed by our social programming just as bad as the women did.


RE: Single women in their 30s/40s are starting to realize they will die alone - Bienvenuto - 11-07-2019 09:44 PM

I think that one thing that bothers these chicks is not so much dying single as..

not having children and grandchildren, family etc. around them.

AND, BUT WHISPER IT QUIETLY..

Ending up single is fine, ----- but paying for their final decades without having first asset-stripped some poor schlub? WHUUuuuuuT?

Who is Going To Pay for Their Lifestyle when they get to their 50's 60's 70's and 80's?

Panic sets in.


RE: Single women in their 30s/40s are starting to realize they will die alone - Mikeyd03 - 11-07-2019 09:46 PM

When post wall 40 somethings have high standards...you know things are backwards.

Social media, online dating, and career womyn have destroyed the dating market.


RE: Single women in their 30s/40s are starting to realize they will die alone - CynicalContrarian - 11-07-2019 10:07 PM

(11-07-2019 09:10 PM)Rush87 Wrote:  I like how they're all ticking; Kids: Want someday. Bitch you're 43. Someday was 15 years ago. That ship has sailed, circumvented the world and is fast approaching ship menopause.


A definite joke on their part.
Not to mention. Many cities have expensive housing to begin with.
Once you do secure an expensive mortgage, to then think you can drop another ~20 grand on IVF is the next joke.
Bearing in mind IVF is no guarantee the older they get.


RE: Single women in their 30s/40s are starting to realize they will die alone - Kingsley Davis - 11-07-2019 10:19 PM

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RE: Single women in their 30s/40s are starting to realize they will die alone - RoastBeefCurtains4Me - 11-07-2019 10:31 PM

I bet those pictures are not up to date. None of them look the age they're listed as. I imagine they look noticably more weather beaten in person.

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RE: Single women in their 30s/40s are starting to realize they will die alone - TigOlBitties - 11-07-2019 10:35 PM

All of these women are like repulsive clones of each other. Living with them would be like a prison sentence. I have no idea how other men put up with it, but too many thirsty simps I guess. All that money, time and sanity they're wasting just for some used up, aging, mediocre pussy.

Dog moms (gotta nurture something)
Travel enthusiasts (cock enthusiast)
Foodies (wow, you like to eat)
Wine lovers (helps cope with their miserable lives)
They love to laugh (as does every human)
Take them on an adventure (looking for beta bux and too boring to come up with own hobbies)
Liberal (brainwashed)
Not here for hookups (unless you're Chad)
Fluent in sarcasm (fluent in being an obnoxious cunt)
Muh career (submitted to work instead of a husband)

It's like they all get together to come up with the most pointless drivel possible.


RE: Single women in their 30s/40s are starting to realize they will die alone - pitbullowner - 11-07-2019 10:45 PM

(11-07-2019 10:35 PM)TigOlBitties Wrote:  Foodies (wow, you like to eat)

I like to play a game sometimes to amuse myself to pass the time. A lot of the time I won't even look at a womans profile picture on some online dating app, I'll read their bio and then when i see the aforementioned descriptor : foodie


I think, what are the chances she's on her way to becoming type 2 diabetic. Lo and behold It's usually a really chunky girl or a girl that's started to give up her eating healthy habits.


It's disheartening though , because I usually see that a LOT of the time these girls would have a great shape if they removed the whole "foodie" mantra out of their life. But i guess when you're led by a life of hedonism, the only constant that provides relief after banging a clubs worth of men in a few short years of your life and not long after you graduate college, food is the main thing that comforts you when you're hundreds of miles away from your father/mother that give 2 craps about you.

I see it more and more with each dating app i have started to uninstall. I have "Hinge" now, and see these same typical roastie types here as i do elsewhere.

The messed up part is, Nashville is changing, and demographics are blasting at a high velocity speed towards deep blue. (my nearest major city that i am within proximity to getting these types of matches to my profile that i have.
I'm thinking that these women are all transplants from Chicago/NE areas...because when i've done the rideshare thing with them, they all say they just moved there.

These spinsters are 35+ trying to go to clubs/bars as if they were in their 20s....It's pretty saddening. Idk what kind of car they drive, but if they had one, I don't doubt they have the whole dogmom sticker on it just like their app profile has on it


RE: Single women in their 30s/40s are starting to realize they will die alone - bacon - 11-07-2019 10:48 PM

(11-07-2019 09:44 PM)Bienvenuto Wrote:  I think that one thing that bothers these chicks is not so much dying single as..

not having children and grandchildren, family etc. around them.

AND, BUT WHISPER IT QUIETLY..

Ending up single is fine, ----- but paying for their final decades without having first asset-stripped some poor schlub? WHUUuuuuuT?

Who is Going To Pay for Their Lifestyle when they get to their 50's 60's 70's and 80's?

Panic sets in.

BINGO! I think these women are coming to terms of their wall in so much as it will not allow them to secure a preferred mate. They have no retirement to speak of, probably student loan debt and likely are life long renters. They will have to work forever and then likely find themselves invisible to men past a certain age. So their future in 10 years will be no attention from men, no kids to care about them and working as long as they can only to then go and live in poverty off social security.


RE: Single women in their 30s/40s are starting to realize they will die alone - MusicForThePiano - 11-07-2019 11:56 PM

Every choice these lizards make is an irrational disaster.

Let the schmedia blame us, that's all they're going to do anyways. The more they screech like broken klaxons the more people are going to get sick of it, and the more people are going to be wising up to this act, this mockery of biology in which these pathetic haggard, sagging, chemically-imbalanced monstrosities wish to pass on their genetic code at worst, and get free shit the rest of their lives at best.

I enjoy turning down these women, if only to revel in the poetic justice that comes with the cacophonous moaning of all their souls when they realize they have wasted their one fleshly passage and ignored a higher calling. I'm praying to get my vengeful side out of me still, but perhaps I should excuse their retarded behavior after all, 'cause, you know, bobs and vageen?

The scale of women reaching 40+ with no mate will soon reach unstable mass, so that all of us without wives must be ready for the frothing and howling of fem yaps as well as the pointing of crooked fingers at every man who refuses to relinquish his assets to these swine. Big Daddy Government can't afford their ridiculous deathstyles after all, don'cha know!


RE: Single women in their 30s/40s are starting to realize they will die alone - Tactician - 11-08-2019 12:11 AM

Another way to look at it, from here: https://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-43214-post-907213.html#pid907213
Quote:Unnatural Selection

Once upon a time the harsh winter of northern latitudes brought forth a great selective pressure upon its human inhabitants. The challenges of the terrain selected for the clever, and the cold climate allowed brains to expand with little metabolic cost. The minds it shaped brought forth innovation, first benefitting themselves and their spawn. Then capital, markets and money co-evolved with agriculture and eventually developed into an Industrial Revolution to solve problems for the masses at a low price of $19.95. Now western humanity has all the comfort and prosperity that 99.9 % of humans did not have throughout history, with none of the brainpower required.

Today the threats of predators, vicious weather, starvation, and sexual excess have been solved by innovations built by great minds: Temperature controlled housing, superior technology and weaponry, mass produced food, medical innovation. It is only with these prosperous luxuries that this generation can consider progressive arguments that would get themselves laughed out of their village in shame throughout civilized history. Indeed, being a progressive has become a way to signal just how comfortable and high status you are. Thank you for the innovations in reproductive medicine, now stay out of my bedroom while I laugh at the religious ethics that was my ancestor's penicillin. Open your borders, disarm and share everything with the world or you're a backwards racist hick. This washing machine is great, now stop oppressing women like a caveman.

With these comforts, for the first time the selective pressures that will shape the genome of future generations is not coming from nature, it is coming from high verbal IQ shysters within the populace. But Darwin don't care. Threats to reproductive fitness can come from a bear running at you, or from a TV telling your daughter to never settle. You see the unfortunate story of a woman who spent the currency of her youth on degrees and contracepted sex with alpha males and then her IVF doesn't take at 35. What I see is a gazelle who got eaten by a cheetah because it couldn't run fast enough. To the universe, the result is just the same. There are those who won't reproduce by their own carelessness or choice. It isn't to be fought. It is evolution in action. It isn't sad, it is a beautiful thing to witness.

Those who are most susceptible to believe the slick liars when they preach equalism and egalitarianism and pathological altruism will see their reproductive fitness decline. Teach your daughter to be a strong independent feminist and you'll take your death rattle with no grandchildren at the side of your bed. Embrace the blank slate and don't say anything racist in front of your children, and your grandkids end up looking nothing like you. Refuse to extend a middle finger at the warm n' fuzzy everyone-gets-a-trophy philosophy and your son ends up a pussy. But with evolution, there are winners as well as losers. Some will resist these pressures. Indeed, the cultural marxists should be careful what they wish for: They're selecting for the smartest, most fertile, most racist, most patriarchal group the world has seen.

Of course, the high time preference underclass who can't summon the willpower to reach for a condom in the heat of the moment will continue to spawn above the carrying capacity of their earning power. But an Idiocracy can only be supported by the grace and altruism of wealth-producing hosts. The civilized world that they thieve trust from is held together with precarious threads, not least of all being a novel fiat reserve currency. A black swan event will not be kind. When the greenback goes full Madoff and/or technological advances finally crush all the monkey-sorting-widget jobs and the parasite class must be formalized with a Guaranteed Minimum Income, you will see flight on a massive scale. Secession, expatriation, high walls, immigration-by-genome and no apologies.

So keep up the "progress". Release those cheetahs and we'll see which gazelle can run the fastest. You think each time a universal ballot or activist judge swings left you've won a battle when really you're just creating more leg room for my grandkids in Elysium.



RE: Single women in their 30s/40s are starting to realize they will die alone - N°6 - 11-08-2019 12:15 AM

Guardian typing pool Wrote:It’s no different than those who mourn the days when they didn’t have to compete for jobs against women and racial minorities. It must be frustrating to lose power you once had but didn’t necessarily deserve.

Once again we see a liberal double down on the joys of borderless, chaos, liberal capitalism. The very casino culture which destroys stability.

The Left used to call the use of foreign and female cheap labour to lower wages as the Engels reserve labour theory.

Funny how the typist takes a dig at working class white men for her own spinsterhood.


RE: Single women in their 30s/40s are starting to realize they will die alone - N°6 - 11-08-2019 12:24 AM

(11-07-2019 11:56 PM)MusicForThePiano Wrote:  The scale of women reaching 40+ with no mate will soon reach unstable mass, so that all of us without wives must be ready for the frothing and howling of fem yaps as well as the pointing of crooked fingers at every man who refuses to relinquish his assets to these swine. Big Daddy Government can't afford their ridiculous deathstyles after all, don'cha know!

A classic dalrock article called this in 2012, the never marrieds are “piling up”.

https://dalrock.wordpress.com/2012/11/24/more-grim-news-for-carousellers-hoping-to-jump-at-the-last-minute/

Remember men, these women prefer to be divorcées than spinsters so don’t be surprised if they don’t try to get on you with the same vigour as Lot’s daughters (Genesis 19: 30-36).


RE: Single women in their 30s/40s are starting to realize they will die alone - porscheguy - 11-08-2019 12:27 AM

I look at most women and I ask myself “what does she have to offer me?” The answer is nothing.

Seriously.

A 38 year old woman who has been on the carousel since she was 15/16 has virtually nothing to offer. They’re not able to connect at a level beyond sexual. And frankly, I’m not inclined to want to connect with someone who I see as used up.

I discovered sailing this year. I’m not sure if it’s a blessing or a curse. Because since discovering it, I’ve found an overwhelming desire to connect with nature and to disconnect from most people. Especially vapid, city dwelling spinsters.


RE: Single women in their 30s/40s are starting to realize they will die alone - Captainstabbin - 11-08-2019 12:43 AM

All of the things they list about themselves that I'm sure they think will attract men are a turn off to any man considering marriage.

Oh, you like traveling and tattoos and wine and you think you're witty and honest and you're competitive about your dog's looks. Please tell me more about why you can't attract a husband.


RE: Single women in their 30s/40s are starting to realize they will die alone - Sherman - 11-08-2019 12:44 AM

I looked through the profiles and saw several references to their dogs, but none of the profiles mentioned "children". American women are a good catch if you want a litter of puppies.


RE: Single women in their 30s/40s are starting to realize they will die alone - Aquarius - 11-08-2019 01:25 AM

(11-08-2019 12:44 AM)Sherman Wrote:  I looked through the profiles and saw several references to their dogs, but none of the profiles mentioned "children". American women are a good catch if you want a litter of puppies.

American women in small towns or smaller cities can be rather decent.

I know a girl from a rural town about 20 miles away from a very large metro area. She's in her late 20s, and already has 3 children with a local middle class guy who she essentially grew up with. And she managed to stay svelte even after the 3 kids.

Its the American women who live in the center of the hustle and bustle of major metropolitan areas that can very easily turn into bad apples.


RE: Single women in their 30s/40s are starting to realize they will die alone - N°6 - 11-08-2019 01:25 AM

A 4Chan member claims he dated one of them!

Quote: I'll tell the story of this one because it was kind of sad.

Our first date was nice, we met for a drink at a lounge near midtown. She actually looks as good as her pictures for her 40s. We hit it off pretty well and I got her pretty comfortable on the first date. After a few drinks and talking a little bit about postmodern Society she freely admits to me that she screwed up in her twenties and thirties. She tells me how she wishes she was already married with kids. She had a few relationships in the past and turn down more than one engagement. One of them was even a doctor but she met at the hospital she works at as a nurse. I hold my tongue because I'm not a complete ass hole and I want to get laid eventually.

Second date we went Upstate a little on a hike. She looks pretty goddamn good in yoga pants and spaghetti strap tank top. We go out to dinner then back to her place. I know we're going to have sex as we really couldn't keep our hands off each other during the hike. Her apartment pretty much looks like what you would expect. Kind of messy, a small dog with a pee mat, and I shit you not a DVD box set of Sex in the City! I swear to God you can't make this shit up the memes are real in Manhattan. The sex was actually pretty good she had a fantastic body for her age. But ultimately looking back on it it makes me feel very sad an empty. This woman had potential and good genetics! She could have been a wonderful mother if times were different.

I almost feel sorry for her but if a beta doctor couldn’t marry her up with a hypergamous doctor - nurse pairing, she wouldn’t have pissed on me if I was on fire.

Most of the women in the 4Chan thread would have been easy 8 plus back in the day.


RE: Single women in their 30s/40s are starting to realize they will die alone - Captainstabbin - 11-08-2019 01:52 AM

(11-08-2019 01:25 AM)N°6 Wrote:  I almost feel sorry for her but if a beta doctor couldn’t marry her up with a hypergamous doctor - nurse pairing, she wouldn’t have pissed on me if I was on fire.

Most of the women in the 4Chan thread would have been easy 8 plus back in the day.

For modern women, life experiences have replaced boring pursuits like starting a family. They want to party, travel and have as much fun as possible before wasting as little of their fertile years on their husband. Ride that carousel until you get thrown off. The girls in this article couldn't stick the landing.

And they fully expected a great man to be waiting and be grateful that his prayers were answered with a beat woman who brings nothing to the table except a few eggs (if she's lucky) and stories about all the dudes she got crazy with during her party years.