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I'm five days in, sleeping better and seem to have more motivation to get stuff done.
09-17-2015 12:39 PM
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That's one week without porn.

It hasn't been that hard, but I must say it's strange to masturbate without porn again. Feel like my 14 year old self.
09-20-2015 03:42 PM
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Haven't jacked off in coming up to three months, though I've been getting laid in that time. Longest stint without coming is 14 days.
09-20-2015 07:26 PM
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(09-20-2015 07:26 PM)TSC2295 Wrote:  Haven't jacked off in coming up to three months, though I've been getting laid in that time. Longest stint without coming is 14 days.

I am probably going to regret posting in this thread but what the hell, I'm curious.

Don't any of you guys get blue balls? Now, no doubt there are many who have a regular sex partner, or are good at hook-ups, but then there will also be many who don't have a regular girlfriend and are rubbish at hooking up.

So long periods with no ejaculation, other than wet dreams maybe, has to be hell on your balls. It's not like just because you avoid porn you don't have sexual thoughts. If anything, not looking at porn will likely make you more horny when seeing or thinking about (real) hot women. No relief?

Also, along the same lines. Sure it must have been brought up, but I can't look through 60 pages. What do the No Porn/ No Fap adherents think about the link between (increased) ejaculation and (decreased) prostate problems?
09-21-2015 01:11 PM
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^^
While I've never done more than a couple weeks at a time, I've never gotten blue balls from NoFap before. That being said I don't think I've ever gotten blue balls period, I've often wondered what it feels like 'cause some guys really bitch about it.
09-21-2015 01:17 PM
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(09-21-2015 01:17 PM)QuietDog Wrote:  ^^
While I've never done more than a couple weeks at a time, I've never gotten blue balls from NoFap before. That being said I don't think I've ever gotten blue balls period, I've often wondered what it feels like 'cause some guys really bitch about it.

It feels like crap. Kind of like your balls, and to a lesser extent connected areas around the lower back and abdomen, are in their very own pressure chamber. That chamber being set at a much higher pressure than for the rest of your body.
09-21-2015 01:26 PM
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(09-21-2015 01:11 PM)Bad Hussar Wrote:  Don't any of you guys get blue balls? Now, no doubt there are many who have a regular sex partner, or are good at hook-ups, but then there will also be many who don't have a regular girlfriend and are rubbish at hooking up.

So long periods with no ejaculation, other than wet dreams maybe, has to be hell on your balls. It's not like just because you avoid porn you don't have sexual thoughts. If anything, not looking at porn will likely make you more horny when seeing or thinking about (real) hot women. No relief?

Also, along the same lines. Sure it must have been brought up, but I can't look through 60 pages. What do the No Porn/ No Fap adherents think about the link between (increased) ejaculation and (decreased) prostate problems?

While it seems many guys new to No Porn/No Fap can speed up their recovery time by completely abstaining from both porn AND masturbation, the evidence suggests that porn itself is the main culprit. I believe (and I think most other No Fap vets here would agree) that semi-regular masturbation can be healthy and non-detrimental to a functioning libido.

If I'm not getting laid, I'll jerk off once (without any external stimulation) every 7-10 days. This accomplishes several things:

1) Prevents blue balls/wet dreams
2) Lowers my thirst level so I don't make rash/impulsive decisions based on a raging desire to get laid
3) Clears out old sperm, in case there is a causative relationship between lack of ejaculation and increased chances of prostate troubles

I haven't watched porn in two years, and although I didn't jerk off for the first 75 days, since then I've been following this pattern with consistent success.
09-21-2015 03:59 PM
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(09-21-2015 03:59 PM)Isaac Jordan Wrote:  
(09-21-2015 01:11 PM)Bad Hussar Wrote:  Don't any of you guys get blue balls? Now, no doubt there are many who have a regular sex partner, or are good at hook-ups, but then there will also be many who don't have a regular girlfriend and are rubbish at hooking up.

So long periods with no ejaculation, other than wet dreams maybe, has to be hell on your balls. It's not like just because you avoid porn you don't have sexual thoughts. If anything, not looking at porn will likely make you more horny when seeing or thinking about (real) hot women. No relief?

Also, along the same lines. Sure it must have been brought up, but I can't look through 60 pages. What do the No Porn/ No Fap adherents think about the link between (increased) ejaculation and (decreased) prostate problems?

While it seems many guys new to No Porn/No Fap can speed up their recovery time by completely abstaining from both porn AND masturbation, the evidence suggests that porn itself is the main culprit. I believe (and I think most other No Fap vets here would agree) that semi-regular masturbation can be healthy and non-detrimental to a functioning libido.

If I'm not getting laid, I'll jerk off once (without any external stimulation) every 7-10 days. This accomplishes several things:

1) Prevents blue balls/wet dreams
2) Lowers my thirst level so I don't make rash/impulsive decisions based on a raging desire to get laid
3) Clears out old sperm, in case there is a causative relationship between lack of ejaculation and increased chances of prostate troubles

I haven't watched porn in two years, and although I didn't jerk off for the first 75 days, since then I've been following this pattern with consistent success.

I think you underestimate that 75 days.

In my experience, there were no significant changes until I went around 50 days without jerking off. Now - I can follow your protocol, with maintenance sessions every week or so.

But, like everything, your mileage may vary. My suggestion would be:

1. Quit porn
2. Limit fapping to every Sunday as per Roosh Program
3. Improve your sex life
4. Quit jerking off

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09-21-2015 05:57 PM
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(09-21-2015 01:11 PM)Bad Hussar Wrote:  
(09-20-2015 07:26 PM)TSC2295 Wrote:  Haven't jacked off in coming up to three months, though I've been getting laid in that time. Longest stint without coming is 14 days.

I am probably going to regret posting in this thread but what the hell, I'm curious.

Don't any of you guys get blue balls? Now, no doubt there are many who have a regular sex partner, or are good at hook-ups, but then there will also be many who don't have a regular girlfriend and are rubbish at hooking up.

So long periods with no ejaculation, other than wet dreams maybe, has to be hell on your balls. It's not like just because you avoid porn you don't have sexual thoughts. If anything, not looking at porn will likely make you more horny when seeing or thinking about (real) hot women. No relief?

Also, along the same lines. Sure it must have been brought up, but I can't look through 60 pages. What do the No Porn/ No Fap adherents think about the link between (increased) ejaculation and (decreased) prostate problems?

Since starting nofap, I don't really get sexual urges anymore (unless I'm with my LTR or another hot bitch). However, when they hit, they hit hard.
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Day 65

Disaster struck. I had my first ever wet dream. I woke up at climax. Boxers were drenched. A it turns out, this wet dream has turned into my worst nightmare. I feel like all the effort I put in has gone to waste. But I'm not blaming myself too much as there is nothing I could have done about it.

Only fuck up is that I had a fuck in place for this week and now I would not be able to enjoy the reward to the extent I could have. I'm not counting this as the end of my streak. Is that fair?
09-22-2015 03:42 AM
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(09-22-2015 03:42 AM)testos111 Wrote:  Day 65

Disaster struck. I had my first ever wet dream. I woke up at climax. Boxers were drenched. A it turns out, this wet dream has turned into my worst nightmare. I feel like all the effort I put in has gone to waste. But I'm not blaming myself too much as there is nothing I could have done about it.

Only fuck up is that I had a fuck in place for this week and now I would not be able to enjoy the reward to the extent I could have. I'm not counting this as the end of my streak. Is that fair?

Don't worry about it man, there wasn't shit you could do.
09-22-2015 05:32 AM
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wet dreams are natural from what I have read. It releives the pressure, and if your still avoiding porn than your still good to go. The porn is the problem.
09-22-2015 07:55 AM
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10 days in

Walking around campus is driving me crazy, so many hot chicks walking around.

I'm just constantly thinking about sex now, definitely hurting my productivity a bit.
Can hardly wait until I hit 90 so I can go back to jerking it once a week
09-24-2015 01:03 PM
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(09-24-2015 01:03 PM)QuietDog Wrote:  10 days in

Walking around campus is driving me crazy, so many hot chicks walking around.

I'm just constantly thinking about sex now, definitely hurting my productivity a bit.
Can hardly wait until I hit 90 so I can go back to jerking it once a week

Better idea: don't. Now that you're fucking horny start approaching some of those chicks.
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I'm in.

I already only watch porn occasionally, but most of my masturbation fantasies are porn-like.

It's time to fix this shit.

No porn/no fap day 1.
10-07-2015 04:13 PM
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Additionally, I've done nofap before for short stretches (10-12 days) but the frogspawn and the possibility of cumming faster put me off of it.

I've noticed that my motivation to go out and approach is in the toilet (this past Friday and Saturday I actually went home early after going out to night game), and I had a bout of ED during sex recently that I suspect was at last partially fapping-induced. A lot of sexual dysfunction in men today is tied to porn and fapping. I've been reading this thread and reading about the benefits and I'm ready to get back on the wagon.
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2 months no porn. Have been getting laid every week or so. Not actually finding it that hard or feeling more focused, but I think my boners have improved somewhat. Hard to tell.

Will continue.
10-08-2015 11:42 PM
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Been off porn/jacking off for several weeks now. I certainly have been getting more morning wood and feel hornier in general. I just got through a breakup, so I'm not immediately focusing my efforts to find another woman, and instead channeling my newfound energy from no porn/jacking off into starting a business. Porn is a life sapper in that you don't realize what you're missing, until you've experienced it. Get off the porn and you'll kill a lot of the 'blahness'.
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Day 15 Checking In.

I got laid last Friday, it was some of the best tantra-style sex I've ever had. Thank god for 19 year old pussy.

Oddly enough when I came the second time I was still super sensitive and still had loads large enough to warrant a towel over tissues. Dodgy

My focus and energy are wayyyy up. I am not getting NRB'S (no reason boners). The only boners I get now are first thing in the morning.

At night - I get horny, but it's out of habit. And I don't get an erection. It's like my mind is saying "watch porn fgt do it." But I don't want to watch porn, so I don't get an erection.

Sleep has been fine but I've been taking melatonin to help.

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Jailed former UFC fighter War Machine mentions he's gone 4 months without jerking off. I should mention that he's locked up in prison right now though heh

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Since I ended a long dry spell I havent watched porn for a while. Still jerk off though. Wont stop.

Don't debate me.
11-02-2015 11:45 AM
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I quit watching porn last month. It made me constantly horny, and very awkward around females. Masturbation is OK, so long as I don't overdo it (1-4 times a week, and 4's pushing it).

What people don't get about porn is that it makes you subconsciously expect women to push themselves onto you. That won't happen unless you're jacked and have movie-star looks, and even then its mediocre club-rats who do that shit.

Masturbation without porn, on the other hand (no pun intended), makes you imagine the kind of girl you want to screw and how you want to screw her. In other words, it makes you think more sexually. Girls pick up on that.

I thought I couldn't attempt nofap anymore - it made me horny and have absurdly low standards. It was good up until Week 2, then I had to fuck or had to watch some chick get fucked on screen. Neither works out well in the end.

Or maybe its because my record is 2 weeks. Going to try to go for a month without beating the monkey, lets see what happens. Hopefully, I won't make some hambeast have a great night.

Edit: Just realized that this was post 666. Should have saved this post for the Satan thread in the Deep Forum.
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I have to fap everyday at least once. I dont know, maybe I have too much testosterone.

Don't debate me.
11-03-2015 12:33 AM
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Gonna get on this train. Jerking off I have no problems with and I will continue to do so if I really just want to blow a load, but I want to stop watching porn.

Problem is I work remotely (from home 1-2 times a week) and it's too easy to just pop up some porn. Whatever. Self control baby.

Watched porn yesterday. Day 1 starts today. Shooting for 100 days no porn. Let's do it.

My only issue is if I go 4-5 days without jerking off, when I have sex, I will want to blow my load pretty much immediately. As in, two pumps in. I've overcome this in the past by going extremely slowly and just pulling out every other thrust and teasing her, which she seemed to enjoy. But this is quite an ordeal because I have to pretty much 100% focus on not cumming the entire time. Any other tips for lasting longer when jerking less?
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Day 29 checking in.

Had sex a few times this weekend. Friday I was hammered and lasted forever, Saturday morning I lasted long enough but it wasn't a marathon fuck session, then Saturday night I was coming off the liquor and came within minutes. New girl that night...and da booty got me Banana

Overall still feeling amazing. I haven't hit 45 days as a single man EVER and I am looking to see what it feels like.

My libido is still through the roof. I don't want to jack off, but at the end of the day, it still seems natural to ejaculate. If there's no sex, my body will feel withdrawn. This is why I have been working my ass off everyday. I am planning everyday so that there is MORE to do than there is TIME in the day...even if it's stupid shit. Oh an extra hour here? Guess that's when I'm meditating. Stay busy!

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