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(02-15-2017 01:47 AM)Vet-Boy Wrote:  Currently approaching month number 6 on febuary 19th.

I reluctantly edged a little less than a handful of times but i dont really count them as breaking the streak.

Looking to never fap again


6 full months without any masturbation ?!
You need to tell us more about how you did that and what symptoms you experienced.
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(02-15-2017 06:17 AM)ExploringReality Wrote:  I'm on day 5, I wanted to break it since I broke my dryspell 2 days ago but then I remembered that NoFap probably had a lot to do with losing it in the first place (I was 1 week into when I made plans with the girl, which made me bold IMO). So stopping one of the things that has been helping me is a stupid thing to do. This is being hard, very very hard, but I'm positive I will do it.

You are experiencing something called the "chaser effect".
This happens when you break your NoFap streak by either fapping or by having sex with ejaculation with a girl. Your body gets so pumped up after not having had it for so long it immediately wants to overdose.

Get that same girl back in bed if you want to manage this, or is that not possible ?
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(02-15-2017 06:31 AM)Mercenary Wrote:  
(02-15-2017 06:17 AM)ExploringReality Wrote:  I'm on day 5, I wanted to break it since I broke my dryspell 2 days ago but then I remembered that NoFap probably had a lot to do with losing it in the first place (I was 1 week into when I made plans with the girl, which made me bold IMO). So stopping one of the things that has been helping me is a stupid thing to do. This is being hard, very very hard, but I'm positive I will do it.

You are experiencing something called the "chaser effect".
This happens when you break your NoFap streak by either fapping or by having sex with ejaculation with a girl. Your body gets so pumped up after not having had it for so long it immediately wants to overdose.

Get that same girl back in bed if you want to manage this, or is that not possible ?

Yep, I will turn her into a plate without much problem as it seems. And that was the problem "I'm going to be getting laid, and therefore ejaculating, who cares about no-fap now". But that's a lie I would tell myself, since I'm doing this primarily so that all the sexual satisfaction I get is from real women, aka breaking the porn addiction. I need to keep myself hungry and keep on getting better at game, and no-fap is very very helpful with this goal IMO.
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(02-15-2017 07:03 AM)ExploringReality Wrote:  
(02-15-2017 06:31 AM)Mercenary Wrote:  
(02-15-2017 06:17 AM)ExploringReality Wrote:  I'm on day 5, I wanted to break it since I broke my dryspell 2 days ago but then I remembered that NoFap probably had a lot to do with losing it in the first place (I was 1 week into when I made plans with the girl, which made me bold IMO). So stopping one of the things that has been helping me is a stupid thing to do. This is being hard, very very hard, but I'm positive I will do it.

You are experiencing something called the "chaser effect".
This happens when you break your NoFap streak by either fapping or by having sex with ejaculation with a girl. Your body gets so pumped up after not having had it for so long it immediately wants to overdose.

Get that same girl back in bed if you want to manage this, or is that not possible ?

Yep, I will turn her into a plate without much problem as it seems. And that was the problem "I'm going to be getting laid, and therefore ejaculating, who cares about no-fap now". But that's a lie I would tell myself, since I'm doing this primarily so that all the sexual satisfaction I get is from real women, aka breaking the porn addiction. I need to keep myself hungry and keep on getting better at game, and no-fap is very very helpful with this goal IMO.

If you do this correctly, you should notice that you fuck this girl much more often and much more intensely than before because you are not watching porn and not fapping. She should also notice how animal like you are in your attraction and in fucking her and enjoy it a lot more.

Obviously, I can't guarantee this, cause it also depends on both your personalities, physical & mental health and chemistry together, but on a general level this is what should happen when you have a girl you like and never fap again.

Nice profile pic of Arthur Schopenhauer by the way.
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Day 3.
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I am not even sure how many days it's been for me. Roughly a week or so. Jerking off is such a waste of damn time. Porn just lowers the bar of your state of mind a little bit with each time you watch it. Eventually you just feel like shit. It's insidious because it's not immediately noticeable.
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^^ Same here, I didn't keep track of the days. I don't think about it anymore, so I guess it's a good sign.
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I still keep track but I don't make it a priority to mark it down at 12 am when I should be asleep by then. Now the days just go by and the urge to do the deed isn't there.

This week I started falling back on web browsing on my phone and if I do ,no porn viewing .

I have to discipline myself to form that habit but it'll pay off.


Stay strong folks.
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3rd day now. Planning on making this a thing. I think fapping has seriously affecting my ability to get a hard-on with real girls. I've noticed I struggle to keep it hard and have sex with girls.

Not happening. - redbeard in regards to ETH flippening BTC

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Lapsed this morning after 32 days. Unfinished wet dream got me. I will immediately start over again, I am totally convinced about the benefits after this first try.
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I still dont know whats the advantage of keeping this for months. Can somebody tell me? I found out, that one week is probably optimal.
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(02-16-2017 04:50 AM)tomzestatlu Wrote:  I still dont know whats the advantage of keeping this for months. Can somebody tell me? I found out, that one week is probably optimal.

I started nofap last year November, with the intention of reaching a full 90 day reboot. The advantages are too many to list, really, this has been life changing for me. Becoming free of masturbation and especially pornography has just made the world more colorful and given me a sense of inner peace and confidence. I don't want faux sexual validation anymore. I've started actually going out more and my desire to self improve has increased tremendously.

I recommend it to everyone to try, even if you are not a porn addict or affected by PIED, even if you are a functional habitual masturbator or porn consumer.

Give 30 days without porn & masturbation a try and then judge for yourself on the benefits. At the very least, you will have an awesome nut after your first 30 streak
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Day 4

I am sorry but I fapped. It all starts with '' soft '' things on youtube. Never click these soft NFSW videos or you will end up like me.
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Don't be sorry champ.dust ya self off and try again.


If you hate starting over ,stop giving up.
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Fourth day of no porn viewing.

As long as I stay of the phone it's easier to deal with but man I thought I wouldn't have an urge to do that at all since I went this long without doing the deed . Few taps of a button and I'm sure I'd be browsing through porn for about 2 hours.

I'm gonna continue on with what I have to do today.

I recommend you all make a schedule of things you do everyday after work/school Ol etc to occupy your time. You'd be way satisfied doing that then in your feelz cleaning up your body goo with a towel.

Stay strong .

2 months 15 days.
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I had a wet dream last night and the funny thing is the dream itself was not even sexual.
I went to buy some clothes and I jizzed in my pants, it was pretty hilarious thinking back.

It's all about dopamine and adrenaline,
everything in life is about drugs.
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Basil II:
I am not porn adict and recently I did 6 months without porn. I am talking about nofap. My goal is to maximize my testosteron levels. From my experience, it can be around a week with nofap. If I continue, that inner power seems to decrease.
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I'm on day 21 but I feel like it does not count. New girl has been sucking my cock and fucking like a champ, been seeing her every 2 to 3 days. I've barely even thought of porn or wanted to jerk it.
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No fap is easy for guys who get laid regularly. How many of you members are nofappers and are going through months long dry spells?

Beliefs are more powerful than facts.
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Few things

1. I have anecdotally found that yelling, moaning, and all kinds of talking makes me last longer and makes the sex much more enjoyable. When a girl is quiet, the conversation gets one sided and boring...Not enjoying it as much = not as much focus on orgasm control.

2. Good MikeCF article with similar sentiments, talks about how Lion's yell during sex. Conversely beta males don't because they're scared of getting caught.

https://www.dangerandplay.com/2014/02/11...ownership/

3. Dry Spell - this is the hardest (literally) part of NoFap. There have been times when I'm in a dry spell and not having sex and it's absolutely miserable. My "trigger time" (when the urges hit) is usually at night before going to sleep. If I'm awake and high energy I'll get extremely horny trying to go to sleep. During dry spells I make it a point to go EXTRA HARD in the gym to exhaust my body. Cardio is often too time intensive so I'll do finishers at the end of my workout to really drain energy. KB swings, farmers walks, whatever it takes to exhaust my energy.

That being said these are just band aids and the best way to get over a dry spell is to...get laid (big surprise). NoFap helps me stay in the game because I'm always horny. If a healthy sex life is a priority to you, ACT like it. Put the time in and do the work.

4. Tomorrow marks four months no porn no fap Wink
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This thread stopped me from fapping... literally.

A few nights ago I took a wrong turn on the internet and ended up on some porn. I hard a raging 11inch erection... An mentally had pretty much caved into fapping but I was stalling cause I still knew I didn't wanna do it. An when I was closing other tabs on my browser I saw this thread on the RooshV home page.... An I clicked open the thread and read a few post and dodged the fap bullet. So I am still at just over a month now... thanks amigos

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Still haven't fapped. But at the same time, have no desire to. Currently going through some shit which has caused depression and anxiety and destroyed my libido, so it's not like I'm even having to try. It's almost like cheating. In either case not fapping is a net positive.
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I haven't looked at porn since around July.

Porn *might* be okay in moderation, but it would be healthy to stop it altogether. If you ever need to stop yourself, just google some of the studies they've done on the negative effects.

About masturbation: I fap maybe once every two weeks. I see no harm in doing it occasionally. Once a week is probably the most you should be doing it, and NOT to porn. If you're not masturbating, you will have wet dreams. Your body needs to get rid of that excess sperm. I really don't think there's anything wrong with masturbation in moderation. It's a stress release. If you abstain completely, you'll suffer from premature ejaculation when you're with a girl.

Just don't overdo it.
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(02-20-2017 12:56 PM)griffinmill Wrote:  About masturbation: I fap maybe once every two weeks. I see no harm in doing it occasionally. Once a week is probably the most you should be doing it, and NOT to porn. If you're not masturbating, you will have wet dreams. Your body needs to get rid of that excess sperm. I really don't think there's anything wrong with masturbation in moderation. It's a stress release. If you abstain completely, you'll suffer from premature ejaculation when you're with a girl.

Griffinmill, what is your record numner of days for going without sex and fapping ? I ask because you may start to think differently the longer your abstinence streaks are and the more powerful you become.

Firstly, premature ejaculation due to NoFap is not guaranteed. I certainly haven't experienced that. Often this is simply caused by anxiety with a new girl rather than nofap. Secondly, wet dreams are normal if you quit porn as your brain becomes healthy again. However i do not think this is a long term thing you need to cope with if you go permanently on NoFap. Sex dreams might be more frequent, but wet dreams where you actually cum while sleeping are definetly not as common as you think. You might have a few per year at most. Thirdly, and most importantly you need to give up the idea of masturbation in moderation being ok and as a stress release. It is not. That mindset is for guys who don't want to even try.

You know what is a genuine stress release ?
You together in bed with a hot sexy girl who is begging to be totally ravished over and over again by the wild untamed animal who brought her there.
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(02-20-2017 01:28 PM)Mercenary Wrote:  
(02-20-2017 12:56 PM)griffinmill Wrote:  About masturbation: I fap maybe once every two weeks. I see no harm in doing it occasionally. Once a week is probably the most you should be doing it, and NOT to porn. If you're not masturbating, you will have wet dreams. Your body needs to get rid of that excess sperm. I really don't think there's anything wrong with masturbation in moderation. It's a stress release. If you abstain completely, you'll suffer from premature ejaculation when you're with a girl.

Griffinmill, what is your record numner of days for going without sex and fapping ? I ask because you may start to think differently the longer your abstinence streaks are and the more powerful you become.

Firstly, premature ejaculation due to NoFap is not guaranteed. I certainly haven't experienced that. Often this is simply caused by anxiety with a new girl rather than nofap. Secondly, wet dreams are normal if you quit porn as your brain becomes healthy again. However i do not think this is a long term thing you need to cope with if you go permanently on NoFap. Sex dreams might be more frequent, but wet dreams where you actually cum while sleeping are definetly not as common as you think. You might have a few per year at most. Thirdly, and most importantly you need to give up the idea of masturbation in moderation being ok and as a stress release. It is not. That mindset is for guys who don't want to even try.

You know what is a genuine stress release ?
You together in bed with a hot sexy girl who is begging to be totally ravished over and over again by the wild untamed animal who brought her there.

I'm just going by my own experiences. I would strongly advice against the use of porn for any kind of recreational use, but masturbation I'm on the fence about.

I think the longest I tried no porn and NoFap was for maybe 6 months to a year and it actually resulted in a decrease in my sexual appetite. It was around this time I had a lot of wet dreams. Abstaining didn't make me any hornier.

I never used to be a habitual masturbator anyway (sometimes only once every four days). Now it's once a week or once a fortnight. This doesn't cause me any sexual dysfunction. Complete NoFap would result in some premature ejaculation (especially with a new girl) as I was simply too excited once I was in bed with a girl.

Whatever works for you is fine, and I think no porn/NoFap is entirely honourable and go for it. Especially no porn, which is destructive and harmful and should be avoided at all costs.
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