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Tried no fap twice. One time I lasted for two weeks. Recently I lasted for a week. Both times I went down with a fever and after I masturbated my temperature went down and I felt better. I don't know if that was a coincidence though.
09-12-2014 10:48 PM
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I didn't realise not flapping can make people ill.
09-13-2014 12:12 AM
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Day 6 for me. Didn't notice much difference in anything yet except for the fact that my balls really hurt.
09-13-2014 07:01 AM
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(09-11-2014 06:43 AM)pitt Wrote:  
(09-10-2014 09:34 PM)Vytas Wrote:  Day 36. +1 to a fellow RVF member who has been a solid accountability partner. It definitely helps with fighting the temptation.

#1 learning point: Do not allow yourself to have extended idle time alone in your room with your computer! Go for a walk, do work in coffee shops, stay in public view, especially in those first few weeks.

I also agree with Gio, its a cumulative effect. Stay strong and channel that masculine energy elsewhere. For me fapping now seems like drinking, except you skip the joyful buzz and elation and go straight to the hangover.

Just wondering, no sex during those 36 days?

Ha, definitely not. Have a semi regular and continuing to day game in a major city. It's a whole other difficulty level if you don't create any sort of outlet for yourself.
09-13-2014 12:39 PM
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(09-13-2014 12:39 PM)Vytas Wrote:  
(09-11-2014 06:43 AM)pitt Wrote:  
(09-10-2014 09:34 PM)Vytas Wrote:  Day 36. +1 to a fellow RVF member who has been a solid accountability partner. It definitely helps with fighting the temptation.

#1 learning point: Do not allow yourself to have extended idle time alone in your room with your computer! Go for a walk, do work in coffee shops, stay in public view, especially in those first few weeks.

I also agree with Gio, its a cumulative effect. Stay strong and channel that masculine energy elsewhere. For me fapping now seems like drinking, except you skip the joyful buzz and elation and go straight to the hangover.

Just wondering, no sex during those 36 days?

Ha, definitely not. Have a semi regular and continuing to day game in a major city. It's a whole other difficulty level if you don't create any sort of outlet for yourself.

How are you feeling in terms of energy and motivation? Do you feel any difference?
09-13-2014 01:20 PM
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Two points I want to make:

1. There is a difference between masturbating and watching porn. Although, they usually go together. I would suggest just try cutting out the porn first while masturbating without it. Then cut back on the masturbation to some reasonable level. And when you do masturbate think about real girls you know instead of porn. The porn will stay in your memory for awhile until you replace it with real women and sex.

2. A lot of guys, including myself, use it to relieve stress which allows you to focus on work. It's much more efficient than having sex with a girl. You burn up a lot more time and energy banging a girl. And if you have to go out and get one, forget it. Might as well, get a hooker. What this means is that unless you can find another way to cope with stress then it's going to be very hard to stop.

The main problem is not masturbation it's the porn. If you can quit the porn that alone will make a huge difference. The easy access that the Internet has created has really make this a huge problem. Just imagine if drugs were as easy to get. Anytime you find yourself stressed out and thinking about watching porn just go to a public place. It will help.
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09-13-2014 10:00 PM
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Porn can also be an outlet to spend money if someone has a credit card and the money can easily build up to a sizeable amount in a few years.
09-14-2014 12:39 AM
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Massive difference in motivation. I'm an older guy so I'm not banging down doors with my boner, but it's made the difference between wanting to go daygame on the weekend (pulled a gorgeous French girl yesterday) and saying f-it and turning on the TV. It's also helped alleviate some depression which I would feel with increasing regularity post fap.
The main starting point for me was quitting porn, which is truly poison. I've realized that after watching it for 15+ years, I have some rewiring to do. We all probably do, to some extent.
09-14-2014 08:30 AM
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In my opinion, porn is pure poison. I've been watching it regularly since the internet came up mid/end of the 90ies. Back on track/no fap for about 11 month now.
I did relapse twice watching porn and felt really bad afterwards.

I've been to a point, where I was producing/editing my own compilations (60 minutes+, fast paced, lots of scenes combined with music- > they're called cock hero). I'm a professional video-editor so I spend lots of time searching for the "best" scenes etc....

Back in the days when it all started, I also met/dated some girls regularly but due to my beta behaviour I never closed. I could'nt handle the frustration etc., just didn't know what to do so I became a hardcore porn-junkie for years.

I try to get things sorted now: working out a lot, lots of work to do=money to be made, no porn at all, doing pc-muscle-training and some p-excercises every night but no cumming, trying to get better and better with women every second to finally live the life I want.

nofap really helps me to focus on women again but I massively lack experience so there's still a long way to go.
09-14-2014 08:46 AM
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I've tried to quit multiple times. I can go up to 3 weeks before I relapse. I keep trying though.
09-14-2014 05:48 PM
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If you are not getting sex from a girl or not dating or getting any kind of affection from a girl it can be tough. Get any girl and focus on her. It will help you to get through the down cycles.
09-14-2014 05:52 PM
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(09-14-2014 05:52 PM)Nomad77 Wrote:  If you are not getting sex from a girl or not dating or getting any kind of affection from a girl it can be tough. Get any girl and focus on her. It will help you to get through the down cycles.

Having a girl helps but it won't necessarily stop you from masturbating. The other day I had sex with 3 different girls in one day and I still fapped late at night.

By the way guys, I feel a big difference when I am not having sex and when I am not fapping. Try to do it for 2 or 3 weeks, no sex and no fapping and you will notice a massive difference.
09-14-2014 07:21 PM
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On day 7, had a case of the blue balls yesterday but ran 5 miles which helped a lot. I have already noticed my erections on command are starting to come back. I have also started having more erotic dreams this week. Overall I feel pretty accomplished this week even though I've had lots of free time due to being unemployed. The longest I've gone before was three weeks with no porn or masturbation. Will probably try keeping the jerk off sessions to about once a week, then try abstaining for longer. Although being on Fetlife and an active member of the BDSM and kink community sometimes doesn't help.
09-14-2014 09:45 PM
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@pitt Ye, if you are under 25 it probably wouldn't. What do you mean by noticing a massive difference?
09-14-2014 09:54 PM
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(09-14-2014 09:54 PM)Nomad77 Wrote:  @pitt Ye, if you are under 25 it probably wouldn't. What do you mean by noticing a massive difference?

I am 28 but even when I was younger I used to feel a massive difference. I don't think certain people on this thread understand how destructive masturbation can be to some people. To me, it literally destroyed my life for many years, even till today, if I was to masturbate right now, I would literally be sick for the next 3 days but I know guys that masturbate and they will be totally fine. Reason why I am going to stop it for good.
09-15-2014 04:38 AM
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Wow, I've never heard of this but if you have sex it's ok?
09-15-2014 10:01 AM
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(09-15-2014 10:01 AM)Nomad77 Wrote:  Wow, I've never heard of this but if you have sex it's ok?

I would say if you had sex (and ejeculatted) you have to go back to day 1.
09-15-2014 10:14 AM
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(09-15-2014 10:14 AM)LemonDrink Wrote:  
(09-15-2014 10:01 AM)Nomad77 Wrote:  Wow, I've never heard of this but if you have sex it's ok?

I would say if you had sex (and ejeculatted) you have to go back to day 1.

Its not a no sex challenge.... its no masterbating... They can have a very different affect on somebody.

Sex is very natural and while masterbating is as well it is not normal to have have an endless supply of videos showing every sexual fetish that anybody has ever thought of while masterbating to it on a daily basis.
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09-15-2014 11:09 AM
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(09-14-2014 05:52 PM)Nomad77 Wrote:  If you are not getting sex from a girl or not dating or getting any kind of affection from a girl it can be tough. Get any girl and focus on her. It will help you to get through the down cycles.

This. I couldn't stick with it without my current plate.
09-15-2014 06:41 PM
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Day 32 ;
I'm starting to witness a body & soul composure . Mood swings are no longer there . Girls are eyefucking me like crazy , just like this chick who ignored all the seats in the tram and came to sit next to me . I feel like I have a sexual aura on top of my head that only chicks can notice . I've won many arguments lately , I don't stammer around and always come up with the right words . This makes me look very smart and alpha . Music sounds better and better to me . One last point ,I don't need much sleep to feel rested . Am I going to carry on ? Absolutely !!
09-15-2014 09:55 PM
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Count me in.
Day 1.
Fuck you fapgod. I will destroy you.

09-15-2014 09:57 PM
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Gonna give this another go. If I feel the need to jerk it, I'm running to the gym.
09-15-2014 09:58 PM
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Good job(heh) Peregrine.

Race you to the one month deadline.

09-15-2014 10:01 PM
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You're on buddy (aw shit now I have to do it).
09-15-2014 10:07 PM
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Count me in for the race....we should do a 30 day challenge together. The longest I've lasted in a long time is 5 days. Sad

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