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Man Commits Sex Fraud by Lying About his Race
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Man Commits Sex Fraud by Lying About his Race
Married Indian father who lied on dating site about being a blonde man named 'Jamie' avoids jail despite tricking a woman into having sex by making her close her eyes and face the other way

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Quote:A sexually frustrated Indian man who tricked a woman he met on a dating site into have sex with him by pretending to be a blond Caucasian has narrowly avoided jail.

Deepak Dhankar, 29, used photos of a muscular, blond stranger and adopted the name 'Jamie' for a dating profile he used to arrange a tryst with a Melbourne woman because he thought it would get him more hits.

The married father of three was sentenced to a community corrections order in the Victoria County Court on Wednesday after pleading guilty to procuring sex by fraud after the woman discovered he was not who she thought he was.

Dhankar, a financial planner, turned to online dating in 2012 after his third child was born and his wife became ill.

In October that year he started chatting and exchanging explicit photos with the victim before they agreed to meet at her house for a sexual liaison.

Dhankar let himself in through the unlocked door and entered the bedroom where the woman was naked and face-down on the bed.

The two had agreed beforehand that 'Jamie' would play the role of a dominant and the woman would be a submissive.

As part of that arrangement, Dhankar insisted she keep her eyes closed and never look at 'Jamie'.

The woman consented to this and Dhankar performed sex acts on her while she lay on the bed.

He then told her to go into her bathroom where their sexual activity continued until the woman's small child stirred.

When the woman went to settle her child, she saw Dhankar's hand and realised he was not the blond he'd described himself to be.

She decided to play along because she was afraid of what might happen if she let on she was aware he wasn't 'Jamie'.

In her victim impact statement, she told the court the incident left her feeling violated and she suffered crippling anxiety and panic attacks as a result.

Judge Jane Patrick told Dhankar on Wednesday it was a serious matter to obtain access to another person's body by deception and had he not pleaded guilty she would have jailed him.

'It appears that you chose this extremely selfish, immature and inappropriate way to deal with your frustrations arising from the problems you and your wife were having,' Judge Patrick said.

The judge questioned the wisdom of the woman's actions but said that did not diminish Dhankar's moral culpability.

Dhankar was sentenced to a two-year order that requires him to perform 200 hours of community service.

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I’m not sure why he had to go through the deception, he’s not a bad looking guy. He probably have banged a few women without resorting to tactics like this.

Have you guys ever heard of anything like this in online dating?
03-05-2015 07:49 PM
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Man Commits Sex Fraud by Lying About his Race - WalterBlack - 03-05-2015 07:49 PM

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