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I have no friends in my everyday life
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RE: I have no friends in my everyday life
At some point I struggled with this but in the recent months, my social life has done a 180 and taken off for the better. If I had to pin it down to one thing, I will say a great deal of it has to do with your mindset and the vibe you give off. People love being around happy, optimistic, and higher energy people in generally, they love leaving the interaction feeling good. The issue I notice with most men who complain, myself included, is that when you give off a critical and overly negative vibe, people will actively avoid you.

I noticed this at a younger professionals networking event I went to, made two good friends from it (both of them I wing with). Through them I made more friends and I also meet up for drinks with others from the event. We had one older guy who was a happy go lucky life of the party, borderline douchebag but fun to be around. Whenever I have run into the guy, he has had company with him and others in our group try to get him to hang out.

I also met a couple younger guys who were negative, gossipy, and borderline cynical. Everyone I talk to now avoids them and barely remembers them except for one of my friends who said they are never being invited out to drinks again.

TLDR; people love being around rationally confident DGAF personalities and hate being around Debbie Downers.

While events and groups can help, people will still be in draft mode for who they want in their circles.

Every guy wants a guy friend who can get laid or is the life of the party.
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