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RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious
Back on this!

My mojo has been on a flatline for a long time..well, longer then I can actually remember now! I just don't go out as much, I RARELY approach girls anymore unless the circumstances are really 'safe' or I am really really drunk. I feel scared of the approach, and just this general apathy and laziness towards actually hooking up with women in real life. I've resorted to online dating, and I've had mixed luck on there - tinder, and now happn.

I seem to objectify girls on the street, in the office, any ass that goes by me, I am like gawking and I hate doing it. But its like, I am an observer, and I can't actually interact, and I think porn has done that. When you get used to MBing and using porn as you're default, go to mode to get satisfied then of course, its completely logical to see the pattern.

The funny thing is, the last time I did a nofap, I met this french girl in my city, and we hooked up. I went really out of my way to hook up with her, way more then usually, nofap definitely gave me that motivation to approach and build the escalation. When I am using porn and fapping its like I am just not bothered really approaching, getting numbers. Its funny but its like when the penny actually drops, its kind of jaw-dropping how I didn't even realize the link. I think there are lot of us in the same boat, having been using porn for years and years, and just get lazy when it comes to girls, expecting things to happen without doing any of the work! Hello! Where do you think that came from?!

Anyway, I speak as a man who is still in the midst of it. Its day 1 today.

There are a hell load of things I would like to give up - alcohol, cigarettes, milk, bad food. I just seems my willpower is compromised, and has been comprised for a very long time.
04-18-2015 03:57 PM
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RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Georges89 - 04-18-2015 03:57 PM