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RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious
(09-08-2015 05:03 PM)hervens Wrote:  I'm hoping someone here who's been practicing no fap for at least 1 year can comment on their experiences as well.

I haven't gone for a full year without fapping, but my best streak was 150 days. Still, I had a very similar situation as you. After awhile it seemed like I went into something of a permanent flatline in regard to my libido. I know that most people say that you just have to ride it out, and that eventually your libido will come roaring back in a big way.

However, after being without any real sex drive for at least a couple months I finally cracked and started fapping again (which unfortunately led to a full relapse back into porn). I don't know that the situation would have improved much if I had continued down the same path, and I hated the feeling of not knowing if I'd be able to get aroused whenever I was with a new girl.

Thus, I think that the ideal strategy (for me at least, and possibly for you) might be to establish some sort of regular masturbation schedule just to keep that flame alive. Like Isaac said, I find that every 7-10 days, give or take a couple, seems to be a good strategy. Currently I'm shooting for 30 days of no fap/no porn just to jumpstart the process, but then I'll probably get into that fapping routine while staying porn free.

And as for the wet dream thing, I had never had one either until it finally happened during a couple of my longer no fap streaks. Felt kind of weird, but also awesome knowing that it was a sign that my brain was actually recovering.
09-11-2015 01:38 PM
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RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Zona - 09-11-2015 01:38 PM