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RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious
(08-31-2016 06:47 AM)testos111 Wrote:  Day 38

This is my 21st attempt since jumping on the bandwagon in July 2015.

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What's my goal?

There is no goal. THat's what you have to realise. This shit is FOREVER.

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Hey man, you need to have a goal. You will reach a point where your animal brain will seriously test you. Your goal could be no PMO until the New Year. Or no PMO for the next 3 months, etc. But you must have a goal, something to aim for.

In moments of utter despair and temptation I said to myself "just hold out, you can binge in the New Year when you get your money back from your bro"

Will I go back to PMO? Never (I hope, I trust). But saying this to myself was enough to pacify my urges. Just being able to withstand the urges for a few hours or a day is enough. Remember, it's all good writing these words above and you feel in control right now, but your words are like candle wax when held to the flame of your animal hindbrain. You must prepare for those moments of emotional distress/boredom/drunk/hungover when you are at your weakest.
09-01-2016 04:25 AM
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RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - fenetre - 09-01-2016 04:25 AM