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RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious
Day 38 thoughts:

I think that frequent masturbation and porn contributes to oneitis.

I haven't fully fleshed out my thoughts on the matter, but I'm having a hard time getting hung up on a single girl. Whereas, before, I would find myself getting heavy on oneitis, now I keep looking at other options and continue laying pipelines for other girls.

It may have to do that when you're jerking it to porn, you're constantly searching for that image, or position, or some kind of act that just "does it" for you. You fantasize that particular image or act, hallucinating it over and over in your brain, until you get a dopamine rush that locks in some memory and brain rewards for that very imagery. That rush and imagery necessarily gets tangled into the girl that you're turning into an idealistic fetish for arousal.

When you don't get that reward, whether or not you're jerking it or having sex, it's much harder to idealize a girl like that. You're hungry, you're horny for that pussy, but you're not ODing on dopamine and building up reward centers in your brain over it. You get turned on when you're with her and seeing her, but it's just not the same.

Maybe this is total BS but there's a definite difference in the pattern of behavior I'm experiencing right now.

11-15-2016 12:23 AM
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RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - philosophical_recovery - 11-15-2016 12:23 AM