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NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious
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RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious
(09-15-2012 05:32 AM)solo Wrote:  Fuck it I'm starting this. I don't think I've ever gone longer than 1-2 weeks so as an initial challange I'm first setting the goal of 14 days for myself. Tomorrow will count as day one.

I can't remember if I made it to 14 days but I think I made it to 13 and I'm sure I watched some porn though unsure if I fapped before or right after the 14 day mark. So averall mission failed.

I'm still going to draw some tentative conclusions:

- When I stopped fapping/watching porn my will to approach went up. I probably made around 25 day time cold approaches during this time. This leads me to believe that the no fap/porn practise can be an important aspect in Game. I can sometimes feel a strong urge and inspiration to go after hot chicks, but then fap, only for this urge to disappear or be reduced. I suspect it is necessary to stay off the porn and fapping in order to maintain the motivation and discipline.

- I also felt an increased lust for life in general. I think porn and fapping drains you of this in slow motion.

I saw two unwelcome side effects:

-I lowered my standards somewhat which is a bit disappointing looking back as I haven't had the problem of "buyer's remorse" since my heavy drinking days around 10 years ago. I didn't bang anyone though, so not that much harm done really.

-My neediness increased (which was unfortunate since I've made enourmous improvements in these respects in the last year of so).

I think both these side effects may be temporary though, or at least they can be overcome.

Next step is like other have said, to regulate it and keep it at an acceptable "level". If I do another longer challenge I will announce it here, it can't be harmful with accountability I think.
10-05-2012 02:29 PM
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RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - solo - 10-05-2012 02:29 PM