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RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious
Pretty interesting update I have. It's been about a month since I gave up the NoFap ("NF") challenge and jacked off. I've decided I'm going right back to NF, and here's why:

- I'm still relatively indifferent about girls. However, I did let my guard down with the slut. I don't think I would have been as duped while in NF phase.
- My quantity and frequency of sex is still very high, mostly because I'm fucking my roommate so she's always there. However, I'm not happy with that situation to be frank. Kills my ability and desire to go out a bit. Nonetheless I still have brought girls back home, though...
- In this month since giving up NF, I've banged a total of zero new girls. None, zilch. I went from roughly 3.5 new bangs/month to 0. Horrible.
- I'm considerably less aggressive. Admittedly, it is due to the fact that I had two girls on rotation for a lot of the time. But sometimes I could just walk out and go approach some girls and rather chose to stay in and jack off, such as today.
- A little bit more focused on work to be honest.
- Started working out again, but I've actually put on about 5lbs (0% muscle). Need to really get in shape.

The beta thoughts continued on. I was very comfortable with my roommate and just having sex on demand. Many nights I'd give up my ability to mack, though largely it was so my friends could try to bang her friends, in that I'd offer to have our groups meet up but knowing my night would then be over. Previously I was ruthless and would never do that.

Another interesting note - I made this thread exactly one week after giving up on NF. I wonder if my lessened desire also led me to believe I was getting burnt out. I actually never felt that way beforehand.

Take it for what you will, but in my eyes there is no doubt I was much better - game wise at least - during the NF phase. Tomorrow, I start again. Goal is to not stop ever, but to be realistic I'll shoot my sights for once I learn conversational Russian. Considering I don't know any Russian currently, it won't be anytime soon.

(11-20-2012 11:06 AM)slubu Wrote:  Alright, so I went 165 days and decided to end it last night. Immediately I regretted it. I've posted plenty about my attitude/effects during the time span, so I'll focus here on what I was like towards the end:

- The most objectively indifferent and aloof I've ever been towards girls. I honestly could not care less about any of them.
- Most sex I've ever had on a consistent basis. This was towards the end, have two girls on rotation and the occasional SNL here and there.
- Most girls I've banged in a 165 day time span (19 different girls)
- Most aggressive I've ever been in terms of going out and approaching.
- Most scatterbrained I've been with respect to work and desire to work.
- Least I've ever worked out since I started going to the gym 14 years ago.

As soon as I fapped my mind rushed in with tons of beta thoughts for whatever reason. It scared me. I wanted to sleep over one of my rotation girl's places. I wanted to stop going out and be a good guy. Like I literally was being brainwashed.

Obviously I realize that the direct sole variable is not fapping or not fapping, but indirectly it is. I probably had so many bangs because I was so aggressive in going out, but that was because I was not fapping so my only release was through a girl - talk about motivation.

Everyone is different and I realize that what may work for one may not work for others. But this shit worked for me, and worked wonders (absent the lack of motivation for work). Not sure if I'm going to go another 5.5 months or whatever, but I'm definitely not going back to my ways of before (few times a week).
12-18-2012 08:34 PM
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RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - slubu - 12-18-2012 08:34 PM