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RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious
(08-05-2013 06:21 AM)mikado Wrote:  I want some advice.

I have not been laid for 10 months (!!!) , and I always have the need to get some sex. What do I do?
Sure I try gaming almost everyday, but I never get laid -_- By the way the hookup culture with ONS is almost non existent here (Grenoble, France). Almost every time I see two people leaving a bar or making out, they already knew each other. The hookup rate in clubs is not high either (people leave always in massive groups whether at bars, or clubs). It's August, the only club that allowed me to enter this year ( I am a young black not that rich) has closed till September, and the other clubs do not let black people like me enter (sadly this is the truth).
Makeouts are really scarce in the bars (making me wonder whether to go there). It seems like I can't get laid without relying on social circle... Which I admit I did not build last year.
Bars, except for one or 2 in the city, have also become scarce in customers... And the ratio is like 70/30 for men, who never ever let their girlfriends go talk to the lone guy gaming solo (me).
Now, even if I have decided to wait till the freshmen (and women) come, in something like 3 weeks,to construct some massive social circle, tell me please what can I do to avoid this really high frustration from Non hooking up( 10-11 freakin months!!!!!!!! ), if I don't fap Sad

Change some things if it's not working out.

Tune your night game. Are you being aggressive enough, or are you being too aggressive? Are you comfortable going out solo, because to succeed solo you have to be comfortable in your own skin.

Start some daygame. You didn't mention going out of your way to do some day approaches.

Change your focus a bit. Focus more on sports and working out so that you have something else to release your energy.

Besides that, it will come if you put the effort in.

Just look at dryspells as a chance to learn and change up what isn't working.
08-05-2013 07:04 AM
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RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - Nascimento - 08-05-2013 07:04 AM