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RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious
Just hit Day 8 of my own personal No Fap challenge. A few thoughts:

First, I nutted the other day when a fuckbuddy came by to suck my dick. She offered. Couldn't have been a more opportune blowjob. That REALLY took the edge off of this. The level of difficulty between not jacking it, and not being able to nut AT ALL for lack of sexual options, cannot be understated.

Second, besides the physiological and physical effects, I'm beginning to notice some psychological and mental effects as well. For the physiological, blue balls is a very real thing. I thought I could cheat a little and just watch some porn and not Jack it, and I paid the price, a few hours of severe pelvic pain. So porn is out totally, not that it matters--I've been popping random, inopportune boners like a 12 year old in P.E. class. Crazy. Someone mentioned the image of a "police baton swinging between your legs" and that's pretty accurate.

The psychological effects have been largely positive, though. After getting that initial nut off and realizing that yes, I will get to feel orgasm again before I die, a sense of calm has taken over me. It's like what happens when you fast from food for an extended period of time: your body experiences bouts of depression and anxiety, which is a sign of the detox process. I'll have to spend an hour or two in a funk, feeling needy and horny and like sexual shit, and then that mood passes, and I realize it's just my mature self forming a more healthy relationship with sex, and all of the neediness has disappeared. Don't discount the idea that porn use causes the development of undesirable neural pathways. Its almost like I feel myself re-programming.
01-03-2014 12:55 AM
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RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - mattybrews - 01-03-2014 12:55 AM