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NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious
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RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious
lol - I'm out.

Jerked off twice today. I was looking at some images - and couldn't face going to work with a semi. I was in a bad enough mood as it was with the thought of a long day at work ahead of me.

If you count total hours - I reckon I lasted about three and a half days.

I could have gone longer - but the problem is that when you haven't jerked off you become more interested in checking out hot girls. And when that happens it is easy to slip into jerking off.

I am not proud of myself - I could have lasted longer. But it is what it is.

Looking at everything in the round I would say this. The problem isn't jerking off - it is when you jerk off past the point of it even being pleasurable.

Limiting yourself to jerking off once a day - or once every other day is fine. It is when you jerk off 3-4 times in a day, just for the sake of it and because you are bored that it is more of a problem. Since it leaves you with a lethargic feeling for a couple of days afterwards where you are pretty much asexual.

I do think the no-fap thing is interesting. But - in the past day on a couple of occasions I got spasms/cramps in my lower back. And I have never had them before. Pretty weird.

Where no-fap does help is in breaking the porno cycle of looking for harder and harder images/videos. Not just harder images - but endlessly searching for the 'perfect' one. I am not a hardcore porn kinda' guy - but I am somebody who will waste hours looking for the exact video clip to satisfy my particular mood that day. Which is pretty much the same thing.

Usually - the 'What do you consider a 10?' thread would not do anything to me - since I was used to looking at more intense images than the pretty girls in that thread. Yet - over the past 3 days - I became interested in the thread as my brain reset to appreciate more vanilla type images. And I think that is a good thing. Almost like a detox which helps you appreciate the flavour of simple foods which you have overlooked for too long.

My problem isn't fapping. My problem is fapping 3-4 times in a day. Since the last couple of faps are pretty pointless. And that is a habit I would like to get rid of forever. I am not sure how much it would benefit mean going longer with a no-fap to be honest. But it is something I will think about in future - since it is an interesting way of instantly resetting your brain's tastes in sex and porn.

They we are. Just wanted to be straight with you guys - and not bullshit you in a few days time by saying I went a week with no problems.
(This post was last modified: 03-27-2014 01:33 PM by cardguy.)
03-27-2014 01:30 PM
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RE: NoPorn / NoFap Google Group - For Those Who're Serious - cardguy - 03-27-2014 01:30 PM