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The Asian Travel Guide to Asia
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RE: The Asian Travel Guide to Asia
Jesus... I step off the plane after 35 hours of travelling to find another page on the Korean issue?

Anyways, my trip is now at an end and I'm going to put down some details on things that I think I noticed while there. This will also more or less serve as my trip report. I feel comfortable putting it here because it will be specialized to Asian guys, the Phils thread doesn't need one more lay report post cause everyone gets the point already.

In my last post I described myself and mentioned that my appearance basically gave me "stealth" mode when walking around. Since most of this trip was meant more as a first real foray in RP solo travel, I spent most of each day checking out some tourist site or walking around the streets of the city. This was definitely tremendous experience in planning and executing an entire trip alone, with some local input. There were also several rough instances that really helped hone my street smarts and resilience, and for that, I'm glad.

The numbers:
11 full days spent there
3 notches
4 bangs
4 possible additional notches missed due to the utterly fucked logistics of the place...
15 miles walked
29 cabs taken
4 hours lost to traffic

Game on this trip was passive; if I got lays and such, awesome, but that was not the primary intent. It was great in that it allowed me to explore the city and get the vibe of the places unmolested by people, but if I had been gunning for maximum lays and actively gaming, I would have liked to have a non-Asian wingman with me there to draw more prospects in faster.

So far on my game journey overall, my notches have increased substantially post RP not primarily because I've been better at converting neutrals. Rather, I've gotten much better at finding Yes girls, and in the case of non-Asian Western girls, homing in on the Asian culture loving niche with greater effect.

Here it was mostly the same. Two of the girls were dying over my "cuteness" or whatever the fuck that means. Only the other one I would consider a neutral that I converted through successful game running. It was a SDL from a dinner date, pulled back to my place from Greenbelt 5. My approach turned out to be good; but that's not to say that other approaches wouldn't have worked.

My approach was to show that I had some level of Asian cultural familiarity to bridge the ASD gap faster. I mentioned how the Filipino siopao was actually my favorite dimsum dish from Hong Kong, and how I was so glad it was cheap here, similarities in Chinese and Filipino culture (letting her excitedly talk at length about how they're actually intertwined, blah blah...), and displaying more cultural awareness about how life and society works in the country. I think she was a bit surprised to see how much I already perceived and knew about culture there, but that was a major positive for me.

In Asia, we operate in a niche between the foreign and the familiar. Generally, I like to mix talking about America to gently remind her about the fact I'm not from here, (usually in this case remarking on the traffic, the fucking gigantic malls every 30 ft, everything being under construction, etc.), with shared cultural awareness and experience. It is worth noting that in all three cases, taking into account the fact they could have been lying straight to my face, the girls said they were not interested in "those" foreigners, preferring to stay local with their choice of partners.
06-25-2016 01:04 PM
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The Asian Travel Guide to Asia - Zerdame - 02-17-2016, 11:57 AM
RE: The Asian Travel Guide to Asia - Gas - 02-20-2016, 09:00 PM
RE: The Asian Travel Guide to Asia - 262 - 02-22-2016, 06:48 AM
RE: The Asian Travel Guide to Asia - HOD - 02-24-2016, 10:31 AM
RE: The Asian Travel Guide to Asia - JWLZG - 02-22-2016, 06:23 AM
RE: The Asian Travel Guide to Asia - JWLZG - 02-22-2016, 07:10 PM
RE: The Asian Travel Guide to Asia - 262 - 03-07-2016, 04:34 AM
RE: The Asian Travel Guide to Asia - jayko - 03-13-2016, 12:45 PM
RE: The Asian Travel Guide to Asia - HOD - 03-13-2016, 10:38 AM
RE: The Asian Travel Guide to Asia - jayko - 03-13-2016, 12:50 PM
RE: The Asian Travel Guide to Asia - HOD - 03-13-2016, 12:58 PM
RE: The Asian Travel Guide to Asia - jayko - 03-13-2016, 01:09 PM
RE: The Asian Travel Guide to Asia - HOD - 03-13-2016, 01:15 PM
RE: The Asian Travel Guide to Asia - jayko - 03-13-2016, 01:28 PM
RE: The Asian Travel Guide to Asia - HOD - 03-13-2016, 01:34 PM
RE: The Asian Travel Guide to Asia - jayko - 03-13-2016, 01:46 PM
RE: The Asian Travel Guide to Asia - HOD - 03-13-2016, 11:57 AM
RE: The Asian Travel Guide to Asia - HOD - 03-26-2016, 10:45 AM
RE: The Asian Travel Guide to Asia - HOD - 03-27-2016, 11:46 AM
RE: The Asian Travel Guide to Asia - pman - 05-03-2016, 09:36 AM
RE: The Asian Travel Guide to Asia - pman - 05-27-2016, 05:44 AM
RE: The Asian Travel Guide to Asia - HOD - 06-11-2016, 01:28 AM
RE: The Asian Travel Guide to Asia - HOD - 06-11-2016, 09:20 AM
RE: The Asian Travel Guide to Asia - Joeno - 06-12-2016, 04:50 AM
RE: The Asian Travel Guide to Asia - Joeno - 06-17-2016, 07:15 AM
RE: The Asian Travel Guide to Asia - HOD - 06-17-2016, 10:00 AM
RE: The Asian Travel Guide to Asia - jjk - 06-17-2016, 09:44 PM
RE: The Asian Travel Guide to Asia - HOD - 06-17-2016, 11:32 PM
RE: The Asian Travel Guide to Asia - HOD - 06-18-2016, 04:41 AM
RE: The Asian Travel Guide to Asia - Joeno - 06-18-2016, 05:06 AM
RE: The Asian Travel Guide to Asia - HOD - 06-18-2016, 08:16 AM
RE: The Asian Travel Guide to Asia - jj90 - 06-18-2016, 07:47 PM
RE: The Asian Travel Guide to Asia - Joeno - 06-19-2016, 06:28 PM
RE: The Asian Travel Guide to Asia - jjk - 06-19-2016, 09:30 PM
RE: The Asian Travel Guide to Asia - HOD - 06-23-2016, 03:54 AM
RE: The Asian Travel Guide to Asia - swuglyfe - 06-25-2016 01:04 PM
RE: The Asian Travel Guide to Asia - HOD - 06-29-2016, 07:15 PM
RE: The Asian Travel Guide to Asia - Drix - 06-30-2016, 03:00 PM
RE: The Asian Travel Guide to Asia - HOD - 07-05-2016, 08:54 AM
RE: The Asian Travel Guide to Asia - HOD - 07-05-2016, 09:47 AM
RE: The Asian Travel Guide to Asia - jj90 - 07-15-2016, 02:48 PM
RE: The Asian Travel Guide to Asia - HOD - 07-19-2016, 01:30 AM
The Asian Travel Guide to Asia - Drix - 08-22-2016, 12:02 PM
RE: The Asian Travel Guide to Asia - HOD - 08-27-2016, 06:09 PM
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RE: The Asian Travel Guide to Asia - VKdog - 01-20-2017, 08:31 PM
RE: The Asian Travel Guide to Asia - VKdog - 01-20-2017, 08:37 PM
RE: The Asian Travel Guide to Asia - JWLZG - 04-06-2017, 06:09 AM
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