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Do sexy guys really get cold approached by random girls that often?
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RE: Do sexy guys really get cold approached by random girls that often?
(02-06-2019 09:49 AM)[email protected] Wrote:  Yeah a couple of things could be going on (or a mix of all of these):

1. Maybe you're not as good looking as you think? Sounds harsh, but I read somewhere that when we look in the mirror we tend to rate ourselves a point or two higher than what we are. Whatever the case on that, I think it's bullshit anyway because you need to know your self worth and think highly of yourself. If you're a 5, think of yourself as a 7 and go slay. But just know you're no 10.

2. People lie. Females lie about everything, but Males mostly lie to boost their status among other males (and females). They will inflate numbers or stretch the truth. I tend to take these stories with a grain of salt. Until I see it with my own eyes, I always have my reservations. This is just life.

3. Women fear rejection more than Men. Have you ever heard the saying "Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned"? Well, there's a reason why that's a saying. Women can get nasty when they get rejected. Us guys take the loss and move on (or get depressed if you're a simp), but women will react in a number of different ways. And I think they know this. So it really takes a lot for a female to open a guy...especially if she's a 7+. Fatties know they will probably get rejected so they don't have much to lose. And chances are they will just hamster the rejection anyway and stuff their face with comfort food later on.

Unless you're a celeb or a male model, I wouldn't expect women to throw pussy at you every time you go out. If you're above average on looks and have your shit together, it will happen from time to time but probably not as much as you'd like (or think you deserve). At least that's been my experience.

1: Yes, i tend to think this, it would make a lot of sense. I know my looks has decreased ever since i've been bulking for the gym, and am about 17% bodyfat, but i use to be that guy when i was tanned and 12% bodyfat and 19years old that would have girls yell "hey you're cute" out their window of their cars, or be that guy who would have girls hover around you everywhere i went in public swiping their hair. I mean, every girl i look at, they usually look back, even nowadays.
But, maybe these things aren't special at all, and i'm making too big of a deal out of them, thus putting too much pressure on myself to expect girls to be more receptive due to my looks.
Also, i'm 5'10, and I know that's a big reason girls aren't so much into me.

But at the end of the day, i'm not going to discount myself as a guy that has a potential to be a 9/10 in looks until i do everything i can to make myself look optimally attractive, like tan, teeth whitening, 10% bodyfat, ect...

I've never had a real girlfriend, random girls don't approach me the very few times i did go the club, online dating hasn't gone well (but i partly attribute this to weak pictures, however if i was truly attractive id imagine i could get away with shit pictures, and still get laid with hot girls (not whales), and that is not the case for me.).

Idk, these women are probably not into me as much as i hope. A male friend called me ugly yesterday saying i look too feminine, short , and retarded looking. That guy is a fag though
02-06-2019 11:25 AM
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