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Share Of American Adults Having NO Sex Reaches All-Time High
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RE: Share Of American Adults Having NO Sex Reaches All-Time High
(04-19-2019 11:09 PM)Delta Wrote:  Have you ever been really into a chick, but her reciprocation was questionable? Did it drive you insane? Did you find yourself helplessly analyzing her every behavior toward you, trying to figure out whether it was actually going to go anywhere? Wouldn't your life have gotten a whole lot easier had you just come out and explained to her "Hey, I really like you, but I'm not sure how much you like me back, and it's causing me a lot of mental anguish. Can you just tell me exactly how you feel about me?" Man would that have helped put your mind at ease once and for all.

But you didn't. Even a gameless chode wouldn't. Because all men realize that this move would kill any chance they might've had. Now why is that? Any woman would tell you "because it's weird and creepy!" Fine, then all psychologically normal men are weird and creepy, because all psychologically normal men have had these thoughts and feelings. So what's the real reason this candid behavior is so off-putting to women? Because it's not what a psychopath would do.


I've known for a while that women tend to fall in love with psychopaths, but now I finally feel like I've processed and understood that fact. The rest of us are constantly suppressing who we really are (because we have to), and surely some undesirable signs of humanity still unintentionally ooze from our behavior. Psychopaths are the only ones with the luxury of just being themselves around women.

I think you have a really weird idea of what a psychopath is.

Your hypothetical scenario is what a guy who has never seen and learned masculine behaviours from a man would do. No you guys are not psychologically normal men. You are brought up in a world where masculinity is completely demonised, fathers are either absent or pussy-whipped and there is hardly any older male mentor around. Compared to your forefathers, you are not normal, you are severely disadvantaged and incomplete. You are closer to the feminine than the masculine.

The attitude and feelings in your scenario might be common for younger guys these days but definitely not normal. That is what a woman would feel around a man she is deeply attracted to. That is not what a man would feel around a woman he loves.

Women fall in love with men, not guys who haven't figured out their masculinity yet. Masculine men are not psychopaths (or "jerks", as they used to be called), but when masculinity has been demonised for half a century, it can be hard to distinguish for those who have not known it. It does not take much to be called a jerk or psychopath these days, all a man needs to show is a little bit of "toxic masculinity" and he gets called all kinds of names, even from his brothers it seems.

I get it that you are struggling massively with your dating life, but it does not mean that those who succeed are psychopathic while you are the most righteous man under the sun. That attitude itself is not particularly masculine. It's what women are like when they don't get what they want. As for what men would do, read the poem "If" by Rudyard Kipling.

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