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RE: My sister has just died
It sounds like you are mad at your sister and feel like you should be feeling more grief now that she has passed on.

Just so you know, this is not uncommon and a lot of people feel that with people who have frustrated them while they are alive.

There are some who are still mad at people long after they have died.

I would counsel that you shouldn't either beat yourself up or come to any grand conclusions just yet.

Let time take its course and deal with whatever emotions come along when they do.

As you can see, there are so many ways this can go, and it may take time and some unraveling to come to terms with her death and your reaction and your new thoughts on mortality and other big issues.

It's really good that you felt comfortable enough to ask a friend to come all that way to be with you. A lot of guys would just suffer in silence and not want to bother anyone, and it is a sign of mental health to be able to ask for what you need.

Dealing with not only your emotions but your whole family's is a situation that won't be for the faint of heart.

Make sure you have resources and support, not only the forum and friend but whatever counseling and support lines are available in your area.

Obviously, couselors can make things worse, so if you are feeling like you got a bad egg, just leave her and never look back.

Try to find a male counselor who isn't soy.

“That sig BTW is a very asinine anti-family anti-parent quote. You live in a country where 40% of children grow up without a biological father, yet somehow “the greatest burden a child must bear is the unlived life of its parents”? Sorry but this is fruity Boomer nonsense.”

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04-21-2019 04:02 PM
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RE: My sister has just died - JohnKreese - 04-21-2019, 08:44 AM
RE: My sister has just died - Hypno - 04-21-2019, 09:02 AM
RE: My sister has just died - Zep - 04-21-2019, 09:05 AM
RE: My sister has just died - renotime - 04-24-2019, 10:12 AM
RE: My sister has just died - therajraj - 04-21-2019, 09:09 AM
RE: My sister has just died - GT777733 - 04-21-2019, 09:45 AM
RE: My sister has just died - Beirut - 04-21-2019, 10:01 AM
RE: My sister has just died - SlickyBoy - 04-21-2019, 10:21 AM
RE: My sister has just died - doc holliday - 04-21-2019, 10:39 AM
RE: My sister has just died - Roosh - 04-21-2019, 10:52 AM
RE: My sister has just died - nomadbrah - 04-21-2019, 11:17 AM
RE: My sister has just died - kbell - 04-21-2019, 10:58 AM
RE: My sister has just died - debeguiled - 04-21-2019, 11:21 AM
RE: My sister has just died - Soundbyte - 04-21-2019, 11:23 AM
RE: My sister has just died - MrLemon - 04-21-2019, 11:29 AM
RE: My sister has just died - Chetthebaker - 04-21-2019, 11:31 AM
RE: My sister has just died - Akwesi - 04-21-2019, 11:34 AM
RE: My sister has just died - Donfitz007 - 04-21-2019, 12:44 PM
RE: My sister has just died - Zenta - 04-21-2019, 01:31 PM
RE: My sister has just died - Buck Wild - 04-21-2019, 02:25 PM
RE: My sister has just died - TheFinalEpic - 04-21-2019, 02:39 PM
RE: My sister has just died - debeguiled - 04-21-2019 04:02 PM
RE: My sister has just died - trickster - 04-21-2019, 07:33 PM
RE: My sister has just died - JoeSomebody - 04-21-2019, 07:41 PM
RE: My sister has just died - MikeS - 04-21-2019, 08:23 PM
RE: My sister has just died - Rigsby - 04-21-2019, 08:45 PM
RE: My sister has just died - asdfk - 04-21-2019, 10:35 PM
RE: My sister has just died - Greyman - 04-21-2019, 11:55 PM
RE: My sister has just died - Kona - 04-22-2019, 02:33 AM
RE: My sister has just died - pico - 04-22-2019, 02:50 AM
RE: My sister has just died - Goni - 04-22-2019, 04:49 AM
RE: My sister has just died - Zep - 04-22-2019, 06:43 AM
RE: My sister has just died - Zep - 04-22-2019, 07:21 AM
RE: My sister has just died - Zep - 04-22-2019, 09:00 AM
RE: My sister has just died - Bienvenuto - 04-22-2019, 09:18 AM
RE: My sister has just died - Uzisuicide - 04-22-2019, 03:35 PM
RE: My sister has just died - eck - 04-22-2019, 05:50 PM
RE: My sister has just died - Rigsby - 04-22-2019, 07:43 PM
RE: My sister has just died - MdWanderer - 04-22-2019, 08:19 PM
RE: My sister has just died - joost - 04-22-2019, 08:30 PM
RE: My sister has just died - The Grey - 04-23-2019, 05:35 AM
RE: My sister has just died - nairobian - 04-23-2019, 08:07 AM
RE: My sister has just died - ChefAllDay - 04-23-2019, 09:05 AM
RE: My sister has just died - Donfitz007 - 04-23-2019, 10:03 AM
RE: My sister has just died - ArloDash - 04-23-2019, 10:14 AM
RE: My sister has just died - Soothesayer - 04-23-2019, 11:49 AM
RE: My sister has just died - jimukr75 - 04-24-2019, 10:22 AM
RE: My sister has just died - Sgt Donger - 04-23-2019, 07:19 PM
RE: My sister has just died - SassySam - 04-24-2019, 01:25 AM
RE: My sister has just died - BelyyTigr - 04-24-2019, 06:53 AM
RE: My sister has just died - Alpone - 04-25-2019, 07:14 PM
RE: My sister has just died - jimukr75 - 04-26-2019, 03:43 PM
RE: My sister has just died - Filbert - 04-25-2019, 11:20 PM
RE: My sister has just died - Oz. - 04-27-2019, 02:19 PM
RE: My sister has just died - BetaNoMore - 04-27-2019, 06:04 PM
RE: My sister has just died - Geomann180 - 04-29-2019, 12:12 PM
RE: My sister has just died - Aurini - 04-29-2019, 10:54 PM
RE: My sister has just died - Conquistador - 04-30-2019, 12:31 AM
RE: My sister has just died - Zenta - 06-26-2019, 12:27 PM
RE: My sister has just died - SergioRamos - 06-26-2019, 02:16 PM
RE: My sister has just died - pitt - 06-28-2019, 07:20 AM
RE: My sister has just died - Donfitz007 - 06-28-2019, 11:39 AM

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