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RE: My sister has just died
(04-22-2019 05:25 AM)yankeetravels Wrote:  Very sorry for your loss man. It's a painful loss to lose someone particularly our age close to us. Heart goes out to your parents as well, can't imagine it's easy for them to live through something like this.

I didn't lose a sister but I remember at a close relative's wake, an in-law and I were talking and as more of an outsider looking in, he correctly pointed out that the hardest time for those closest to the relative was going to be after the funeral and everybody goes back to their normal lives. I found that to be very accurate. Our family felt the presence missing in family events and holidays after he died. That's when you are going to process this and you need to prepare for that down the road.

Also, maybe avoid traveling for a while. I did and I came to discover I was traveling with a lot of unaired grief and lack of closure, definitely effecting rational decision making at times. It goes back to the above. Sometimes it really doesn't hit you your loved one is gone until months later. It can feel like a bad dream or a weird set of events in some sense.

Anyway man, I'm really sorry about your loss. Death is a cruel mistress at times taking away unexpected people.

I'm trying to stay in the present moment. I just hope I manage to learn whatever lessons there are to learn.

That's not how we do things in Russia, comrade.

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04-22-2019 05:40 AM
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