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When people say being a nice guy is bad, what do they mean?
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RE: When people say being a nice guy is bad, what do they mean?
Even if you're a good looking "nice" guy then lasting attraction will dry up when a woman finally senses that she cannot commit your good graces to herself primarily.

In biological terms she's not interested in a guy that will "waste" an unreasonable amount of resources on people that aren't her or her kids. Husbands and fathers will have experienced this female drive in even the most characteristically benevolent wife from time to time.

John from down the road helps you out several times but when the time comes to return the favor she starts asking why he can't sort his own problems out.

This is unfortunately a female drive for which there is no simple solution and as women gain more power in society the civilised reciprocal behaviour of men required to keep society running smoothly is increasingly maligned in the relationship market.

When a woman says she wants a nice guy what she means is she wants a guy that will be nice to her but be ready to slit the throat of the guy who cut her off when he merged on to the freeway.

God demands of Man responsibility. God demands of Woman vulnerability. These are their curse and blessing alike. Libertianism is to Man as Feminism is to Woman.
(This post was last modified: 10-21-2019 11:52 PM by Leonard D Neubache.)
10-21-2019 11:45 PM
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RE: When people say being a nice guy is bad, what do they mean? - Leonard D Neubache - 10-21-2019 11:45 PM

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