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When people say being a nice guy is bad, what do they mean?
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RE: When people say being a nice guy is bad, what do they mean?
(11-12-2019 07:52 AM)Sensei Creation Wrote:  The average women's ideal mate is combination of both.

They DO want the nice guy who listens to what they say and is attentive etc etc

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The niceness isn't the differeciating factor. Women want nice guys.

Very few woman want someone who doesn't make them laugh, has no humour, takes themselves too seriously, who straight up disrespects them verbally or generally is a nasty person.

So be a nice guy, just don't be a "nice guy".

WRONG!

They do NOT want a nice guy. They just don't want a guy with ZERO niceness in him (although some broken women will still go for this)

(11-12-2019 07:52 AM)Sensei Creation Wrote:  Very few woman want someone who doesn't make them laugh, has no humour, takes themselves too seriously, who straight up disrespects them verbally or generally is a nasty person.

WRONG!

The above statement is NOT the antithesis of a nice guy. A guy who is not a "nice guy" can still have humor and not take themselves crazy seriously. Just like a guy who is not a "nice guy" can be a rough/rude person, very direct, very unapologetic and still be VERY attractive to women.

You are fundamentally misunderstanding what women mean when they want a nice guy. They want a decent guy, an INTERESTING guy, not a doormat/people pleaser.

There's a huge divide between doormat/people pleaser and what women are attracted to. Then there's a far smaller divide between that and a complete asshole/psychopath.

You can't really be a "nice guy" putting yourself first. It doesn't mean you have to be a psychopath, but you have to be FAR from a nice guy to truly put yourself first.

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