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RE: Gold digger experiment
(10-31-2011 10:11 AM)Roosh Wrote:  ...But a lot of guys have a line with chicks who want "sponsorship" where you're basically paying for a whore. If she starts expecting shit in order to put out, I have to bow out. Maybe I'll relax this line when I get older (I'm sure I'll have to), but even if I was rich now I don't think I could play that sponsorship game, even if that meant my quality was a bit less.

The skilled girls (of which, there are many) are subtle enough not to straight up ask you for cash, but to set the situation up so that you VOLUNTEER your money and feel great about it at the same time. Essentially, they will put you in a situation where your cash can make her happy, or it can take away her pain.

The obvious example is the girl who comments on how much she likes a certain pair of shoes, or dress,or iphone. She NEVER asks you for it, but you figure out pretty quickly that this will make her happy, so you pick it up.

A much more effective strategy is to take away her pain. You are dating some chick, and she tells you how horrible her day went because she thinks she will have to drop out of school because she doesn't have the money. As men, we are problem solvers by nature, so we probe further and find out that her tuition is a pittance, but she is broke.

The natural inclination would be to "help" your girlfriend out with money that is really trivial to you (maybe you are rich, or she is in a third world country) but would mean the world to her. You give her the money, and she gives you the praise that lets you know that YOU are her savior and were the only one that could help her like that.

One, variation on the above theme include doing something that you believe will make it easier for you to get laid. For example, your girlfriend talks about how she can't spend the night with you or spend too much time with you because she lives with her mother, and she must live under her mother's rules. Obvious solution is to get her an apartment where the two of you can hook up regularly.

A more insidious technique is to put an indirect threat of another guy in your face (though in a manner where she is not to blame). This one happened to a buddy of mine in Colombia. Imagine you have has this girlfriend, but then she starts complaining that her boss is making sexual advances toward her and she doesn't know what to do. Maybe you play white knight and offer to talk to/threaten/beat up the boss. She tells you that you cannot do this because she will lose her job. You tell her to quit and find a new job. She tells you how tough the economy is and that it could be months before she finds a new one.

Then she just looks depressed and explains that she will probably have to just put up with it. Perhaps she throws in a few stories of her coworkers sleeping with the boss. Your brilliant solution is to tell her to quit, and that you will "help her out" with her bills while she looks for a new job. She is so grateful, because now she doesn't have to worry about being harassed (and you don't have to worry about the boss fucking your girlfriend).

I know a ton of guys that are in some variant of the above relationships.
10-31-2011 01:59 PM
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Gold digger experiment - Hooligan Harry - 10-31-2011, 01:57 AM
RE: Gold digger experiment - endobendo - 10-31-2011, 07:58 AM
RE: Gold digger experiment - babelfish669 - 10-31-2011, 03:27 PM
RE: Gold digger experiment - Luckystar - 10-31-2011, 08:42 AM
RE: Gold digger experiment - Roosh - 10-31-2011, 10:11 AM
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