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RE: Gold digger experiment
(10-31-2011 06:29 PM)Vacancier Permanent Wrote:  I was browsing the site out of curiosity and when I saw this, I couldn't believe the arrogance of that cunt!
http://www.seekingarrangement.com/detail.php?id=680523

"I am seeking a gentleman pamper me. Currently, I am seeking immediate assistance. To be frank, I will only consider a SD who is willing to provide an allowence to cover the costs of travel, tuition, rent, and living costs. Sorry, I just do not wish to waste anyone's precious time! In return, I can provide meaningful companionship and become a longterm confidant and caring friend as well.I will not consider being contracted for illicit sex. Sorry, that is not for me. Let's face it, the less you expect/demand it, the more likely it may happen."

Holly shit, is this the typical decent, not fatty american girl's attitude? Unreal!

Oh, it is very real.

Note how this isn't some low-rent hoodrat from the projects or the trailer park-she's an educated, middle class girl about to obtain a degree from a respected University.

These girls are in the Ivy League too. Same demands, same standards, regardless of their level of education. They come here with a plan, and make a bee-line for the shortest route to status.

For some, that means becoming sugar-babies in their spare time, having arrangements with guys off-campus. For others, it means becoming groupies for the lacrosse team. For still others, it means bee-lining it straight to a particular national fraternity the minute you hit campus and fraternizing until you get a chance to hook an alum (who is either already working on Wall Street or is at some elite grad school) on homecoming or any other event.

If you don't fit any of these bills as a guy (and 98% of dudes don't), good luck cracking those nuts. The sugar daddy and/or the alum returning on homecoming has a much lower bar to climb over. She'll throw herself at him and make herself clearly available, even while playing the tease with your relatively broke undergraduate self. You'll be climbing Everest as he marches up a bunny slope.

Unless your game is on a masterful level, you will not break through this. The power of game is weakened significantly in the presence of this social-climbing mindset with women. You might see this dynamic and beat yourself up ("damn, his game must just be way tighter! I gotta work on mine!") when in fact you never really had a chance. You won't game your way around older dudes with tangible markers of status these women value-that guy has a leg up over you every single time.

Hooligan Harry was right when he said that deep down, women recognize the centrality of their looks and youth to their value. College has been very informative for me in that I've had the pleasure of witnessing many attractive (solid 8+) girls who take this mantra to heart. They put their sexuality on total lock down and demand a very high price for it. No man stands a snowball's chance in Antigua without meeting said price, and they cut no discounts (read: they will not casually hook up or put out for any guy, even if they're attracted, without commitment from him and his having some real, tangible status).

They waste ZERO time beginning this process-it starts the minute they hit campus, and doesn't end until they either have a ring or pass their prime.

I tried to date a girl like this back in my early college days. I failed, of course, but didn't figure out why until later. It is all calculated-these girls have a plan to climb the ladder, and their sexuality is main currency to buy access further up. They don't offer it to men who can't bring them there, even if they like them-no exceptions. In some cases, these girls' mothers have been drilling this mantra of upward mobility into their heads since they hit puberty, and I don't blame them. Its a smart move.

In effect, though, if you're not a guy worthy of receiving their sexual currency, you'll see things quite like Wale does here:

Quote:Look, she so stingy with vagina
But why it open when them niggas get to shining?

A lot of the dudes on campus will sit there thinking these girls don't put out at all. They actually do, for the right price. Flash the right business card, grad school degree or fraternity membership in front of them and the rules change completely. Its like plugging a cheatcode into the PS2-shit just works automatically( so long as you're not completely gameless and do not resemble Quasimodo).

I'm not even mad. I'll sit out the show for now as I'm just a young, broke guy at the bottom of the totem pole, "paying those dues", so to speak. I simply am not capable of accessing girls like this yet. But I'm going to get mine...the time will come.

Its like the sig says...

Quote:You lose money chasing women, but you never lose women chasing money.

Stay focused and rest assured, women will follow. There is nothing they love more than the almighty dollar.

You lose money chasing women, but you never lose women chasing money.
11-01-2011 01:20 AM
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Gold digger experiment - Hooligan Harry - 10-31-2011, 01:57 AM
RE: Gold digger experiment - endobendo - 10-31-2011, 07:58 AM
RE: Gold digger experiment - babelfish669 - 10-31-2011, 03:27 PM
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