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Best possible lifestyle setups
Quick question:

Does anyone have a lifestyle/access to an environment that makes it very easy to get the ladies?


Last summer I was working promoting a skydiving resort and I have never before or since had things so easy. They had new people camping over every night and it was as simple as a 5 minute chat with some game by the campfire and then straight back to the trailer for some fun. Since I won’t be doing it again because it is not well paid (still had an epic summer) I am asking what else has worked for people. Like does anyone here own a nightclub or a café, run yoga classes, teach kite boarding, work as a photographer and get a lot of girls with very little effort.


I am trying to start combining different areas of my life to maximize results. For example why go to the gym by yourself when you could get paid to teach yoga, still stay in shape and also get some tail out of it. At the moment I can’t teach yoga but I have started going instead of doing gym by myself. The result- Lots of potential to game will I get in shape in a target rich environment. In a few years I want to have different areas like business, health and social activities overlap to provide extra benefits.


Curious to see what people have to say about this and provide any examples of success…
(This post was last modified: 02-12-2012 10:25 AM by Atlantic.)
02-12-2012 10:24 AM
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RE: Best possible lifestyle setups
Quote:How To Date A Supermodel

You take your laptop and go work out of cafes across the street from a photography studio or agency where supermodels work. You need to be where they are and then say hello to them sometimes. That’s pretty much it.

I've seen a lot of talk about 'lifestyle game,' but in my own life, it isn't very effective. It's great for making you more interesting, but not actually for getting pussy. I'm sure some guys are going to chime in about how I'm doing it wrong, I don't know what I'm talking about, etc. so I'd like to hear how to do it right. The main flaw with the lifestyle shtick is that if there's no pussy around, everything else is irrelevant. Hell, it basically didn't happen. Eg "if a tree falls, and there's no one there to hear it, it doesn't make a sound." I've tried out different cool hobbies, I've seen the guys doing it, and none are scoring much ass from it, if only because there is no ass there to be had.

What do young cute girls do? They go out to drink, they eat, they travel, some work out, they shop, they hang out with friends. If you can get some sort of position relating to those things, then you'll score. I'd love to have something like this. Any niche or gimmick that has girls coming to you, entering your sphere, for whatever reason, is going to make it much more fun and relaxed to meet girls. Seems like the most common solution is having the right job. If you've got a decent job, what are you going to do in your off-time to get something similar?

Most of the times I've investigated getting into something cool, I've found a bunch of dudes and maybe a couple girls. And you'd be lucky if they were cute and single. It's like when I was in college, I'd check out the student groups to see if there was any interesting clubs that also had pussy potential. Overwhelmingly, the pattern was a bunch of dudes, some girls, and the one cute one already had a boyfriend. The one who was into you was mediocre, and you didn't want to poison the pipeline by banging an ugly girl.
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02-12-2012 12:14 PM
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I knew a muay thai / MMA fighter who lived in Koh Samui and survived off his poker earnings.

He partied up with Swedish chicks all the time, made dough online, and was basically living the life.

That PUA Johnny Wolf was getting laid by being a scuba instructor at a different Thai island, same sort of situation.
02-12-2012 12:18 PM
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Irishman,

I like the way you think.

I've had success as a bartender and waiter. Quite a few easy notches. I've also worked at a few colleges, which gave me some more easy notches.

I'm currently trying to set up my lifestyle in a similar way. I want to spend my time doing things that bring me happiness, money, and women - simultaneously!

I wish my parents would have left me some prime commercial real estate in downtown San Francisco. Those trust fund kids have the best lifestyle, money is not an issue!
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02-12-2012 02:18 PM
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- A job/business that gives you frequent opportunities to meet and network with interesting people.

- A steady stream of income that does not requires your physical presence.

- A living arrangement that places you right in the middle of your main activities.

- Lots of "free" time to pursue your interests.

- Lots of interests to pursue.

- Healthy eating and exercise habits.

- Healthy game and social skills that allow you to meet and have the kind of women that you like, whenever you feel like it.
02-13-2012 10:21 PM
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Irishman,

I'm busy reading a book called 'Cutting Confidential' by a celebrity hairdresser writing under the pseudonym Shaun Lockes. I thought you might like this passage, since it pertains to your question (I abridged it to make it a quick read):

"...Let's face it, before I married I was shagging half my clients. It was a great way to meet loads of up-for-it women ... It's definitely one of the major advantages of choosing hairdressing as a career.
"...Hairdressing is a great job - being paid to make women feel great about themselves and being revered and praised for my creativity isn't a bad way to earn a living.
"...(Some women) want to fancy their hairdresser and enjoy some sexual chemistry while they sit in the salon.
"...There is no other profession or service, other than medical ones, where you touch a client as intimately as we do. The head, scalp and neck are all erogenous zones, so touching these 'off-limits' areas can create a sexual frission, which keeps many a handsome stylist fully booked the way cutting technique alone can't ... Somebody who can make hair fabulous has to hold a little sexual appeal.
"...As my father pointed out, it's recession-proof. In difficult times, hairdressing rarely suffers as badly as other retail professions."



I'm not sure if I'd quit what I'm doing to sit around inhaling vapourised liquid plastic and bleach fumes, but it sounds like the job very much comes with the benefits you're looking for.
02-14-2012 03:57 AM
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(02-12-2012 12:14 PM)basilransom Wrote:  I've seen a lot of talk about 'lifestyle game,' but in my own life, it isn't very effective. It's great for making you more interesting, but not actually for getting pussy. I'm sure some guys are going to chime in about how I'm doing it wrong, I don't know what I'm talking about, etc. so I'd like to hear how to do it right. The main flaw with the lifestyle shtick is that if there's no pussy around, everything else is irrelevant. Hell, it basically didn't happen. Eg "if a tree falls, and there's no one there to hear it, it doesn't make a sound." I've tried out different cool hobbies, I've seen the guys doing it, and none are scoring much ass from it, if only because there is no ass there to be had.

What do young cute girls do? They go out to drink, they eat, they travel, some work out, they shop, they hang out with friends. If you can get some sort of position relating to those things, then you'll score. I'd love to have something like this. Any niche or gimmick that has girls coming to you, entering your sphere, for whatever reason, is going to make it much more fun and relaxed to meet girls. Seems like the most common solution is having the right job. If you've got a decent job, what are you going to do in your off-time to get something similar?

Most of the times I've investigated getting into something cool, I've found a bunch of dudes and maybe a couple girls. And you'd be lucky if they were cute and single. It's like when I was in college, I'd check out the student groups to see if there was any interesting clubs that also had pussy potential. Overwhelmingly, the pattern was a bunch of dudes, some girls, and the one cute one already had a boyfriend. The one who was into you was mediocre, and you didn't want to poison the pipeline by banging an ugly girl.

Good feedback man but I respectfully disagree. During my time at college I was running a kayak and windsurfing club. I managed to get quite a few notches by having good game and being in a high value position. Problem is what happens in College doesn’t always reflect real life afterwards. You’re definitely right: It is hard to find the right groups that contain high number amounts of quality pussy and it just as hard to gain access to these groups.


As I have left college I have found it a lot harder to find and join such groups or social circles. As most people on this forum would have the general goals of money, health and game I am trying to see where people have found areas that work synergistically. An example would be instead of going running by yourself (health benefits) you start doing spinning classes ( game potential and health benefits).


Is anyone catching my drift? Instead of looking at investing in Gold or Facebook stocks look at investing in something that also provides other benefits like owning a hair salon (just going off the above posts example which is pretty cool).


It’s just a theory I am trying apply as I start to build my ideal lifestyle. What areas, and how many, can I overlap to provide multiple benefits? I will be starting soon in the Canada Oil Industry (thanks to Scotians posts) which won’t provide much game opportunity. But rest assured once I start using that money to start businesses I will be looking to maximise social leverage and health benefits out of them all.


It is something I have seen a lot while travelling: People with limited resources, but who have used what they have to create an environment with large amounts of ladies coming to them. I knew an English overnight tour boat owner in New Zealand who got a lot of ass because he ran the show and provided all these good emotions for scuba diving, swimming with dolphins etc. He also made a lot of money from these tourists. Plus it’s super healthy swimming around all day and working. It’s a perfect combination of health, wealth and game. I am happy with my level of game but when I am not travelling I want a lifestyle where I don’t have to chase pussy, it’s just shows up. And hopefully also provides me with financial benefits lol. Examples of the top of my head: Tattoo artist, club owner, hairdresser, café owner, yoga instructor, gym instructor, travel guide and so on.


Something that really worked in college was a dinner group where everyone cooked for each other once every two weeks. Basically 10 people take it in turns to cook for each other. Worked perfectly: lots of hot girls to game every night, when it’s your turn you can show off your flat and cooking abilities, cheaper than cooking every night yourself and easy to stay back afterwards plus you’re already at her place. Got some serious talent out of that little scheme haha. Unfortunately things like this are harder to do after College.

(02-12-2012 12:14 PM)basilransom Wrote:  Most of the times I've investigated getting into something cool, I've found a bunch of dudes and maybe a couple girls. And you'd be lucky if they were cute and single.

You are right. Lots of existing groups have either well protected or very limited resources. What I think is needed is discussion on here as to good ideas or already existing examples of making your own groups or social circles. As you said it’s probably easier to just find the right job but if you have the money or knowhow you can just create that same or a better job tailored to your own goals.


Would like to see what is already working for the members here or any good ideas going around…
(This post was last modified: 02-15-2012 04:53 PM by Atlantic.)
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I agree with basil.

I'm probably more "interesting" than 90% of guys with my experiences and what not, but since my job doesn't put me in direct daily contact with horny women, I have to move my ass to get laid.

If your lifestyle is super interesting, that's great, but you still need game.

If your lifestyle is being a bartender at a popular bar, but you're not interesting, you don't need game.

When guys say "lifestyle game" I wonder if they mean being a well-rounded person who is cultured, intelligent, experienced, and what not, or if they mean being an ocean lifeguard.

For the former, it doesn't matter how awesome you are if you're not talking to women. It's not like they're going to line up just because.

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Being a bartender is good. Owning a bar is better.

Own the bar: you just DHV'd the fuck out of yourself. Once you own the bar, your job is basically to make money partying. So you learn about liquor, you mingle, network, figure out where shit's at, and you get invited to special events since you're in the industry. You get to jump queues, preferential treatment, etc. etc.

It is HARD work if you start a bar yourself, but if you know what you're doing, well...

A year from now you'll wish you started today
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Get a side hustle that doesn't (necessarily) earn much, but puts you in contact with lots of single girls.

Speed dating is catching on huge right now.

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