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(03-12-2012 11:12 AM)el mechanico Wrote:  And she drinks that skunk brew. Look behind her. Deal killer right there.

Who the hell could wake up next to chick with knees like that? Almost as bad as man hands.
03-12-2012 11:25 AM
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(03-12-2012 11:25 AM)worldwidetraveler Wrote:  
(03-12-2012 11:12 AM)el mechanico Wrote:  And she drinks that skunk brew. Look behind her. Deal killer right there.

Who the hell could wake up next to chick with knees like that? Almost as bad as man hands.
The mens room blowjob odometer rolled over on those knees. Would not hit.

Laugh
03-12-2012 11:42 AM
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(03-12-2012 11:12 AM)el mechanico Wrote:  
(03-12-2012 11:05 AM)Samseau Wrote:  
(03-11-2012 10:23 PM)Skyhigh Wrote:  [email protected] those saying he is a beta. How many betas do you know get women like this? He is an unattractive Asian dude who got a Blonde who at worst is a 6-7. He did well for himself and outkicked his coverage which game is supposed to do.

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You're impressed by a guy who marries an over-the-hill gold-digger?


Remember, this is marriage we're talking about. If Papa picked up her up one night for a bang, I would have no objections.

But for marriage, this woman is a disaster. She's too old, and probably has a killer agenda.
And she drinks that skunk brew. Look behind her. Deal killer right there.

Before you mentioned it I did not even realize that there was a background.
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03-12-2012 02:19 PM
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The guy met a girl, took her on vacation to $everal different countrie$, and then propo$ed to her.

Anyone even remotely defending him can turn in his player card.

(Or, far more likely, is only a player on the Internet.)
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(03-11-2012 10:53 PM)Samseau Wrote:  Never did I imply or say this; it's more like I would see her and my kids 70% of the time with my free time.

That gonna be an interesting family. "Yes, honey, he is your daddy, but he doesn't live with us because he wants to also fuck other girls". Really, would you love to have this kind of "dad" yourself?

Not to mention that you gonna pay the rent for two apartments instead of one as well as the daycare (by the way do you have any idea how much it costs?). You'll have to pay for two different health insurance plans since you're not married to her so you cannot include her and kids into your plan. You better come up with some real dough.

Quote:Yep, you don't know why I'm a high value man yet you assume I'm not a high value man.
But I am a high value man, and the girls I fuck all tell me this. Your internet opinion is devoid of reality.

Because I don't think you are. But I guess we define "high value" differently. Your argument actually confirms it. Obviously the "girl you fuck" would tell you that, I can't imagine a chick who'd admit she's fucking a low value man nobody else wants. It is the same as asking your subordinates to rate you as a boss. This is a pretty shitty criteria, and your reliance on it indicates that your value is not as high as you pretend it is.

If you need to base your value on girl's opinion, at least base it on those girls who will not fuck you. Otherwise you're just fooling yourself.

Quote:Have you ever had a girl fall in love with you before?
She'll be sending you texts and phone calls every day. She'll tell you she can't stop thinking about you, that she can't wait to see you, etc.

And how long would it last? Three months, six months. A year at max, but at that intensity it won't last that long. Even the neediest girl in the world

Quote:Once she falls in love with you, the relationship is a joke to maintain. Just feed her the bare minimum amount of attention to keep her coming back for more. Sleep with other women when you get the chance. It's easy as shit.

Have you actually had any relationship besides FWB in your life, and for how long? The way you describe it I really doubt it as you seem to be completely unaware of the issues you have to deal with in the relationship. Not to mention I don't see how you plan to give her "bare minimum of attention" while seeing her "70% of your free time" as you stated above.

Quote:By the way, you seem to think top 5% of women is difficult bracket of women to fuck - but it's not.

What I said they are notoriously difficult to KEEP. This is because the attention span of a young and very attractive chick is very short. This is not the type of a girl who'd be staying at home alone Saturday night dreaming she'd be with you while you're out hunting for more chicks to fuck. She'll be out in a club with her friends bombarded by all the male attention and free drinks she could get, and maybe fuck one of them in the parking lot.

Which ends up with the question you carefully have been ignoring all the time: in this kind of scenario she's going to fuck other guys as well. Are you ok with that or not?

Quote:Top 5% is very attainable for most men. Get one of those girls to fall in love with you, and see if she keeps chasing you for a 3-4 years. If you get that, you've got mother material.

And here's where you got a problem. What if you don't get that, and she only chased you for one year? You've lost one year of your life. What if she chased you for 4 years, but she's now an average 25yo instead of being a cute 21yo?

But still this is completely irrelevant for a relationship, as it says absolutely nothing about our compatibility. It is a very common story when the people dated for a while, then moved in together and then broke in just a few weeks. Nor I see how it makes her "mother material" as it definitely doesn't indicate she'd gonna be a good mother. I'm not even saying that she might pretend she's into you, have the kid from you, and then kick you out and live off the child support partying on your money while her mom takes care of the kid.
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(03-12-2012 10:49 PM)oldnemesis Wrote:  And how long would it last? Three months, six months. A year at max, but at that intensity it won't last that long. Even the neediest girl in the world

Not true.

When a woman loves a man, she really loves him.

It's impossible to explain.
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I have to agree with oldnemesis. It's one thing to game a hot girl into your bed. It is another entirely to maintain her for the long run, and moreover, convince her to be the mother of your children when you are not only NOT offering marriage, but not even cohabitation. A hot girl will have many men offering her a better deal.

Yes, a woman can be head over heels in love, but that kind of ignore-all-practicalities sort of love does not last forever. After she has that baby, she will be different and what she wants from her man will change somewhat.

I think the only realistic way to pull off what Samseau is describing is to be rich, in addition to having good game. Really rich. But even then, to expect her to never cheat is unrealistic. I banged some woman who is the mistress of some fat cat. The way she talked about him, you could tell she was deeply in love with him. Why did she cheat? Because he wasn't around a lot (he had a family to attend to) and I happened to be in the right place at the right time saying the right things to a lonely girl. And my game is mediocre at best.

If you are in the type of arrangement Samseau is describing, the woman will forever be in fear that you will abandon her for a younger hotter girl, no matter what you say to the contrary. You expect that she won't have a contingency plan (i.e., finding and banging some dude, maybe even a responsible, financially secure beta, who she thinks will be there to save her should you leave)? Remember, sex is a currency for women. They will use it to ensure their and their offsprings surivival - this is a higher priority than love.
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As someone who has had a couple of hiatuses from game during my lifetime to get into LTRs I must say that the type of game normally discussed on this board will not carry a relationship alone.

There's other types of game though that will make it work such as Major Mark and Ross Jeffries "Building a better girlfriend" which deals with illiciting a women's values and meeting them. This is something you won't do by just trying to be "alpha" though. It requires real work and common ground. Anyone thinking that a (good quality) woman will stick around with someone fucking on the side and watching tv all day - as long as he shows 'who's the man', is delusional.
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Quote:If you need to base your value on girl's opinion, at least base it on those girls who will not fuck you. Otherwise you're just fooling yourself.

How about I base it on the opinion of all the girls I don't fuck? The ones who all stare at me when I walk into a room but never receive any attention from me. Do they count?

Your argument that I can't base my value on the girls I fuck is like saying a business cannot judge it's success by the amount and quality of customers it has. Completely ridiculous.

Honestly, when you drop comments as ridiculous as this I think you're actually a woman posting in disguise. Really, I've only seen women with perspectives and views such as yours.

Quote:Not to mention that you gonna pay the rent for two apartments instead of one as well as the daycare (by the way do you have any idea how much it costs?). You'll have to pay for two different health insurance plans since you're not married to her so you cannot include her and kids into your plan. You better come up with some real dough.

My apartment will be a small room in a city somewhere. I will not pay more than 1k per month for it. I'll rent out the spare rooms on a sublet and keep things simple. My apartment will make me money, if I do it right.

Most of my time, I'll sleep with my main lady. Every once in a while, I'll leave late at night to go sleep in my apartment "so I don't need to sit in traffic the next morning". If she asks about the apartment, I'll tell her it's so we won't be included under cohabitation laws.

The apartment will also be there in case I get into an argument with my wife and need a place to leave her. I will be able to use it to cheat on her if necessary.

Health insurance... lol. She'll get an awesome plan as a single mother from the government and I'll pay for my own.

You guys think you need to be rich to pull this off. Wrong. This works better if you're poor. Being poor = win in socialist feminist Amerika. But if I make it big and make $$$, I'll still be okay.


Quote:What I said they are notoriously difficult to KEEP. This is because the attention span of a young and very attractive chick is very short. This is not the type of a girl who'd be staying at home alone Saturday night dreaming she'd be with you while you're out hunting for more chicks to fuck. She'll be out in a club with her friends bombarded by all the male attention and free drinks she could get, and maybe fuck one of them in the parking lot.

So wrong. Attractive and young girls are some of the most likely types of girls to pine away for me while I'm out hunting for new girls on a Saturday night. A young girl in love can be surrounded by men and ignore all of them if there's another guy she's in love with. I've seen it a hundred times, and experienced it a few times myself.

Are you sure you aren't a woman? Because any player would know this.

When a woman's in love, she'll go batshit crazy for that guy. She'll be texting him nonstop, asking him if she can see him that night, asking who he's with, where he's at, etc. etc. This is true mainly of the young ones, as older girls are more realistic about how men will cheat. Young ones aren't as jaded and listen to their emotions.

Young girls are difficult to keep not because they don't respond to alpha behavior, but because they'll drop you [ii]the moment[/i] the alpha behavior stops.

Old women, being undesirable, don't give a shit if they get alphas anymore. They'll be happy with anyone who has money.

Young girls know they can get alphas, and so they want an alpha. If you don't provide them with the alpha tingles, they'll dump your ass and fuck a new alpha in under a week. The challenge with young girls is not slipping into beta behavior, which is easy to do when you're making love to a 21 yr old with big eyes, a tight ass, a melodic voice, soft hair and skin, and a soaking wet vagina every night. (Like the girl I fucked last night)


So, to refute your point; a young girl will be MORE turned on by me not being there with her on a Saturday night, because it will increase her anxiety for me and thus make her want to see me. Going out on a Sat night without a girl is alpha, and young girls want the alpha.

As she falls in love with me and demands more and more of my time, I'll give it to her. Once a month I'll give myself a Saturday to go out "with my buddies" and try to score. On other "slow" nights of the week like Wednesday or Tuesday, guess what? I can still go out on those nights and get laid too.


Quote:And here's where you got a problem. What if you don't get that, and she only chased you for one year? You've lost one year of your life. What if she chased you for 4 years, but she's now an average 25yo instead of being a cute 21yo?

This also sounds like projection from a woman.

I'm not "losing my years of my life" when I date a woman, for three reasons.

1. I'll always be dating girls on the side.

2. I'll get more attractive as I age for the next 10 years.

3. You have it backwards. I'm not investing years of my life into her, she's investing years of her life into me. She's getting uglier by the day, she has more to lose the longer she stays with me.

She's with me for 4 years and decides to leave me? I win, she loses.

I'll have taken the most attractive years of her life, and I'll be in great shape to get a new girl because my game will be sharp from dating on the side. I'll have more money and life experience to boot. My dating options will be huge.

Since I enjoy dating new women, and since, as a high value man, there's basically unlimited options for me, I could give two shits if a girl dumps me. It just means more fucking with new girls, which is probably one of the greatest pleasures I know.


Realistically, a woman who's with my player ass for four years will have put up with the following for four years:

- Someone who isn't available for more than five nights a week.
- Someone who constantly receives attention from the opposite gender.
- Someone who gives her nightly orgasms.
- Someone all her friends love and admire.

A girl who dumps me after four years will be absolutely devastated, because she's now uglier than she was before and probably be unable to get the same quality of boyfriend she once had.

The much better question to ask: Why would I stay with any one woman for four years? She'd better be someone special.

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(03-12-2012 10:58 PM)MikeCF Wrote:  Not true.
When a woman loves a man, she really loves him.
It's impossible to explain.

Are you sure it applies to the type of girl we're talking about here?
Got any real life examples?
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(03-13-2012 11:04 AM)Samseau Wrote:  How about I base it on the opinion of all the girls I don't fuck? The ones who all stare at me when I walk into a room but never receive any attention from me. Do they count?

They would only count for a beta, but not for an apparent "alpha with tight game" you claim you are. With so many girls staring at you you obviously gonna choose the best looking one to have sex with. So why would you base your value on those less attractive poor souls who're not going to have a chance with you anyway?

BTW, vast majority of businesses do not care about quality of customers at all. McDonalds has no issues serving ex-cons and child molesters.

Quote:Honestly, when you drop comments as ridiculous as this I think you're actually a woman posting in disguise. Really, I've only seen women with perspectives and views such as yours.

This is because you have a very limited life experience and learning everything from other wannabe alphas like roissy. This lack of life experience combined with lack of abstract thinking power makes your brain work in a binary mode - there are only two opinions, one is yours and another one is wrong. But it is fine, sooner or later you'll grow up and understand that the world is much complex than you think, and it cannot be fit into the patterns as you're trying to do.

At the same time you argue like a girl. Instead of using the logic and stand behind your opinion you change the topic every time you don't have an answer, and avoid answering the questions. And it is hard to take what you say seriously when you swing like that.


For example, here are the two important questions you have repeatedly avoided to answer:

- Are you ok with the fact that your girl will fuck some other dude at the side?

- How long your longest relationship with the kind of woman you describe lasted? Very often when you talk about relationships you say utter nonsense, which is obvious to anyone with even a few years relationship experience.


Quote:Most of my time, I'll sleep with my main lady. Every once in a while, I'll leave late at night to go sleep in my apartment "so I don't need to sit in traffic the next morning". If she asks about the apartment, I'll tell her it's so we won't be included under cohabitation laws.

Same here. Did you ever try to rent an apartment before and sublet it? This is a really shitty way to make money. And by use of the term in this context it is clear you do not even know what the "cohabitation laws" actually mean.

Quote:Health insurance... lol. She'll get an awesome plan as a single mother from the government and I'll pay for my own.

Then the government will sue you for the child support if the mother receives any government benefit. I assume you're ok with that?

Quote:You guys think you need to be rich to pull this off. Wrong. This works better if you're poor. Being poor = win in socialist feminist Amerika. But if I make it big and make $$$, I'll still be okay.

The only way you won't get screwed at all is if you're homeless and your only income comes from the government. And if you're poor you'll get screwed much worse. Quarter of 20K leaves you with 15K; quarter of 100K leaves you with 75K.

Quote:So wrong. Attractive and young girls are some of the most likely types of girls to pine away for me while I'm out hunting for new girls on a Saturday night. A young girl in love can be surrounded by men and ignore all of them if there's another guy she's in love with. I've seen it a hundred times, and experienced it a few times myself.

Yeah, that works very well when you're "fresh experience" to her, and she would be easy to fuck. If you fucked her a few times, she'll be in this state the first few weeks. Now try to keep her in that state just for two years, spending 70% of your free time with her.
You obviously never tried.

Quote:Are you sure you aren't a woman? Because any player would know this.

I know a good way you really can make sure, but unless you're gay or bi you won't like it Smile

You keep describing what a "woman in love" is. This is a moot point . My question was how long you gonna keep her in love as you apparently believe that you'll be able to do it for at least 22 years (4 years before she's qualified as a mother, and at least 18 more for the kids to grow up).

Quote:Young girls are difficult to keep not because they don't respond to alpha behavior, but because they'll drop you [ii]the moment[/i] the alpha behavior stops.

They'll also drop you for a zillion of reasons. Mostly because the attention span of an attractive young girl is very short - she's bombarded with much more attention she can handle. Not to mention you're not the only dude who thinks he has "tight alpha game".

Quote:The challenge with young girls is not slipping into beta behavior, which is easy to do when you're making love to a 21 yr old with big eyes, a tight ass, a melodic voice, soft hair and skin, and a soaking wet vagina every night. (Like the girl I fucked last night)

Something here makes me believe you have self esteem issues. In fact those small pieces tells a lot about you, much more than you think it does.

Nevertheless, yeah so you're not "slipping into beta behavior" when you make love to her. Now what happens when you're NOT making love to her? When you're under the pressure because the chick you fucked yesterday got mad on you and claimed to file rape charges against you? When you're sick with a flu lying on a bed and feeling completely like shit?

Quote:This also sounds like projection from a woman.
I'm not "losing my years of my life" when I date a woman, for three reasons.

This is because you need to think with your upper head and not with your lower head which by definition cannot think about anything without a "slipping vagina".

Weren't the whole point of this discussion about getting into relationship and having kids? A 30yo father is great. A 40yo, a little late but still acceptable. But a 50yo? Sure you can make a baby when you're even older, but when your kid is 10, you gonna be 60. Do you think about it? My kids grandparents are that age! Do you think you'll still be able to click with your son, understand his needs, teach him to do important things?

Quote:I'll have taken the most attractive years of her life, and I'll be in great shape to get a new girl because my game will be sharp from dating on the side. I'll have more money and life experience to boot. My dating options will be huge.

Who cares about that? This is important to you now because you're still too immature young. When you grow up, this eventually becomes less and less important.

Quote:- Someone all her friends love and admire.

Oh yeah? From what I've read the typical reaction from them is more likely "You are dating THAT guy??? Not rich, not very attractive, and treats you like shit... what did you find in him?"

And yeah, I'm still waiting for the answers to my questions.
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Old Nemesis I agree with you on some of your marriage points. But going as far as to diss Roissy is nuts.

Also just because you and your wife are into the swinger scene doesn't mean that is "ok" or cool for everyone else. I think there is room here for men with varying POV's on marriage and raising children.
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(03-14-2012 01:56 AM)Rocco81 Wrote:  Old Nemesis I agree with you on some of your marriage points. But going as far as to diss Roissy is nuts.

There is no diss. I call him "wannabe alpha" because that's exactly what I'm think he is. Note that I'm not saying this doesn't work, or that he doesn't get laid. It is just the way he described himself in a few posts I've read he looks a very reactive guy whose reaction on the environment is based on something he seen in the "Animal planet" or in some movie.

Quote:Also just because you and your wife are into the swinger scene doesn't mean that is "ok" or cool for everyone else.

Nor I suggest it should be.
However in the situation where one got a very attractive young chick kind-of-living-with-him and he still wants to go out and fuck other women behind her back, the one should expect her to do the same. That's why I ask if he's ok with that.
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(03-14-2012 05:17 PM)oldnemesis Wrote:  Nor I suggest it should be.
However in the situation where one got a very attractive young chick kind-of-living-with-him and he still wants to go out and fuck other women behind her back, the one should expect her to do the same. That's why I ask if he's ok with that.

You speak of guys who step out on their women being ok with their women doing the same? Is this to be expected of women with cheating guys? What about Hugh Hefner and all his lizards? They knew he was fcuking different ones, did they step out on him?'

You speak of highly attractive women only putting up with guys who have money or status but how do you explain women like Ginger from Casino?

I know she was fictional but there are plenty women in life with situations like that. Some women just fall for certain guys and those guys can almost get away with anything and as long as these guys maintain the minimum triggers, the lizards will more likely than not, stick around for the long haul.

Are these norms or exceptions to the rule? Perhaps you are seeing things from a Russian/Ukranian perspective where the women are more calculating but women from a more passionate culture will operate on from a more emotional basis rather than the practical one you have illustrated.

Is this a possibility, perhaps, old nem?

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(03-14-2012 05:17 PM)oldnemesis Wrote:  Nor I suggest it should be.
However in the situation where one got a very attractive young chick kind-of-living-with-him and he still wants to go out and fuck other women behind her back, the one should expect her to do the same. That's why I ask if he's ok with that.

Somewhere on the continuum of status and looks there is a dude with relatively average looks, above average but not outrageous income, keeping his LTR girl in check, getting some on the side, and not putting up with her cheating. I understand that is not your reality, but why would you tell others to plan on failing?
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(03-15-2012 02:11 AM)Moma Wrote:  You speak of guys who step out on their women being ok with their women doing the same? Is this to be expected of women with cheating guys? What about Hugh Hefner and all his lizards? They knew he was fcuking different ones, did they step out on him?'


wow, you don't think Hef's girlfriends are getting dick on the side?
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(03-15-2012 03:54 AM)Blunt Wrote:  
(03-14-2012 05:17 PM)oldnemesis Wrote:  Nor I suggest it should be.
However in the situation where one got a very attractive young chick kind-of-living-with-him and he still wants to go out and fuck other women behind her back, the one should expect her to do the same. That's why I ask if he's ok with that.

Somewhere on the continuum of status and looks there is a dude with relatively average looks, above average but not outrageous income, keeping his LTR girl in check, getting some on the side, and not putting up with her cheating. I understand that is not your reality, but why would you tell others to plan on failing?

I live in a situation not entirely unlike that. It does however require that you have your plans made from day one. And everything you do within that relationship has to conform to that plan.

I made this plan because I eventually want to get kids, and that is at the same time my leverage. How many guys on here are able to barter with such an item?

Unless you have some kind of leverage, a goal that you have committed with your partner or you are a rock star or hold major $$ I can not see any other way to make these scenarios work.
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(03-15-2012 03:54 AM)Blunt Wrote:  Somewhere on the continuum of status and looks there is a dude with relatively average looks, above average but not outrageous income, keeping his LTR girl in check, getting some on the side, and not putting up with her cheating. I understand that is not your reality, but why would you tell others to plan on failing?

I got some friends that would do something similar. But, they married and had kids with their women. They made a commitment but still fucked around on the side when they went out with "friends".

I don't doubt that their wives would leave them if they found out and it kept happening. I don't see any woman staying with a guy forever unless marriage was on the tables. They may stay for a year or two but will leave for a guy who is willing to make a commitment.

Yeah, love can blind them but love changes over time. Normally after the 2 year mark that intense love feeling they have will change which is why you better have something else in common or kids to keep the relationship going. That is if you want it to keep going.

Women love that feeling and love the idea of getting married. Once that feeling ends then they will look for something else. That may be raising their kid, finding another man or both.

I think we are going around in circles on this topic now. I hope Samsaeu gets everything he wants. It isn't about hating on the guy, I just don't see it as being realistic.
03-15-2012 01:17 PM
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RE: Papa from RSD gets married
(03-15-2012 02:11 AM)Moma Wrote:  You speak of guys who step out on their women being ok with their women doing the same? Is this to be expected of women with cheating guys? What about Hugh Hefner and all his lizards? They knew he was fcuking different ones, did they step out on him?'

Nope. As I said, this is all about the value balance. Hugh Hefner has much more value than the chicks he lives with. This allows him to set the different rules for himself and for them - and they would accept it. Quod licet Iovi, non licet bovi.

You don't even have to be Hugh Hefner to create the same situation. For example if you're a sugar daddy or a sponsor you can demand the chick should stay faithful to you while she could not demand anything like that from you. Or you can date an ugly/fat/old chick who knows no other guy like you would ever pay her any attention till the rest of her days.

It is a very easy formula. If your real value is much higher than hers you can have more leeway than her. If her real value is much higher than yours (an old rich chick getting herself a gigolo boy) then she can have more leeway than you. But if your value is similar - which is the case for the most people - you'll have to play by the same rules, either defined or implied.

Quote:I know she was fictional but there are plenty women in life with situations like that. Some women just fall for certain guys and those guys can almost get away with anything and as long as these guys maintain the minimum triggers, the lizards will more likely than not, stick around for the long haul.

Apparently a lot of guys joining the discussion seem to forget that we're not talking here about fucking a random chick for a few months. We're talking about an average dude who is not Hugh Hepher having a stable 18+ years relationship with kids with a chick who is 12 years younger than you and beauty-wise belongs to the top 5%. And the dude says he'll fuck other girls outside the relationship (even maintain a separate apartment for that). This is where I say that the chick will have some fun on the side too. So do you agree with that or not?
03-15-2012 06:01 PM
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RE: Papa from RSD gets married
(03-15-2012 03:54 AM)Blunt Wrote:  Somewhere on the continuum of status and looks there is a dude with relatively average looks, above average but not outrageous income, keeping his LTR girl in check, getting some on the side, and not putting up with her cheating.

And his GF is top 5% looks-wise and 12 years younger than him, right?
Just checking we're talking about the same thing here.
03-15-2012 06:22 PM
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RE: Papa from RSD gets married
(03-10-2012 11:57 AM)germanico Wrote:  
(03-08-2012 08:41 PM)Samseau Wrote:  He hangs out with guys from RSD who purportedly have tight game.

Purportedly is the word.

Quote: Did he learn nothing?

Was was there to learn? "Hey Papa, use the claw. Hey Papa, do a spin before talking to her. Hey Papa, remember the woo..."

ha this had me dying. Brought back some memories...remember the woo lol.
03-15-2012 06:41 PM
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RE: Papa from RSD gets married
I know this shit doesn't matter to most of you, but she is probably not poor. She went to Harvard and owns her own financial education business. Granted, the business may not be a huge money-maker, but it shows shes not a money grubbing whore.

Now. For most of us on here, we just want to fuck hot girls and remain the player lifestyle. He may not have wanted that. I don't know him personally, but I would probably imagine he wants a family and traditional american life. He probably doesn't see the "decline of the american male" as much as most, as he's probably from a well-off family and probably makes an income way above most people on this board. The problem with marriage mostly exists for people in lower socioeconomic brackets. But I won't deny that it is creeping into the upper echelons of society. Also, his lifestyle is conducive to having a chick tag along to all these different countries. He teaches and tours around the world, so buying airline tickets to him is like filling up the gas tank for us.

Anyway, to get back on track. If I were to get married, I would take other factors besides physical attractiveness and femininity into account. Does she keep her place clean? Does she have an education? What is her family like? Do we vibe? Do we have the same values? What will she be like as a mother? Countless other factors besides being attracted to her. That might be what he did, too.

Anyway, let me jump of this asian motherfucker's nuts for a second and attempt save myself by saying "I'm just playing devil's advocate"
03-15-2012 06:57 PM
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RE: Papa from RSD gets married
I gotta say, I've been there and done that, and I agree with most of what old nemesis says. It's like when I was in the NYC PUA scene and people would talk all this smack on the forums about how and what they would do and say. The reality is very different from the "ideas" people have.

I was a go to guy on the forums for mLTR's. What Sam says is true for short ish term relationships. Say less then 2 years. Hell, even with Hugh heff the girls leave him and move on after a few years. Ime women are ok with not getting married if you have a commitment, hell I have dated swingers, even when you are fucking other girls, swingers don't want you fucking other girls with out them.

A high value girl will not put up with that shit long term, no matter how tight your game is, or how well you fuck her. The only exception I see is if you really mind fuck her like some doms I know with Thier subs, but we are talking real mind fucking.

Here is the problem with the game, it will warp you, and tell you falling in love is being pussy whipped. Being in love is a great thing, having a great fulfilling relationship is wonderful. The most alpha, confident guys I know are married and in great relationships.

Here is the immaturity I see on the board, all the guys putting too much weight on looks, how hot is the girl Dave d married, how hot is the blond? I have fucked an incredible amount of women, some smoking hot, great lays, but at the end of the day I'll take a 7 with an amazing personality over a 9 that doesn't know what plethora means. Most of the the true connections I have had with women, were the 7-8's not the 9-10s I've fucked or dated.

Think of it this way, as a guy with tight game you have lots of options which is why its so hard to settle with just one woman, a woman who is her top 5% with all the qualities Sam mentioned is going to have 5 times the options of the guy on this board with the tightest game. Why would she settle for less then what she wants? She won't ime. At least in the USA.
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RE: Papa from RSD gets married
(03-15-2012 11:23 PM)clr Wrote:  Here is the problem with the game, it will warp you, and tell you falling in love is being pussy whipped. Being in love is a great thing, having a great fulfilling relationship is wonderful. The most alpha, confident guys I know are married and in great relationships.

Here is the immaturity I see on the board.

I see a lot of immaturity on these boards. Some of these guys just make themselves look bad and lose credibility as a result of it. On that point, we agree.

Where we disagree. What if you don't want to become the person a woman wants you to change into? What if your vision of the good life is fundamentally different from hers? What then? Talk to married Western men today. Notice how they have to change for her, but she can be whatever she wants.

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RE: Papa from RSD gets married
(03-15-2012 06:22 PM)oldnemesis Wrote:  And his GF is top 5% looks-wise and 12 years younger than him, right?
Just checking we're talking about the same thing here.

Nah we aren't really talking about the same thing. I'm talking about a very attractive chick, younger than you. Top 5%? Maybe not.

12 years younger than you can be significant or minor depending on how old you are. I find as I get older the age difference where we still can relate gets larger.

This is a pretty abstract situation. Anyways, I'm not interested in LTRing a top 5% chick, only one that is very attractive and younger than me so arguing about this is pretty pointless.
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